Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

BFN 10 DPO am I out :(

19 replies

Elou26 · 21/06/2020 09:56

Hi ladies, I am now in CD 35 I didn't get a positive opk until CD24. Last night I was up all night with right ovary pain like when I am ovulating (bit worrying) almost feels like a dull stitch is still here just now. Anyway I got a BFN stark white on an FRER this morning. Has this happened to anyone else and they went on to get a BFP?

OP posts:
Sansa87 · 21/06/2020 10:00

@Elou26 I didn’t test until 16dpo, but I definitely had that stitch like feeling (& still do a week later) the af type cramps started about 12dpo

I don’t know when I would’ve been able to first see the bfp, but it was a strong line when I did

Ayms0 · 21/06/2020 10:08

@Elou26 I think frer works 6 days before AF due. I also tested this morning, 9DPO and got a negative. Like you’ve I’ve had symptoms and was awake all night! When will you test again?

Elou26 · 21/06/2020 10:12

@Sansa87 thanks for the reply :) it's like a constant dull ache in my right side. I do get this about ovulation time but never before my period. I must say it has been worrying me 🙈. But glad to know you experienced it as well!

@Ayms0 every time I moved last night it got worse such a horrible pain like someone's pulling my ovary 😂😂. I will probably test again tomorrow because I am impatient 🙈 what about you? I just feel like I'm out because I got a vvfl with my son at 9dpo.

OP posts:
Ayms0 · 21/06/2020 10:16

@Elou26 did you have the same symptoms with your son? I feel like I have had the dull aches over the last few days, seem to have eased today. Light headed when I stand up and feeling queasy! I will probably buy some cheap tests and try again tomorrow. I can’t keep using FRER as it’s going to end up costing a fortune!

Elou26 · 21/06/2020 10:23

@Ayms0 my son is 18 month old now the only thing I remember with him was period like cramps. I was sure my period was coming early but got a very faint line at 9dpo. I also had some brown discharge a few days later. This doesn't feel like period cramp at all like a dull ache. Time will tell it's just so hard when you want to know 🙈

OP posts:
whoisjoe · 21/06/2020 11:24

Hey, I'm 10DPO , BFN this morning although I have cramps and sore, swollen boobs which I rarely get when not TTC. Going to test again in a few days. Good luck!

Ayms0 · 21/06/2020 11:45

@whoisjoe good luck!! Keep us updated, I’m going to test again tomorrow

Elou26 · 21/06/2020 12:12

@whoisjoe it sucks doesn't it but signs look good. I just have the feeling in my side. Keep us updated 🙂

@Ayms0 you too! Hopefully we get at least a faint line 😩😂.

OP posts:
Elou26 · 22/06/2020 08:23

Well BFN for me again today. I am just going to wait for my period to come, wish it would hurry up. This has been such a long cycle I think the chemical pregnancy last month messed it up. Good luck to everyone hope you have better luck than me! X

OP posts:
Ayms0 · 22/06/2020 08:31

Negative for me again today. I had symptoms all day yesterday and still feel nauseous today. Maybe it’s all in my head!!

@Elou26 don’t count yourself out yet, your still testing early right?

Elou26 · 22/06/2020 08:35

@Ayms0 I am 11 dpo. This cycle has been messed up I got positive ovulation tests when I normally would. Then a week later I got them again so if I even ovulated I have been going by the second positive. But my last period was 36 days ago and this is really unusual for me.

OP posts:
Elou26 · 22/06/2020 15:34

@Ayms0 do you plan on testing again tomorrow ? I feel so deflated today about the whole thing lol

OP posts:
Ayms0 · 22/06/2020 15:46

@Elou26

I am going to try and wait until Wednesday now as that’s when my app says is the earliest (I probably should have done that to start!). How about you?

Elou26 · 22/06/2020 15:58

@Ayms0 I think I will just wait and see if it comes in the next few days. Is Wednesday the day your period is due ?

OP posts:
Ayms0 · 22/06/2020 16:23

@Elou26 I’m not due until next Monday as I have long cycles (33 days)! My app says I can test from weds, so will see then. I definitely feel different this month though so I’m keeping everything crossed. When is yours due?

whoisjoe · 22/06/2020 18:03

Another BFN for me. I'm certain AF is on the way now as I'm spotting, ah well. Baby dust to you all!

Elou26 · 22/06/2020 18:28

@whoisjoe sorry to hear that. I wish mines would just come now to try again. No sign of her and bfn again today.

OP posts:
Elou26 · 24/06/2020 07:38

@Ayms0 AF started last night, quite glad though that was a messed up cycle hoping this one goes back to normal . Good luck 🤞🏻

OP posts:
Ayms0 · 24/06/2020 07:42

@Elou26 sorry to hear that! Sometimes it’s a bit of a relief as it means you can move on and stop stressing, that’s how I feel a lot of the time.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.