Hello ladies! Apologies if this is long.
Quick bit of context: I'm 23 years old, TTC #1, came off the combined pill very end of June. Since then I've had my withdrawal bleed and 2 periods (much lighter than they used to be though). The 2 cycles I've had have both been 32 days long, with ovulation around cd 16/17. I don't temp or use OPKs, I go based on CP, CM, and spotting (I've gotten ovulation spotting every month since coming off the pill), which leads me on to my concerns.
Since coming off the pill I've had sporadic spotting throughout my cycle. The first month I had three separate instances of spotting (1 day bleed each time), plus 3 days of spotting before my period began. The second month had my period end with 5 days of spotting, followed by two separate instances of spotting throughout the month (1 day, and 2 day bleeds respectively), followed by 3 days of spotting leading up to my period again.
This month, my period ended with 3 days of spotting and then nothing. I thought my cycle was finally starting to regulate but I wouldn't be here if that was the case. This month I've had no signs of ovulation in CP or CM, it's been firm and creamy since my period ended. On CD 17, right when I expected to ovulate, I got a very large amount of bright red blood that fully stained my underwear (unusual amount of blood for spotting). I assumed I ovulated on this day and BD'd when I got home. The next day, more blood, although this time slightly pinker. I assumed it was just a bit of left over blood and went about my day. The past 3 days since then I have had consistent bright red blood and am now on CD 21, with bright, crimson blood upon wiping. It has been making it to my underwear but not even close to CD 17's level. I have not been using sanitary products as I don't feel like it's needed yet. The blood is also not consistent as far as I can tell.
Essentially, I'm worried something is up. a 5 day bleed during ovulation was never normal for me and, despite my random spotting, isn't normal for me now either. I'm confused as to when I ovulated (if I even have), and whether this is going to have a negative effect on TTC?
If anybody has any advice, wisdom, or similar stories to help me out, that would be amazing!