So yesterday after almost a year of trying we finally got our positive result!
We started tracking my cycles and ovulation about a year ago but soon realised that I had a short cycle (22-24 days) and a short leuteal phase of approx 9 days. We were having sex around ovulation time regularly and I had heard lots of stories about it being very difficult to conceive with a short LP.
After being unsuccessful for the best part of a year we decided to stop tracking, stop obsessing and just relax. Put the fun back into into and enjoy it. Let Mother Nature take her course.
And it worked for us! It was unexpected and a happy little surprise!
I just wanted to say to others who are ina similar boat to us that there is still hope 
I also think there is a lot of be said about taking some pressure off and going with the flow a little.