Anyone get annoyed or just me?🤣

[Gamechanger2019]

Anyone else get annoyed when your partner/husband just can’t do it during your window? Haha I feel bad but it’s like come on one job...it’s not even like I’m a sex pest but annoys me we have to do all this analysing for the peak and it arrives and they’re not interested. We had a MC in January, and both want this but frustrates me if I don’t feel we’re doing everything in our control. Anyone else partner take weight lifting supplements? I’ve asked my partner to stop some of them for a while to see if that improves things, and then he can get back on them when I have to give up most things for 9 months. Am I the only one here?

I do know how you feel @Gamechanger2019! I got my OPK peak on CD13, we hadn’t done it for a few days before so he was ready for some BD’ing, but the next day when it’s ovulation day, he wasn’t interested even though he knows it’s the most fertile day. The previous month I ‘told’ him we had to have sex and it was a bit of a mood killer, so I’m trying to keep relaxed and be understanding that he doesn’t want it to be forced. He gave me the nod for BD on CD15, day after ovulation, so I made sure I climbed on a soon as I could after we woke that morning 😂 he actually finished, then fell asleep on top of me whilst still inside me for 15 mins so I’m hopeful that worked wonders!

I’m very mindful of the pressure he feels though, so just trying to orchestrate BD around my fertile window without being too pushy. We’re only on cycle 4 though so it is early days, perhaps a few more months on without a BFP and he might want to up his game!

Are you sure he’s 100% committed? And if so does he fully understand about the tracking?

@cat8986 haha love it, that is dedication! It is hard and as you say it’s all about balance but that window is sooo small, we can only manage every other day in the window but mine was extra long this month so we missed the boat with the last round/peak. We’re on on cycle 7, one MC so far and now it’s like come on. I’m probably just getting more annoyed than usual because I know we don’t have too many cycles to go if we want a baby this year, and that’s probably the reason why I’m more frustrated than usual I kinda don’t want another Christmas with no baby if we can help it. I was pregnant last Christmas and probably why I’m more annoyed, but I’ll get over it can’t be helped...always next month. Argh it’s all very consuming isn’t it.

@SatsumasOrClementines yes he’s committed