TTC1 after MC.. 9DPO BFN frer .. feeling down and I've become obsessed

[Jayjane79]

Bfn on a frer this morning at 9dpo. I feel so low and down and I've become obsessed with it all.

I was so hoping become pregnant straight away after my MC even though I know its highly unlikely.

I don't even want to take a test tomorrow but I know I will.

Morning, and I'm sorry for your loss

9DPO is still early! Try again on Friday.

Nature is amazing and it has a way of working things out at the right time. It will happen, but the more anxious you are for it to happen NOW, the more your body might put it off a little bit.

Relax - your body might just be choosing the perfect egg.

@Squiff70

Morning, and I'm sorry for your loss

9DPO is still early! Try again on Friday.

Nature is amazing and it has a way of working things out at the right time. It will happen, but the more anxious you are for it to happen NOW, the more your body might put it off a little bit.

Relax - your body might just be choosing the perfect egg.

Thank you, I don't even have a wiff of a symptom this time either so just don't feel very hopeful. Well at least I will be able to have a Christmas drink and hope for my bfp in January.

@Jayjane79 9DPO is something like less than a 20% chance of a positive even if you are pregnant. You’re right, it seems to happen for some straight, but lots don’t experience that. @Squiff70 is right, even though it feels totally unreasonable, your body is waiting for the perfect, most viable egg and sperm combo (plus a good environment). Still waiting for my BFP too xx

I think you'll find a lot of women don't have any symptoms in the week or two after conception! Fingers crossed it happens for you soon x