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10dpo bfn - is all hope lost?!

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km1990 · 20/02/2021 21:30

i'm on month 6 of TTC and this morning I got a bfn on 10dpo :(

I really thought this was going to be our month, does anyone have experience getting a bfn on 10dpo that went on to be positive?

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bfp2 · 20/02/2021 21:33

Hope isnt lost. So many get their bfps much later. Try in 48 hours.

I'm 10dpo tomorrow, can I ask what symptoms you have if any?

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km1990 · 20/02/2021 21:50

@bfp2 I’ve had some light cramping and tiredness, as well as some moodiness but these could all be my period coming! It’s so cruel pregnancy and AF symptoms are so similar!! Sad

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bfp2 · 20/02/2021 21:53

Yes they are!! I'm usually a bit moody nearer to AF but haven't been so far.

Missingthebridegene · 20/02/2021 21:55

Of course hopes not lost hun x like PP said I'd wait two days, four if possible! Are your cycles regular? Have you felt any different this month, in terms of why you were more hopeful this month etc? X

buzz91 · 20/02/2021 21:59

Some people get bfn this early and go on to get bfp’s later on! Good luck!
I’m 10dpo too, reluctant to take a test but had cramping, stabby abdominal pain, fatigue and nausea last weekend, just have a strange feeling in my stomach now

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km1990 · 20/02/2021 22:06

@Missingthebridegene yea I am lucky my cycles are very regular and consistent. I’ve been taking some extra vitamins and work has been a lot less stressful than normal which I had hoped would have helped TTC! Will keep my fingers crossed xx

@buzz91 - I do wish I waited now as I’ve been disappointed all day, should have just waited for AF to know for sure. Good luck!!

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1990shopefulftm · 20/02/2021 22:25

Yes I did, BFN at 10 dpo and got a very clear positive the day my period was due, only symptom was a tiny bit of nausea.

Toastedsesame · 20/02/2021 22:28

Both times I've been pregnant I've got stark white BFN on 10 and 11dpo. Got bfp on 12dpo both times. Don't lose hope!

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km1990 · 20/02/2021 22:38

@Toastedsesame thank you! That gives me hope as it was so white this morning and I was gutted. If it doesn’t happen this month I’m definitely waiting to test next month, not worth the stress!

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Missingthebridegene · 20/02/2021 22:41

Good luck OP x TTC is really stressful! It's definitely hard not to become obsessed and just live for ovulation and the TWW! x

buzz91 · 21/02/2021 20:50

My resolve failed and I took one this morning when I saw I had a “4 days early” test. It was invalid...

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