BFP but worried sick about another loss.

[Jely123]

Hey everyone so I got a super faint line on 9dpo and thought it was an evap. Since have took a test daily (wondfo brand) and the lines don't seem to be getting much darker?
Took a clear blue digital today witch came back positive.
Iv had a few chemicals and miscarriage and I'm just worried sick I feel like I'm in limbo waiting for the worst.
I'm 13 dpo will post the last theee days test and this mornings on its own.

How do people cope with the worry and stop testing every day :( feel super lonely

Stop testing. I had a loss and still got positive tests 3 weeks after medical management so testing won't tell you anything. If you got a positive test and you're not bleeding assume all is well!

I didn’t stop testing with my last chemical. I saw the line getting darker and then getting lighter. If testing helps your peace of mind, do it! Good luck!

I always found the cheaper tests don't darken very quickly so you don't really see much progression (plus hcg doubles every 2-3 days so even on sensitive tests you can't always see a difference day to day)
Look reall good at the moment especially the positive digital.

I know it's easier said than done (I've had 5 chemical pregnancies from the last 5 cycles and had one before my little one as well so I know how nerve wracking it is. With our first we booked an early scan for 6.5 weeks to put our minds at rest.

If your dr is aware of the pervious losses it might be worth asking if they will do a blood test to check everything is progressing well and tell them how worried you are and how it's affecting you. They might not if don't suspect something is wrong but worth the phone call if it might help you.

Keeping everything crossed for you, good luck 💕

@Jely123 sorry for your losses. Please stop testing as it won't change the outcome.

I had a mmc and really do understand the anxiety after in my following pregnancy, and honestly, it never really leaves you. However, I do have an almost 8 month old now who snuck into my bed for cuddles at 5am.

Hey all thank you all for the reply's!!
I tried to stop testing but honestly i feel I need to just for peace of mind.
Tests are now fading though unfortunately I'll put tests up wondfo from 13 & 14 dpo
And another brand from 14dpo and 15 dpo witch is today.

@Jely123

Hey all thank you all for the reply's!! I tried to stop testing but honestly i feel I need to just for peace of mind. Tests are now fading though unfortunately I'll put tests up wondfo from 13 & 14 dpo And another brand from 14dpo and 15 dpo witch is today.

Sorry typo on the fainter test. This was 15dpo am**

Sorry @Jely123 those tests are looking very faint now for 15dpo. When is AF due?

@Hopefulhedgehog

Sorry *@Jely123* those tests are looking very faint now for 15dpo. When is AF due?

@Hopefulhedgehog I know :( sometimes it seems fmu doesn't come out as strong at my afternoon so I'll see what happens later. I'm 15dpo af was due 12dpo but this cycle was a super short one witch was unusual so not 100%

Hope you have answers soon, the limbo is so tough xx

False alarm I believe girls.
Took a wondfo this evening as evening always seems better for me and a cheap test with same sample I think the cheaper tests worried me to much there clearly awful!!!

Heavy bleeding and cramping today doesn't look good :(

So sorry @Jely123 ☹️

Have you been in touch with your GP to be reffered to your local fertility clinic jely.

If you are having recurrent chemical pregnancies may be something as simple as you needing baby asprin to sustain a healthy pregnancy. It's worth getting in touch and having your bloods done.

Fingers crossed for you, I'm sorry about your losses