11 DPO...BFN on FRER...am I out??

[August2020ttc]

Morning ladies! First post as me and my partner have decided to try for our first!

I came off the pill November 2019 after just shy of 3 years being on it. Regular periods up until when AF was due in May... she didn't arrive until 20th June which meant I had a 66 day cycle!! 😭 stressed the whole time! My next cycle was 47 days. This time round we shall soon see...

I did OPK and got a positive cd14 which makes me 11 DPO. Which was a week earlier than all my apps suggested I would be ovulating (which I know is common due to an app not being your body!) which means I'm hoping if these tests keep coming up as BFN, I'll maybe have a normal 28 day cycle as ovulated bang on when people do on 28 day cycle and also a week earlier than my app suggested which means maybe I'll have AF the week before..who knows hey 🤷🏼‍♀️

..8dpo, 9dpo (which had a faint line in the evening but assuming evap line) and 11 DPO this morning I've gotten BFN with FMU on a FRER. So gutting as I've had the worst boob pain, period pains, nausea & very mood swingy the last week which I don't get and especially even more so now with the long cycles. I'm assuming that's mean out this month?🥺

Thank you x

Hey!! All i can say is your not out till af arrives =) ive been ttc for 2 years now and have read alot of stories where some ladies dont get a bfp until 1 or 2 weeks after af was due!
Also i came off the pill sept 2018....i also had an odd mega long cycle! Took about 1 year until my cycles regulated, also after 1 year i started getting pms symptoms for the first time after stopping the pill!

Hey! Oh I'm glad it's not just me and I'll also be glad to get some sort of symptoms for AF to give me a heads up! I know we had just bought a house the first week of lockdown so not too sure if I had caused myself a lot of stress 😭🤷🏼‍♀️ then I stressed about being late for no reason!

I've just bought some conceive plus fertility lube (sorry if TMI) so If AF does arrive, next month I'm going to use that along with OPK regularly as the reviews are amazing. I'm not too sure if I should believe them but they're really good on Facebook and amazon! Fingers crossed for us both x

Nope ur not out. Frer has never gave me a positive at all with my last 4 pregnancies. I’m currently 10 weeks now and again I tried 4 frer and all neg even tho clear blue and cheapies where clear positives

@2020wish congratulations!! How exciting!! 😍

This definitely gives me hope, I just found it so weird that I have all these symptoms which I've never had even before going on the pill! Maybe I'll wait a week and go from there, and it's only our second my ttc so maybe I need to chill out a little 🙊