Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TWW! Lets keep eachother sane

89 replies

mumtoone2019 · 19/02/2021 10:58

Hey everyone!

Anyone else in the TWW! I'm halfway through and going insane😩 i've had so many symptoms and i think i've also had implantation bleeding but worried its all in my head!

How are you all getting on?

OP posts:
mumtoone2019 · 27/02/2021 07:37

Thank you everyone! I was due AF On Thursday and still not come on. Took a test yesterday with FMU and BFN. So confused just wish i'd either get AF so i knew or get a BFP. The waiting is killing me

OP posts:
ACMJ · 02/03/2021 20:41

Hi everyone, sorry I have been so quiet it’s been a rocky road over here. So yesterday I started experiencing cramping and some pink spotting, me being the worrier I am went to my fertility clinic and requested blood tests and paid for a very early scan (4 weeks 6 days!!) to which they reluctantly agreed. They saw nothing on the scann, not even a gestational sac which should be visible by now ā˜¹ļøā˜¹ļø I have had more spotting today and my tests are getting lighter. Waiting for the blood test results to come back tomorrow to see what’s going on, she said it could be one of three things
1.too early dates mixed up
2.eptopic 😳

  1. Miscarriage about to happen. She said it was 50/50 between 1/2 and 3. Literally cried all day....
...But my endometrium is still incredibly thick and my cervix closed so she really had no idea.. as I haven’t actually bled she said I couldn’t of passed it already and to be honest my spotting has slowed down now so who knows!! Sitting duck over here
Mum2Girls19 · 02/03/2021 20:56

Hi all

I am 9 DP0 today and the TWW is killing me...

Vemjs · 02/03/2021 21:00

Hi šŸ™‹šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø ttc 2nd child ... first time round fell pregnant first month off pill, came off pill last year ttc for 6 months gave up and went back on It.

This is first month off pill ttc again! I would guess I'm in tww but not entirely sure!

Fingers crossed for you all x

Bee44 · 02/03/2021 21:32

@ACMJ I was literally thinking about you earlier wondering how you were getting on! So sorry to hear about what you're going through, I can't begin to imagine the emotions you've been through over the past few days. Fingers crossed you don't get any more spotting, try to stay positive which I know will be hard but hopefully the cervix/no fresh blood is a positive to focus on šŸ¤žšŸ».

My TWW turned into an almost 3WW šŸ™„ AF was due last Saturday and hasn't appeared but I've had constant bfn's. No idea what's happening but I'm guessing February just wasn't my month.

Alice4563 · 03/03/2021 08:56

@ACMJ I'm so sorry it sounds like you've had a very stressful few days! I really hope it's option number 1 for you and your dates are slightly out. I know some spotting and bleeding can be normal in healthy pregnancies so try not to lose hope!

My AF arrived today, about 1 day late I think just to tease me but I was getting negative tests so didn't have much hope. Trying to see the positive and use another month(s) to diet and get as small as I can before I spend the next 9 months addicted to hot chocolate if it's anything like my first Blush. Obviously I won't be thinking this during the next TWW though when I go insane again!

@Mum2Girls19 and @Vemjs fingers crossed for you both :)

mumtoone2019 · 03/03/2021 10:22

[quote Alice4563]@ACMJ I'm so sorry it sounds like you've had a very stressful few days! I really hope it's option number 1 for you and your dates are slightly out. I know some spotting and bleeding can be normal in healthy pregnancies so try not to lose hope!

My AF arrived today, about 1 day late I think just to tease me but I was getting negative tests so didn't have much hope. Trying to see the positive and use another month(s) to diet and get as small as I can before I spend the next 9 months addicted to hot chocolate if it's anything like my first Blush. Obviously I won't be thinking this during the next TWW though when I go insane again!

@Mum2Girls19 and @Vemjs fingers crossed for you both :)[/quote]
@Alice4563 on to the next month for you, maybe a christmas baby instead how exciting! I'm 6 days late but negative tests so..

How are you finding dieting? Also trying to lose weight myself

OP posts:
Mum2Girls19 · 03/03/2021 10:35

Morning Ladies...

I am 10 dpo I took a FR this morning and it was a negative
Feeling deflated
But my chart looks great so not sure whats happening

Alice4563 · 03/03/2021 10:47

@mumtoone2019 fingers crossed for you, I’ve heard people on here who don’t get positive tests until later. It’s so hard waiting isn’t it.

Dieting is going slowly..I lost most the baby weight from my daughter but then when I got pregnant with the baby I miscarried I ate tonnes and all the wrong stuff! I quickly gained a stone! I think because I hoped I’d fall pregnant again quickly I didn’t try very hard to lose it but now it’s taking longer I’ve no excuse haha. How about you?

@Mum2Girls19 10dpo is still very early there’s definitely still a chance. With my last pregnancy I got a negative on 10dpo in the morning and a positive late that night (because i go a bit crazy with testing)..it could still take a few days beyond that but shows how quickly it can change.

mumtoone2019 · 04/03/2021 07:07

@Alice4563 i'm the same! I lost nearly 2 stone then just cant get my head back into it but until AF arrives not sure if i should be trying if you get me? I'm very overweight so ideally wanted to lose it before getting pregnant but now i'm getting too impatient haha x

OP posts:
Alice4563 · 04/03/2021 15:20

@mumtoone2019 it’s tough isn’t it, in a kind of limbo state so can’t get fully motivated. I find I’m ok till I have a bad few nights sleep with DD then just want nothing but carbs!

ACMJ · 06/03/2021 09:32

Sorry ladies! I was hoping to spread some luck on this journey but unfortunately it wasn’t meant to be for us this month. We miscarried on Thursday morning...as we’ve had 2 in a row now they’ve said they will investigate if we have one more 😩 feels awful having to wait to see if I have another before anything is done...hope you’re all well x

Vemjs · 06/03/2021 19:36

Lots of love to you @ACMJ keep faith xx

Alice4563 · 06/03/2021 22:16

@ACMJ Oh god I’m so sorry :( it’s the worst feeling in the world and such a cruel thing to have to go through...I remember being shocked when they told me you have to have 3 before they investigate too. I hope you’re doing ok x

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.