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Fleshy is this?! So frustrating

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midnightroses · 08/11/2020 10:29

Hello?

So I'm 9DPO today and took a FRER with FMU.
Within 3/4 minutes I had this line.. I think it must be an indent as I really can't see any colour on it at all. At the 10 minute mark I looked again and it was gone.

Why do these tests have to be so frustrating 😂😔

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midnightroses · 08/11/2020 10:30

Title is supposed to say 'what is this' 😂🤦‍♀️

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NicoleR14 · 08/11/2020 11:00

Most frers have those I thought I was pregnant the first time I saw it but its just the indent of where the line should be it gets you excited for nothing 🙄

midnightroses · 08/11/2020 11:06

@NicoleR14 sorry that you have had the same situation… It really is bad and I can't believe that they are that visible! If you're longing to be pregnant you could easily take that as the wrong thing and think you've got your BFP! 😔😔

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 11:09

Had this last 2 months with these tests but also clear blue always show these when I’m not pg look at these ....

Fleshy is this?! So frustrating
Fleshy is this?! So frustrating
Fleshy is this?! So frustrating
midnightroses · 08/11/2020 11:13

@Idreamof2more it's terrible, I'm really loosing my faith with so many tests at the moment 😔 feeling really crap this morning.
Onto another month..! 😟

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 11:41

@midnightroses me too lovely how long have you been trying for if you don’t mind me asking ? X

midnightroses · 08/11/2020 11:50

@Idreamof2more 7 months now so I know it isn't too long in the grand scheme of things. It just hurts seeing everybody around be pregnant / getting their BFPS! I'm soooo happy for them but I get the twinge of sadness too 😔 the thought of TTC for yet another month sometimes feels like just to much to bare!

How about you? Xx

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 12:08

Well I have been trying for about 3 months. Last month during my period I had a faintish positive on a first response but was obv a chemical pregnancy. I had a miscarriage in March and a medical termination in April. I am almost 41 so can be expected just so uncertain and feel so much pressure because of my age.
7 months is not too bad but can imagine must be frustrating for you. Hopefully we can celebrate together and get our bfps for Christmas xxx

midnightroses · 08/11/2020 12:09

@Idreamof2more sorry to hear of your losses 😟 I had a chemical last month too. It knocks you completely. Xx

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Idreamof2more · 08/11/2020 12:15

Sorry to hear that xx

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