Hi all, long time lurker but first time poster here.
So I ovulate on the 8th January. I use the app Flo to tell me that because usually we use natural cycles to prevent pregnancy. We have made a mistake twice. In May last year we had unprotected sex on day 9 of my cycle - only just in my firtile window and conceived. This pregnancy ended in MC at 6 weeks but I knew i was pregnant before I missed my period be because I had early symptoms.
Fast forward to this month, and whilst we have been a little careless cycle tracking with post Christmas and January Lockdown Blues, I cant pin point when/if we had sex without condoms and on what day. I do remember that the day before Ovulation my partner used the pull out method but ejaculated on my vulva and stomach area(sorry TMI). I said right away "well that's definitely not a good way to not get pregnant" and we laughed about it. Pregnancy wouldn't be the end of the world, we just didn't feel eager to try again after the MC and have a loose 3 year plan for children.
Anyway. Literally 4 days after ovulation i had a sicky nervous feeling in my stomach and my breasts were really sore. I instantly recognised the feeling from my last pregnancy and told OH about it. Now I dont know if I'm symptom spotting or not but those symptoms have stuck around and in the evenings im feeling really sick and tired. I know noone can tell me if im pg. I'll have to wait and see. Pregnancy tests at 8dpo and 9dpo have both been negative (one clear blue ultra early and one co-op own brand). I just wanna hear other people's similar stories if you have them!