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7 months TTC, 1 early miscarriage and nothing..

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moly39x · 19/03/2021 21:27

Maybe a slight rant but...I know that a lot of people have been trying longer, but do you ever just feel like it won't happen?!?😭

We were very lucky to get a BFP cycle 1, which ended in a miscarriage at 5 weeks and since then... nothing! We've done SMEP, OPK's, vitamins, I've tried the 'not thinking about it' and still no luck.

I guess I'm just wanting it so bad, I feel like it won't ever happen. It's such a lonely journey and I can't cope with families comments of 'come on, when will you two have a baby'.. like, I'm trying I honestly am 😭😭😭😭

How long did it takes others to conceive.. I know everyone's different, but a little bit of positive is what I need 🥺

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Happythoughts91 · 19/03/2021 22:27

Heyyy we’re on our 6 month abs nothing! We’re tracking cycles, doing OPKs, taking vitamins and nothing. Fingers crossed we don’t have to wait much longer, finding it really draining. Especially as everyone I speak to has fallen pregnant on the first month!

Farfaraway1 · 20/03/2021 00:52

I feel ya.. my first took 11 months to conceive, my second on the first try and now TTC our third. Have been off the pill since Nov 2019. Had one MMC followed by D&C then a CP. it’s been 8 months since the surgery. Surely we must be due a BFP soon!! Hang in there and know you’re not alone xx

moly39x · 20/03/2021 08:19

Thank you ladies, Atleast I know I'm not the only one feeling like this 😟

It's so crazy that we are taught in school, unprotected sex means pregnancy and not made aware of the complications!

I'm already CD6 so next month, cause let's face it, I won't get that BFP this month, I'm going to try soy isoflavones on CD3-7!

Hope we soon get our bfp!!xx

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wanderlnst · 20/03/2021 08:41

I feel your pain &
@moly39x

I was ttc for 8 months, had a mmc and then ttc for another 8 months before I fell pregnant again. Now have a 6 month old dd. It is frustrating but very normal to take up to a year as I'm sure you know.

When I was ttc (and hugely frustrated) I tried to think on the positives- you're overwhelmingly likely to conceive by August!

moly39x · 21/03/2021 23:38

Hi @wanderlnst

I'm sorry to hear you had such a bad time with it but lovely to hear you now have your DD 🥰

I'm hoping we do get a BFP this year and if not, come January I'll be off to the dr for checks! I feel ill have given myself a good 15/18 months at that point! X

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