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Praying AF doesn't turn up

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My2boysaremyworld · 21/05/2021 20:22

Hi everyone Smile so Iv been feeling sick since last Saturday. Appetite is up and down but craving greasy food. AF is due on Sunday but been cramping on and off since yesterday Confused I did 2 tests this morning, one normal and one that can test up to 5 days early. Both were negative. I just feel so different, the nausea is my biggest sign for me I'm hoping. Anybody else waiting? Smile

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 14:53

[quote ChikiTIKI]@my2boysaremyworld I think Friday at the latest, that's my best guess![/quote]
Keeping fingers crossed for you xx

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Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 15:25

@ChikiTIKI hello then, cycle buddy :) cycle sister? Cycle twin? Fingers crossed either way Wink

ChikiTIKI · 25/05/2021 16:35

@Bundaberg84 any of the above are good with me!! Are you testing on Friday?

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 16:48

[quote ChikiTIKI]@my2boysaremyworld I think Friday at the latest, that's my best guess![/quote]
I think I'm out 😢 just did a test and BFN! Then had a show when I wiped 😢 cried my eyes out whilst sitting on the toilet. My cramps feels like AF ones now so I'm convinced she's coming xx

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Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 16:51

@My2boysaremyworld I'm so sorry lovely! I know that devastating feeling. Treat yourself, do everything you couldn't while pregnant. Look after yourself ❤️
@ChikiTIKI I try to hold out that long. I'm literally sitting next to the drawer with the tests in it, in my home office. Alone. It's sooo tempting.

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 17:03

[quote Bundaberg84]@My2boysaremyworld I'm so sorry lovely! I know that devastating feeling. Treat yourself, do everything you couldn't while pregnant. Look after yourself ❤️
@ChikiTIKI I try to hold out that long. I'm literally sitting next to the drawer with the tests in it, in my home office. Alone. It's sooo tempting.[/quote]
Thank you xx

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ChikiTIKI · 25/05/2021 18:23

I'm sorry @my2boysaremyworld sounds like an awful afternoon. Take care of yourself xx

@Bundaberg84 I would have tested by now if I had any in the house. You are a stronger woman than me! I've had really sore nipples today but I had that last month for several days before Af, I think because of breastfeeding. Reduced down to once a day now, dropped the night feed a couple of nights ago. That should help with TTC anyway if it's a bfn this month.

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 18:29

@ChikiTIKI

I'm sorry *@my2boysaremyworld* sounds like an awful afternoon. Take care of yourself xx

@Bundaberg84 I would have tested by now if I had any in the house. You are a stronger woman than me! I've had really sore nipples today but I had that last month for several days before Af, I think because of breastfeeding. Reduced down to once a day now, dropped the night feed a couple of nights ago. That should help with TTC anyway if it's a bfn this month.

Thanks. Just been the toilet and nothing! Cramping has eased off too! Could it be cuz I tested later in the day so diluted?? Xx
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ChikiTIKI · 25/05/2021 19:11

@OP maybe!! Ooh I hope you get your bfp this month. Maybe you should hold off on testing for a few days... Fancy joining in on Friday?

Mummylucy11 · 25/05/2021 19:12

I've 7 days until AF feel sick cramps back ache. Tested Sunday and got this!! But since I've had all negatives Sad

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 19:18

@Mummylucy11

I've 7 days until AF feel sick cramps back ache. Tested Sunday and got this!! But since I've had all negatives Sad
That's mad it definitely looks positive to me xx
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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 19:22

[quote ChikiTIKI]@OP maybe!! Ooh I hope you get your bfp this month. Maybe you should hold off on testing for a few days... Fancy joining in on Friday?[/quote]
Was this msg meant for me? Xx

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Mummylucy11 · 25/05/2021 19:24

I'm going insane and got some serious line eyes! Why can't it just be simple!?

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 19:29

@Mummylucy11

I'm going insane and got some serious line eyes! Why can't it just be simple!?
So you've done more tests since that positive one and they've been negative? Xx
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Mummylucy11 · 25/05/2021 19:37

Yes every single one has been negative! The positive one came up straight away. I'm guessing chemical? It's just bizarre i didn't even get a faint 2nd one. I'm gutted

Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 19:43

@Mummylucy11 7 days before AF is very early. How mane dpo are you?

Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 19:43

@My2boysaremyworld that is sooo weird!

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 19:45

[quote Bundaberg84]@My2boysaremyworld that is sooo weird![/quote]
Still nothing when I checked just! I'm so emotional xx

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Mummylucy11 · 25/05/2021 19:46

I'm only 8 dpo x

ChikiTIKI · 25/05/2021 19:52

Yes @My2boysaremyworld sorry! Thought it would be easier to type.

Sorry @mummylucy11 that sounds confusing. I would wonder chemical too. Or dodgy test. Did you do all the subsequent tests in the morning?

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 20:04

@ChikiTIKI

Yes *@My2boysaremyworld* sorry! Thought it would be easier to type.

Sorry @mummylucy11 that sounds confusing. I would wonder chemical too. Or dodgy test. Did you do all the subsequent tests in the morning?

I don't know if I can wait until Friday. I'm thinking of doing one in the morning using first urine sample. I really want to find out if I'm positive when my sons are at their dads house. That way I can tell Martin my partner the good news and not let my boys find out too soon. Stupid I know. Does anyone else plan how they will tell their OH the good news? My boys are back at mine on Friday xx
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Bundaberg84 · 25/05/2021 20:10

@My2boysaremyworld when I was pregnant shortly in February I just went to him and said oh shit look at that! 😂

feliznavidad2 · 25/05/2021 20:31

When I found out last time, I told OH I thought I was preggo and he was like 'uhh you said that last month' Hmmso he went off on his work trip abroad and I thought I'd test sneakily in his absence, and he'd be none the wiser and then it showed a bloody BFP. So I then felt really surprised, rang him and it went to voicemail so said 'need to speak to you, ring me when you get this' etc and he rang back when his flight landed and said 'are you pregnant?' 😆

I celebrated with a fancy little pudding pot from M&S. I bought it incase it was negative and I was sad. But it was in fact a celebratory pud!

My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 20:43

[quote Bundaberg84]@My2boysaremyworld when I was pregnant shortly in February I just went to him and said oh shit look at that! 😂[/quote]
🤣🤣xx

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My2boysaremyworld · 25/05/2021 20:43

@feliznavidad2

When I found out last time, I told OH I thought I was preggo and he was like 'uhh you said that last month' Hmmso he went off on his work trip abroad and I thought I'd test sneakily in his absence, and he'd be none the wiser and then it showed a bloody BFP. So I then felt really surprised, rang him and it went to voicemail so said 'need to speak to you, ring me when you get this' etc and he rang back when his flight landed and said 'are you pregnant?' 😆

I celebrated with a fancy little pudding pot from M&S. I bought it incase it was negative and I was sad. But it was in fact a celebratory pud!

Lovely xx
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