CD32 BFN and no AF!! Is there still hope??

[FluffyCatLady]

I'm wondering if anyone could give me some hope. My cycles vary from 28-35 days and I'm currently on CD32 with BFN. I've become a bit obsessed with POAS so I'm trying to not but I feel like I have so many symptoms. My lower back has been aching which is really unusual for me. My bbs are swollen. I've been quite light headed when I stand. I've done a FRER and CB test and all BFN. Is there still hope for me?

Hey just wondered how you got on? I’m currently in the same situation, few symptoms but BFN and now a week late x

Hiya, thanks for the reply! Still no af and still bfn! I'm ok CD35 now. I've only been using super bed cheap tests because I was sick of spending money on the good ones but starting to lose hope. My only current symptom is my bbs are big and swollen but not sensitive. I presume I'm just having a super long cycle! Do you have any symptoms?

I’ve had a really weird cycle …. I had these weird cramps in my lower abdomen CD 25-27 which I thought could be implantation or maybe late ovulation, now still waiting for AF and on CD34 .. have been like clockwork since I came off the pill and always was before I went into it as well. Since CD25 my boobs have been swollen and tender but that seems to have eased these last few days. Loads of CM CD 24-29 which makes me think Kate ovulation but I’m really not sure.
Last test was yesterday morning and BFN. Will probs test again sat/sun if no AF

Literally in exactly the same position. I went through this stage of a few days (when I was testing a lot) where I had textbook symptoms. And other than the swollen bbs they've pretty much all gone away now and I'm just waiting for AF but no sign of it. Also, last Wednesday (8days ago) I took an old cheap test I had which showed positive. I'm assuming now that this was false since I've not had another positive since and used a variety of brands. But getting a false positive is SO cruel! I'm just in a situation where I wonder if the stress of that has actually delayed AF. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for both of us that we do actually get a BFP! Please keep me updated.

I will do!!
I just hate all the confusion. I wish it was simple 😂

@FluffyCatLady any news? X

No AF and no BFP still. I was out all day today and now I feel like I have a lot of sort of pulling pains in my uterus area but could just be nothing. Also keep getting back ache. I've definitely given up hope but im also just so confused at what's caused the long cycle.
Do you have any news? :) x

No AF no BFP, tested this morning & was negative. Last 3 days have been nauseous after evening meal and had lower stomach cramps & back ache since yesterday. No idea what’s going on, seem to have a few pregnancy signs but all tests negative and if I’m honest I don’t feel like I am pregnant. So confusing

I feel a similar way. I'm now CD39 and now AF. Had quite bad cramping yesterday and felt like AF was coming and then never showed. Haven't tested for a few days but will test in the next couple and keep you posted. Pretty much feel like im just waiting for AF now.

Hi I just wondered how you both got on? X

Hiya, I'm now on CD46 and so so convinced I am pregnant. I'm on holiday and took a clear blue digital this morning and BFN! So confused. I keep getting cramps as if AF is coming and I'll have them for hours and then nothing. My bbs are more big and swollen than they've ever been. I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much but hoping I ovulated late. Are you ttc?

In a similar situation myself, will be two weeks late on Monday, have taken a few tests, a couple of ic’s, thought I saw something on them, took a CB this morning and saw a horizontal line?! Going to try wait until Monday to take another, but pretty convinced I’m pregnant - sore boobs, lots of discharge, super moody… just don’t know what’s going on.
Are you able to get a FRER whilst away?

Hi, thanks for joining. Makes it so much better to know I'm not in it alone. I'm now on CD51 and took a test today and it was BFN. It was an internet cheap test but I don't really want to waste any more money on FRER until I see a faint line on a cheap one. I keep getting cramping as if I'm going to get AF and then it stops. TMI but today I got loads of watery discharge, so much that I had to change my underwear. I feel so silly getting so worked up about it because it's my first month TTC. Almost think that makes it worse though because have never TTC before and the first month this happens and get to CD51 and still BFNs. I've seen a few threads where people didn't get BFP until week 7/8 so trying not to lose hope. Otherwise just really want AF to come so I can start again. Do you have consistent cycles?

@FluffyCatLady it’s exciting and frustrating isn’t it? I mean, hopefully no AF means we’re still in with a chance… but hate not knowing. I have had similar with discharge too over the last few days, just don’t really understand why. Plus feeding my little girl has been really painful today, which has never happened before.
Really hope you get your BFP soon :)
How are you feeling otherwise? Do you have any symptoms?

I have days where I'm really convinced I have every symptom: back ache, frequent urination, sore bbs, feeling sick, cramps etc. Then there's others where I just don't really think about it and I don't have any. But what I would say is that my bbs have been definitely bigger and heavier since cd32. And It's a really weird one but my uterus area feels like kind of warm and stiff all the time.
Definitely not going to lose hope until I see AF but just don't understand how I could still be getting BFNs if the symptoms were real ya'no.
Have you had any other weirder symptoms?

@FluffyCatLady that’s why I can’t really get excited either, if I was pregnant surely I’d be seeing something on a test by now?
It’s funny how some days you have so many, others you don’t, I wonder if that’s hormone peaks on the days you do.
After feeling a bit excited after taking the CB yesterday, I’ve had a glaring negative on an IC this morning, so really doubt I am. My main symptom, which has been getting worse over the last few days is really sore/achey boobs, to the point it’s hurting to breastfeed. I’ve had a few cramps, but not many, and started to feel nauseous yesterday - but not sure if I’m starting to symptom spot. With my DD I only found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks, so up to that point I may have had signs but none that I knew was down to pregnancy. (Other than remembering how painful my boobs were for weeks!)
How are you feeling this morning?