9 years later and im still not pregnant!!!

[danashannon]

Hi all!
Im new to this so apologies if im not doing it right!
Im looking for some advice i guess about conception, I had a previous partner and we were trying to get pregnant for 7 years, nothing ever happened, ive had many scans and blood tests and nothing abnormal has been found to suggest i cant fall pregnant and my partner was checked too. Im now with someone new and we have been trying for 6 months, still no pregnancy.
Every month when my period starts i cry, i just dont understand why its not happening and the doctors are being no help at all.
Has anyone experienced anything similar? i feel like if i speak to some other women who struggled for a long time too it might put my mind at ease a little bit and take some of the stress away.
Thank you all!

Hi sorry to hear of your struggles. I had a specific issue which meant I went to ivf straight away but I’ve often thought it must be worse in many ways if there appears to be nothing wrong and it’s still not happening.. My advice is to keep following up with the the doctor For another referral, and perhaps have a look at the infertility pages on here, full of really supportive advice x