SEPT 2020 BPF testing/ two week wait Gals 🤞🤞

[ChasingRainbow]

Hi girls,
Im currently in the tww and wondering if anyone is too and wants to share their journey. Im currently 8DPO and am doing my best to NOT poas though its so hard! Im literally an addict...but so far so good. Im determined this time to not test before 12DPO!
Bit about me: im 37, Have been ttc for just over a year now and in that time sadly had a MMC x 2 and more recently an ectopic requiring tube removal. So afraid that I wont be able to concieve on the side of my existing tube but ya gota have hope, right?! Hoping for a rainbow baby on this our fourth attempt.

Symptoms so far:
-Bigger boobs but not sore (yet)

• loads of rumblings going on low down
• sleepy after food
• weight loss ( though im on the large side so no harm there!)
• odd lower back pain
• VERY emotional (poor hubbie!)

Would love to chat to ladies in a similar boat to symptom share and have a laugh with in this horrible tww fiasco! Fingers crossed for baby dust for all hoping for their BFP ✨🤰🤗❤

Uploaded it to Femometer and the %reading is as strong as my peak reading (I never get lines darker than the control line, and this was read at less than 5 mins as I was in a rush at work!)

@InfertileGP Unfortunately as it’s out the time frame I’d discount it but test again first thing tomorrow.

Really hope it’s positive for you.

@babblebeee sounds promising!! 🤞🏻

@Imog oooo- are you going to do a test?

@InfertileGP I don’t think the tests are valid after that time , sorry 😔😔. I’ve had tests that have come up positive later in the bin when I wasn’t pregnant. 😔 You are not out until af arrives though 🤞🏻🤞🏻.

8 dpo for me 🥳. Getting through the 2ww slowly..

@InfertileGP hope it means you get a bfp in the time soon! Test tomorrow with fmu!

@mouldygrapes yay!! Have you had any more symptoms today? I did a test earlier and it was negative 😭 but maybe I should try an opk to see? I've heard about people getting positive opks before bfp too!!!

@Imog feelings all sorts of weird things but just don’t know if it’s all in my mind. Back to the pulling/pinching pains this evening. I don’t usually get pains before AF.
Previous cycles have been 26 or 27 days and it’s 25 today. Still planning to try to hold out till Sat and do a FRER.

Sorry your test was negative but it’s still early days so don’t lose faith! Was it a FRER or IC?
I guess no harm trying an OPK... let me know if you do!

Implantation bleeding turned out to be AF for me. I think my cycles are still out of whack due to my Miscarriage. Firstly cycle after was 35 days and this one was 27.

I'm a little bummed but also feeling optimistic for this month ahead.
Who knows when ovulation will take place for me though 😫. Guess it will be loads of days of testing.

Good luck everyone x

Ah @ashlee89 I'm gutted for you! Hoping next month is your month!!

@mouldygrapes I had the pinching today too! In my left side where I get ovulation pain. Not sure what that could be? I just checked my cervix and it's low and open 😢 not a good sign. Maybe af is on her way. Negative OPK test but temps are still high

Fingers crossed for your frer test xxx

I did another IC test this morning and it's negative, feel like AF is on her way... On to next month!

This was my IC from This morning. Still stupidly faint and hardly there 😩😩 x

Anyone had a BFP after 13dpo? I tested this morning with my last FRER after spotting for about 24 hours and it was BFN. AF is due tomorrow or Sunday, think she'll most probably come

@Mich2020 what dpo are you lovely? I'm 1 day late and 15dpo thought I saw something very very faint on this mornings but I think I'm just being hopeful and seeing things😔😔 hope af isn't here for you!

@babblebeee a lady said yesterday in another forum (ended up down a rabbit hole hahaha!) she said she didn't get hers til 17dpo! So there's still hope along as af doesn't show xxx

Before TTC the time between periods used to fly by. Now I'm waiting for it to come/not come it feels like forever haha

@Imog I think 12dpo roughly definitely no more than that anyway. This was my frer I dipped in same urine 😭😭

@Mich2020 so still early then if 12dpo! Oh dw I've done that many times before 😢

Here's my test think I'm just seeing things 😔

I can see something I think. This is so difficult isn't it 😭 xx

Isn't it 😢 @Mich2020 it's like you don't want to get your hopes up if af is late or you think you see something because it might not be or it might turn into a chemical 😔😔 here for you x

I think I may have experienced a chemical in January, I'll try find my post and post a picture of the positive frer I had. Me and DP were soooo excited to see the two lines x

Sorry it was December. Wish I had a line like that frer now 😭

Hey ladies, I hope you don't mind me crashing. Me and DH got married in August and are now TTC. I've had lady problems in the past so not overly getting my hopes up (whilst crazily obsessing at the same time! Ha ha). So.... peak appeared yesterday after 7 days of HF, DTD monday and yesterday. I'm just after some advise as what classes as 1DPO?

Good luck and baby dust to all of you 💞

Hey ! I think I’m officially out this month, I feel like my period which is due Sunday is defo on its way !
I hope everyone else is doing ok, I was sure this month !

So sorry to hear about all of your losses, sending 🌈🌈🌈

This thread is great So much support. I hope you don’t mind me joining as I’m due AF on 15th September so a bit later than most, but Not far off and am also 37 and had a chemical last month. Hoping you’ve all had some positive news by now and if not lots of love.

(This is my first ever post on Mumsnet!)

Hi all, I'm out for this month, AF is here as an nice early surprise...

Hoped it was implantation as long as I could but its not.

Fingers crossed for all those still waiting and those moving onto next month too 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@RABO so sorry to hear sending lots of love. It's day 1 the start of a new chance. Treat yourself this weekend. This will be me on Tuesday I'm sure as test was negative today 12dpo

Hi ladies I wondered if anyone can help me. I tested negative at 11 dpo today but went back to look at my test after an hour and seen this??

Hey gals, checking in.

So sorry to people who are feeling low. Still early days @Imog @Mich2020 so keep testing!

I was so trying to hold out till tomorrow and do FRER with FMU. Curiosity got the better of me this afternoon and did another OPK which is the darkest I’ve ever had. Stupidly didn’t hold onto that urine so downed a load of water then got this. Is it positive? The urine was so dilute, I’m wondering if I’d kept the one from earlier if it would be stronger? These tests are the ones we use at work and they’re prone to false positives if you read them too late - this took a while to come up.
Will still do FRER tomorrow. Don’t know whether to believe it?!?!