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[AnxiousAnnie86]

Hey lovelies! Let's hope this cycle is as good luck!!!

So Cd1 for me I guess😩 here we go again, anyone trying anything different?

If I've missed anyone please add!!

@Chlo2701 @Gemster19 @Spinksy9 @Suki2020

@Chlo2701 when I was pregnant last year my breast pain went into my armpits, it's the only time I had ever felt anything like that!! I would 💯 do a FRER in the morning!!! X

@AnxiousAnnie86 I'm sat in the beer garden with my OH now, enjoying a wine. I'm actually sat here thinking, enjoy it Chloe as there's a small chance it could be my last🙈 I doubt it though. I so badly want this but I'm scared at the same time. I just don't think it'll happen as it's been over a year now! I've only got 2 FRERS, but I think I will do one in the morning just incase there's that tiny possibility I have been lucky!
If I don't get a line, yes I'll be disappointed but I also won't be surprised as kind of got used to be disappointed every month even though it still hurts😣
That's interesting that you said that yours went into your armpit though as I've never heard of that🙈 I just thought I was being stupid but it's not in my head as it's bloody uncomfortable when it starts. I literally cross my arms & put both hands under each armpit & hold them🙉
Please keep your fingers crossed for me that I see a line in the morning although I know it's probably wishful thinking x

@Chlo2701 I honestly have absolutely everything crossed for you!!! I know what you mean about the giving up hope, I'm most deffo at that point, it just becomes the norm to get AF! Hopefully this will be your month, I see it all the time on here though, people trying for a year two years then BAM!!! So this could well be your month! I think if I got that feeling again in my armpits I would just know, as I have never ever had it any other time x

@AnxiousAnnie86 not holding out much hope if I'm honest. Not had the throbbiness all evening, maybe it's just the alcohol that's numbed it🤷‍♀️🤣x

Sorry guys had such a busy weekend- so at least that's kept me occupied along with a few drinks.
My friend has also just had a baby 5 weeks early (he's all good 😊) and I'm so happy for her, but it's made me want it sooo badly now.
AF is treating me well actually for once. Temp dropped a bit this morning but still not the usual level.
Fingers crossed for the morning @Chlo2701i realy hope a lines shows for you x

@Blossom428 at least you're nearly at the end of it and can start again!!! Are you doing anything diff this month, x

@Chlo2701 have you tested?? I have everything crossed for you..:

I'm panicking because my temp hasn't risen:( I think it may of been a false surge. I didn't have any ewcm normally I have loads, I normally get painful boobs etc after, I've had nothing. Now I don't know whether to start testing again with clear blue, or just wait this month out :( x

@Blossom428 @AnxiousAnnie86 I've just done it & it's blank. Yes I'm annoyed but I'm not surprised if I'm honest. Like I said I don't even know if I did ovulate as ran out of CB sticks while I was getting flashy faces🙈 & was getting the flashys when I would of normally ovulated so maybe I did ovulate later than normal🤷‍♀️ I'll either get AF on Wednesday or won't. If I ovulated later then maybe that might make AF late. Who knows. All I know is that ovulation this month was messed up🙉
@AnxiousAnnie86 that's annoying for you! Maybe your body tried to ovulate & didn't then. They say that the only way to know if your body ovulated is by checking temp, & if your temp isn't doing what it normally does then maybe you didn't. Might be worth testing again then like you said to see if you get another surge. I'm not sure if you can use the CB again so soon, hopefully someone else on here will have the answer for you. Or maybe google it x

& the reason why I think my AF will be late aswel is because I haven't had my usual AF spot turn up on my face🙈 no backache or usual AF cramps. Just & sit & wait game for me x

I think this is a messed up month for us all haha.
Sorry to hear that it was negative today @Chlo2701
I've just started with the vitamin B complex this month to see if it changes anything with my LP.
Yeah you may get a second surge @AnxiousAnnie86 if you didn't ovulate previously.

Very frustrating when we just don't know what's going on inside!

I'm really sorry about your negative test @Chlo2701 but like you said you don't know when uou ovulated so you may well still be in!!

Well according to Ava it's going up but really really slowly?? It normally takes a jump, but in saying that I'm not doing bbt temping or anything this month, just skin temp from my Ava bracelet, going to try and not worry, don't think I will do any more ovulation tests, I will just let come what may....

@AnxiousAnnie86 I'm clueless when it comes to all that temping so I can't help at all unfortunately.
But I've found not tracking so I don't know what DPO I am this month has actually made me feel more relaxed. So if you just leave it all now for this month you might feel that you may feel a little more relaxed hopefully.
I do have one question for you though.... when you said you had the pain in your armpits, from when the pain started how long did you leave it until you tested?
Because if I did ovulate later I would probably only be around 6DPO give or take🤷‍♀️
@Blossom428 good luck with the Vit B, I hope it works for you love. Yes you're right, I think a lot of ladies cycles are messed up this month🤦‍♀️x

@Blossom428 I honestly think it's with so much being out of normality it is effecting people!!!

