TTC - Thread 2- a lucky one!

[Blossom428]

Hi guys....
Thought I'd set up this new thread for us.
Tag anyone else from the group I've not got.

@AnxiousAnnie86
@Spinksy9 (thought I'd tag for you to check in with us after your BFP 😆)
@Chlo2701

@AnxiousAnnie86 I cracked an tested this pm- negative

I guess I’m just waiting for AF now 😞

@WaitingForEgg oh noooo sorry, but you don't know when you ovulated so you might be in still?!!

So my temp is up today, higher then ever been when recording on Ava, due AF today, but heart rate down again :( does heart rate always increase straight away in pregnancy does anyone know? Xxxx

@AnxiousAnnie86 my heart rate increased abit but would drop & go up again then could drop again.
Just a little update, I did a Clearblue digital wks PT a wk ago yesterday it said 1-2wks. Did one this morning & still says 1-2wks. So I'm pretty sure the hospital are right & its ectopic 😢xx

That's positive that your temp is still up @AnxiousAnnie86 ... would you test tomorrow if AF doesn't show today?

@Chlo2701 ohh no. Really sorry to hear that 😔 hopefully the scan may show something different, but difficult to tell if the test hasn't moved forward a week. Is there a thread on here that you can check in with and ask other people about it? As I'm not really sure as I've never been pregnant. Sending lots of hugs xx

@Chlo2701 oh I'm so so sorry! I really hope that isn't the case for you! Have you tested on any others? Are the lines dark? It's so unfair on you being in limbo like this!

@Blossom428 I would never normally go past 14dpo, I have always always had spotting on day 14 or full AF I have a really sore back though so think it's imminent x

@Blossom428 no I haven't posted, I don't even know how to write it & explain as just can't think straight.
@AnxiousAnnie86 yes I've used internet cheapies & they're not going any darker. Just completely feel like a ticking time bomb & waiting to see if pain gets worse which mean tube could rupture, or I'm just waiting to see if I'll miscarry. Had a total meltdown this morning & properly cried for the first time. I just have no words xx

@Chlo2701 how far gone do you think you are?? These were my internet cheapies taken every 48 hours, they took a while to darken. And i didn't start using them til I was 5 weeks.

@Chlo2701 I'm so so sorry I have absolutely no words to help you, i was the same with my MC, I knew it was coming and I had to just wait to see if it was natural or needed intervention....

I really hope this is just a bump in the road and everything is fine, can you not get seen again? Xxx

@Spinksy9 I'll be 5 weeks tomorrow. But none of the tests I've done are getting any darker, they're all the same. CB, Tesco, Sainsbury, IC. The FRER seems lighter if I'm honest😣 & today my brown discharge has gone bitty & abit clumpy/clotty still no red or pink. I've never had a miscarriage so don't know if that's how it starts🤷‍♀️
@AnxiousAnnie86 no I haven't rang the EPU, as I've got an appointment on Tuesday for more bloods & another scan as she said they should hopefully be able to see something. So yeah basically I'm just waiting to miscarry or see if I need intervention when they confirm the ectopic next wk.
It's pretty obvious that the consultant was right, it's all pointing towards ectopic. Brown discharge, pain intermittent on my left side, HCG low, tests not getting darker & Clearblue is still saying 1-2wks today, & should say 2-3 because it was 8 days since I last done one. I just all want it to be over with. Literally going to be the longest week of my life xx

& they also saw a black circle on the scan in my Fallopian tube, so that shouldn't be there, which is why they're saying ectopic xx

@Chlo2701 oh I'm so sorry :( but you may still have a slow rise in hcg, when I had my Mc it was bright red and really heavy, instantly x

I’m so sorry @Chlo2701

I’m having some cramping so I think AF about to arrive. I had started to become optimistic 🙈 I think the rollercoaster of hope etc is the worst bit

@WaitingForEgg I know! I have back ache but no cramps and I feel sick, I'm never later then today so feel like I'm on knife edge

@AnxiousAnnie86 same. Absolutely longest would be tomorrow, but that’s unusually long. I think the length of our cycles also make it so much worse. 36 days is a killer. Only 10 tries a year!

@WaitingForEgg I know!! I'm on day 39 today!!!! Just took my temp, as you do, and it's still super super high, normally I can tell when period is imminent as it drops... even day time temps are obvious drops..... when will you test? X

@AnxiousAnnie86 honestly? No idea. I’m assuming af will arrive tonight or tomorrow so deF not then... you?

@WaitingForEgg I always start spotting 14dpo in the evening so that's tonight then full af through the night, so if by Saturday morning I've not come on I will probably test, that'll be 16dpo.... I think Af will come tonight my back really hurts

@AnxiousAnnie86 39! Eugh. IF my weird pain was in fact ovulation i am 11 DPO. Had sharp pain this am, very very low down (sorry TMI) then some light cramping on and off all day. Have times it totally eases and others it comes back. I think it’s just AF ramping up. Going out for dinner tonight with a friend, hoping it distracts me from the inevitable obsessing

Any sign of spotting @AnxiousAnnie86

That's a good idea @WaitingForEgg keep yourself busy!

@Chlo2701 can begin to imagine how you are feeling rn! Just having no clarity and joy knowing what is going on. Try to take time for yourself and take things easy, but do things to keep your mind busy. X

@Blossom428 nope.... not yet!!! Temp raise again this morn! I've had one day where temp went down since ovulation that was 6dpo, since then it's risen everyday, RHR down a little more honestly not a clue what's happening!!!

@WaitingForEgg how you doing?

@AnxiousAnnie86 nothing yet. Had mild cramping but no spotting or anything yet. TMI but I feel like I have discharge so I keep checking expecting it to be blood but it isn’t... no idea

Today is cd37 my cycles are usually 31-35 days. But it could just be an abnormally long one

@Blossom428 I'm just preparing for the worst on Tuesday morning, as I feel something isn't right anyway & it's not often the medical professionals are wrong.
@AnxiousAnnie86 @WaitingForEgg I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you ladies 🤞🏻xx

@Chlo2701 I think as women we know our own bodies and if you feel something isn't right then it may be best to prepare yourself.... I really will be hoping for the best for you! I am sending so much love,

@WaitingForEgg I know I'm the same, but nothing keep thinking I've come on and haven't, no signs of it yet, but it does often just come out of no where!!! Only hope for me is temp is still increasing x