Gift for friends who's just found out shes pregant

[whymewhyme]

Hi,
My Friend is pregnant very early 4+3 she had a mc last year and is anxious. I've seen a lovely little rose quarts bracelet that I'd like to send to her but I don't know if its too soon to send something. What do you think?

I just want her to know im thinking of her.

rose quarts is ment to " protect" mum and baby through pregnancy.

I think its far too soon and I don't think sending crystals to "protect" her is going to help the anxiety.

I suppose so but she does like that kind of thing.

It's definitely too soon

I will wait till the 12 week mark, thanks for the replys!

Agree too soon. Someone sent me a babygrow after my 12 week scan and even that felt too soon and made me quite anxious about anything going wrong.

Sorry, its a lovely thought but I agree too soon. I've experienced a loss at 11 weeks and I just fear it would make her feel worse if another loss did happen.

What about something she can use to treat herself during the (often difficult) first trimester? Nice shower stuff or something that shows you're thinking of her without being loaded with significance.

I wouldn't be sending her anything.

@PigeonPigPie

Agree too soon. Someone sent me a babygrow after my 12 week scan and even that felt too soon and made me quite anxious about anything going wrong.

I agree even 12 weeks could be too soon. You're best getting something she can use to treat herself nearer the end of her pregnancy or even waiting until baby is here.

It’s a really nice thought! I think after 12 week scan it would be great.

I would definitely wait, if anything was to go wrong god forbid, she'd have a present to remind her constantly of the baby that she no longer has. Lovely thought though OP

Buy her reflexology or a massage of some kind, is great for pregnancy.

Do not give her anything that could trigger bad memories later if she has a mc. You don’t want her flinching from quartz the reat of her life