@Chlo2701 I can't remember, but it must of been early on, I wasn't tracking at that time as we had only just started trying, but I had like sharp pains under my arms and my nipples really really hurt ☹️

Yeahh maybe leave it a few days @Chlo2701 and then if AF doesn't come weds then test again. Like you say it might be too early if you ovulated later than normal.
I was debating this month whether to track BBT or not, as it is effort. But I like to see when my temp has risen. So maybe I will stop after ovulation.
Think I may speak to my partner today or when he's in a good mood haha, and just explain to him that I would like to properly try this month rather then him just think we are doing it whenever. As we've only done it once round ovulation for the past 2 cycles. So I'm hoping he will be on board.

Yeah @AnxiousAnnie86 your bracelet will be good at tracking though as that's what it does, so jsut go from that and I'm sure it will go up further over the next couple of days.

Hey ladies how are you this miserable Tuesday morning?
@AnxiousAnnie86 has your temp gone up abit more this morning?
@Blossom428 did you manage to speak to your OH?

@Chlo2701 yeah but only ever ever so slightly but avas saying it's risen for three days now.... so hopefully it will continue to do a steady climb, guess I can't compare against oral bbt as it's totally diff!
How you getting on? Still no sign of AF??

@AnxiousAnnie86 well that's positive that it's still rising even if only slightly😃
No signs of AF yet, but she's due tomorrow 😣 but still not had my usual AF symptoms, backache, cramps & a spot! She's probably teasing me & will be late the bitch!!
Only symptom I've got is my boobs still, that kind of feel bruised all around the brown bit of the nipple, & the burning shooting pain in my armpits🙄

@Chlo2701 I don't want to give you false hope but if I ever had that shooting pain under my arms again I feel like I'd just know what it was, I can't say if it feels same obviously!

It's so infuriating I thought not temping etc normally would make me less stressed, but now I'm more Cos I don't even know if I ovulated! X

@Chlo2701 mine was a day late last month!! It was so so mean! But that could of just been I ovulated a day later as I've never gone past 14dpo

@AnxiousAnnie86 don't worry hun you're not getting my hopes up, it's been that long now I don't even get my own hopes up. It just feels like it'd be too good to be true. Last time I ever saw a positive pregnancy test of mine was 11yrs ago now. Feels like a lifetime ago!
The shooting stinging pain is odd, the only way I can describe it is like when I had shingles on my back years ago, if you've ever had that that's the closest thing I can describe it to.
Bet that was horrible last month when you were a day late, because it's normal to get that little bit of glimmer of hope.
I can't believe you get to 14dpo, once I ovulate I only have about 10-11 days at most until i get AF!
Last month I only went 9 days after ovulation when AF showed up.
It is annoying for us as neither of us know if we've ovulated this month! Feels like we're both in limbo abit🙉

@Chlo2701 i lnow lovely I'm on month 12 now :( it's really annoying with ovulation as when I ovulate the accupuncture lady wants me to go in which I did Monday, then she said I should go twice more during this week to increase chances of implantation but if I haven't even ovulated I'm totally wasting my money!!! I don't think I've ever had a false static on clear blue and it looked pretty positive.....arrghhh so annoying!!!!

I honestly never imagined I wouldn't of been pregnant by now, I used to be so positive when making plans I used to think oooo I will be pregnant by then probably, not anymore!! We are now talking of getting a dog as I just don't ever see it happening xx

@AnxiousAnnie86 I've read that the only way to definitely tell if you did ovulate is to do temping. As you should get a rise in temp when ovulation happens. They say that you can get a false peak & not ovulate. So I'm wondering that maybe your body tried to ovulate & didn't, sounds like that may of happened to you😣
I know that if I was in your shoes I'd start testing again, & probably wouldn't do the acupuncture this week, because like you said it might be a waste of money.
What CD are you now? As I remember you saying you normally ovulate quite late x

I'm now on day 36 of my cycle, no period has arrived but I'm getting BFNs! No idea what's going on. I've never had spotting before but I had two episodes of spotting during this cycle, once 7DPO which resembled implantation bleeding, and a very small amount of spotting around the day of my due period. I'm usually quite regular between 28-30 days cycle. Any ideas what I should do? Should I be worried/concerned? Surely if I was pregnant there would be a BFP and I've never missed a period before 🤷🏼‍♀️

@msunflower how annoying for you! There's not alot you can do really unfortunately apart from wait until AF turns up & test every couple of days in the mean time. Best case scenario would be that you are pregnant & you are one of the few ladies that their HCG rises really slow. How many DPO are you now? As I've read in rare cases some women it doesn't show until 16DPO. Stress will also delay AF but you probably already know that

@Chlo2701 I think I'm about three weeks since DPO but I'm unsure as my app has changed its predictions now that I'm late on my period. I have probably been a lot less stressed than normal and haven't lost/gained any weight, no change in medications etc. Feels like I'm probably out as would have had a BFP by now surely, I'm more concerned that my period has disappeared 🙈 it's my first month ttc and my body has behaved so weirdly with the spotting and now the lack of period, I'm very confused!

@msunflower shit yeah love I can completely see why you are confused, I'd feel the same. Did you track your ovulation by using an ovulation kit to see if you'd actually ovulated? Because some months our bodies try to ovulate & they don't! Or sometimes they try & don't ovulate so ovulate later on in the cycle, even as late as gone CD30! I'm on a few threads & some poor women have just completely missed one or two periods for no reason whatsoever 😣