To be irrationally jealous of those who have accidental pregnancies

[anothersquintyposter]

Seems cruel that some can get pregnant without even trying and those who are desperate for mother hood can't!

My eldest took us four years and a lot of intervention. Second happened without really trying. I cried for three months with the second as I wasn’t prepared. I’ve been on both sides and both were great but neither ideal!

Accidental pregnancies are not nice when using contraception correctly and it fails. It leads to much heartache and life long decisions that can impact negatively.

I am not saying that one is the easier than the other.

Both are rubbish in their own ways but either way it is hard to hear that some can conceive so easily

It's cruel both ways tbh.

It’s Also cruel that those who don’t want to get pregnant when they really can’t cope with it.

Either way it’s hard, right.?

Getting pregnant when you don’t want to be is a really shit position to be in.

I get what you’re trying to say, but I think you need to think about it a bit more.

A pregnancy can be everything from a visceral deep-seated need, to literally the worst thing in the world - and everything in between. You are coming from the position of it being the first of those for you - but it absolutely, categorically is not that for everyone.

for you.