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When did you get your BFP?

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TheBeesKnee · 14/01/2021 14:22

I'm losing my mind.

Usually my cycles are 27-29 days. The longest I've had in the last 12 months (according to my app) was 34 days and that was a one-off.

Today is CD36. I had a BFN on CD32 and last night, which I know was silly of me to not use FMU. No more tests in the house, I've ordered more but they'll arrive late tonight or tomorrow.

I guess I'm trying to cling on to some hope, so I'd love to hear how long your cycles were and on which day you tested positive? Or if you got a BFP after a BFN and how many days there were in between?

I have absolutely no symptoms, not even PMS. I was too hot a couple of nights ago, but that is probably just from too many blankets.

If I'm not pregnant then I just want to get AF out of the way, but the uncertainty is driving me crazy.

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LauraT94 · 20/01/2021 11:13

@TheBeesKnee hi!

I had an odd cycle after coming off the pill and thought I ovulated around CD16 but I actually didn't ovulate until CD35 (3 days after I had expected AF to come!). I got a BFN at 8 and 9 dpo (CD43 and CD44) and finally got my BFP at 11dpo (CD46).

Sorry you're stuck in a limbo of sorts! It does sound like maybe you're just having/have just had a late ovulation this cycle x

Wibblewobble99 · 22/01/2021 20:36

@TheBeesKnee hope you got some answers this week x

TheBeesKnee · 22/01/2021 22:27

Wibblewobble99

Sadly not, BFN this morning so I treated DP and I to a takeaway and a few drinks. Very frustrating and disappointing.

I'm not sure what happened with the GP call debacle but I'll try to make an appointment for next week instead.

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TheBeesKnee · 25/01/2021 13:06

CD 46 today and yet another BFN. That's the 9th negative test. You'd think I would get the hint by now.

I was going to call the GP again but then looked at the NHS website and it says to wait until you've missed 3 periods. Apparently the GP will likely tell you to monitor the situation if you call before that unless you're experiencing any other symptoms Sad

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TheBeesKnee · 27/01/2021 21:57

CD49 and still no AF.

Losing the will to live with all this. I've been having cramps every day or two, which is baffling.

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xoJellyBean · 27/01/2021 22:23

Are they af cramps @TheBeesKnee ?

I'm cd41 and am so done!

agteacht · 27/01/2021 22:32

Hey OP have you been tested for anything, like PCOS?

I previously had an issue which was causing really lengthy cycles and was rectified with medication.

However I also took something called soy isoflavones which you can buy from Holland and Barrett and it really reduced my cycle.

TheBeesKnee · 27/01/2021 22:37

xoJellyBean

It felt as though AF was coming on, but not as strong.

agteacht

Never been tested, but my cycles have been pretty stable - this cycle is a bizarre anomaly.

How long did the soy stuff take to work?

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