20 dpo can someone give advice please :(

[Lavinder]

Hi guys I’m 20 dpo and for a a week or so I have been having cramps like AF is about to come but nothing. Period is 6 days late and it normally happening between 28-30 all the time. I had a few specks or blood super light and hardly noticeable about 7-8dpo. I never get EWCM and for the past three days I been having that (I don’t have it when I ovulate) but all tests iv taken are negative and I use red dye. Has this happened to anyone?
ThAnks x

Hi! Medically I don't think you can be 20 DPO as a luteal phase can't be longer than 17 days I don't think. So you're either pregnant (doesn't sound like it) or you got your ovulation date wrong. What did you use to determine ovulation if I may ask?

I was going by my CM and tracking it through my app, iv been tracking it for pretty much a year. I guess I have stupid hormones and AF is gearing up to be mean haha. I just have some things I never expirenced before and it’s unusual for me to be late. However I agree I must of ovulated at a different time it feels like AF is coming any time and has been for couple weeks so I guess I will wait it out now till she arrives haha

I’m going through similar, approx 3days late for AF so even though I got my peak on Clearblue I expect I didn’t ovulate at that point.

The positive from this for both of us is that hopefully we ovulated later than expected and are still in with a chance. I’ve had negative FRER yesterday as well.

Yes let’s hope we finally get the result haha I’m sending baby dust to you!!

So frustrating because i DTD 3 times in supposed ovulation week one at the start one middle and one at the end. Then I spotted so lightly it was only visible when I wiped. Now I’m just producing creamy CM and had three days of EWCM few days ago and I never get that. It’s just one of those things we can’t figure out until we get a BFP or AF. I for sure know when I’m on my period because I have two days of terrible cramps I have to take pain killers. I just have sharp pains around where cramps are normally it’s so strange!

Let’s hope we ovulated late! Please let me know what happens and if you get your BFP!!! Good luck :)

Yes this happened to me a few times, I got EWCM but I think I just had an anovulatory cycle, I had one which was 48 days, one which was 50 something.
They're horrible because you feel like you should be pregnant but get negative tests and it's just a waiting game for AF to turn up 💛💛

I had PMS (ones I normally get) or early pregnancy symptoms and had them for a while still have a few on and off but I guess I’m just waiting for AF to turn up I just want to be able to try again now haha, the waiting driving me nuts

This was my test I took in the morning so I do think I’m out 🤷🏼‍♀️