9&10dpo BFN's feeling so down!

[ciara87777]

Hey guys not really sure why I'm posting just want to vent about how unfair the human body is!!

10dpo today and another BFN, for the last two months I've had spotting by now (in my cycle) so I never bothered testing as I knew af was on her way but I've had nothing so I really had hope this month. Plus I confirmed ovulation & we used pre seed. (Not cheap is it!!!)

I really have a gut feeling that I'm out now and I feel so down and I hate being down about something so out of my control.

Hope you're all having a good day xxx

You will find plenty of support here OP - so many others in similar situations. I'm sure some people will be along soon to reassure you that it may just be too early for a BFP, but I hear you.... sometimes you just know you're out.

I didn't get my BFP until 13dpo (day before AF was due) and it was very faint even then! Before that it was all negative so don't lose hope. When is AF due?

There's a reason they say don't test early as you can get false nagatives which can get you down! I obviously didn't listen tho 😂

@H8624 oh really? That's good to know. Af isn't due till Sunday so do you think I should just wait for that? I really thought I'd not bother testing unless I missed it😂 I really wish I didn't!!!!

If you can hold out I would. If not test every other day maybe. Implantation doesn't happen til like 7/8dpo at the earliest and then HCG doubles roughly every other day so you'd be unlikely to get a positive at like 9/10dpo as levels probs wouldn't be high enough to detect

@ciara87777 No advice, but I wanted to say "hang in there" as I am in the same boat. This month has been particularly trying and I've spent the last couple of days crying. This is VERY unlike me, and part of me hopes it's hormones and I'm in for a BFP, but AF is due on Tuesday and I have zero pregnancy symptoms. I'm likely just emotional, sad, stressed, heartbroken, overwhelmed and tired. We can only keep trying

If it helps the month I got my bfp I had absolutely no symptoms!

I even had a few days spotting before which I usually get before AF, but instead of getting heavier it tailed off which is what made me test!

I had all the symptoms in the months I was trying before, then the month I actually conceived none at all 😂