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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 26/05/2020 13:38

Hey lovelies! Let's hope this cycle is as good luck!!!

So Cd1 for me I guess😩 here we go again, anyone trying anything different?

If I've missed anyone please add!!

@Chlo2701 @Gemster19 @Spinksy9 @Suki2020

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Spinksy9 · 01/07/2020 18:21

@AnxiousAnnie86
Think I'm back to square one! Line isnt as strong today and I started spotting. It's starting to become heavier ! Cant go to EPU as less than 7 weeks so just got to wait it out!
Knew it was too good to be true.

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 01/07/2020 18:39

@Spinksy9 oh my gosh I'm so sorry! How many dpo are you?! Maybe it will still be okay! Was your period due yet? X

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Spinksy9 · 01/07/2020 19:00

@AnxiousAnnie86 14dpo according to the app. However I never confirmed this month. AF due tomorrow so thinking it's a chemical?xx

AnxiousAnnie86 · 01/07/2020 19:29

@Spinksy9 oh yes sorry I knew that! I really really hope it isn't a chemical! Is it just spotting still? X

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Spinksy9 · 01/07/2020 19:40

@AnxiousAnnie86 it's only when I wipe. It's still quiet light red, more dark or cramps but my test this morning was really light so although its probably a chemical, I'm trying to be postive.
I've lost 5lbs since Saturday! Still no appetite but the "pregnant feeling" has gone 😔

BPT2019 · 01/07/2020 20:31

Hello, apologies for jumping on this thread but I've got a strange one. I've had a few days of faint lines on cheap tests and they test went slightly darker yesterday but then faint again today. I'm guessing I am seeing evaps and have just had bad luck with them. I'm just wondering if anyone has had something similar? I have irregular periods so no idea what dpo I would be. Thanks in advance.

AnxiousAnnie86 · 02/07/2020 07:25

@Spinksy9 morning, how are you getting on? Thinking of you xxx
@BPT2019 I'm not sure? Are they just like really faint indents? Have you tried a FRER or better test?

I have a question for all you ladies.... I can't reallt remember what my periods used to be like as it's been about ten years. But my periods since coming off the coil last year feel really light? I have like a really reallt light day then a heavy then a really light then thays ir? I'm worried that's what is effecting me... maybe acupuncture will help with that x

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Spinksy9 · 02/07/2020 07:33

@AnxiousAnnie86 I think it's fair to say AF is in full flow. All symptoms have disappeared. So frustrating when the digital confirmed at only 12dpo! But it is what it is. Going to start trying again asap. Only thing I'm going to change is I'm going to start the pre pregnancy vitamins again x

WaitingForEgg · 02/07/2020 07:46

So sorry Spinksy. That’s really shit 😕

WaitingForEgg · 02/07/2020 07:47

I think this month I may use the clear blue ovulation tests 🤔 how frequently do people tend to test?

Blossom428 · 02/07/2020 07:53

Ohh sorrry to hear this @Spinksy9 :( So disappointing when you saw the clear blue test! But on to the next month.... got to stay positive 😊

@AnxiousAnnie86 when I was on the pill I used to have such heavy periods lasting about a week, but because I'd been on the pill for like 10years I can't remember what they were like before. Since I've come off the pill it's a very light one like you say, only lasted 3 days then a couple of days spotting.

I had what could have been ovulation pains yesterday on the left side. Woke up this morning and my temp has jumped up from 36.38 to 36.74. So I'm thinking I did ovulate yesterday (really annoying as OH was not in the mood last night and the last time we DTD was Monday 😩)
However my clear blue is still flashing smiley this morning.
So baffled.

AnxiousAnnie86 · 02/07/2020 08:00

@Blossom428 maybe it's normal then I just worry light oeriods are the reason I'm not getting pregnant, I do have a day if really heavy though so I guess that's a good thing,

I would of thought the clear blue would of picked it up, I can't show you my charts as I deleted but I used to get a spike then a massive drop before ovulation? X

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AnxiousAnnie86 · 02/07/2020 08:02

@Spinksy9 I'm so sorry! It's most heartbreaking having seen it on the clear blue! We are all in this together! This cycle will stick!!

@WaitingForEgg I use them every morning from Cd12 May push that back a day or two this month as I've never ovulated before 17 x

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Spinksy9 · 02/07/2020 08:09

@AnxiousAnnie86 I thought with it being on a clear blue before my AF it was going to stick! But obviously wasnt meant to be. I now need to cancel my early scan I booked! I knew I should have waited until AF came. But the lines were so strong!
Oh well, onwards and upwards x

AnxiousAnnie86 · 02/07/2020 08:39

@Spinksy9 I know to be honest I'm suprised it showed on a clear blue digital so early, I don't test before AF anymore, maybe try hold off until due? It's so hard and to be honest maybe not any easier as I had so much hope this month and then nothing :( x

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Spinksy9 · 02/07/2020 08:42

@AnxiousAnnie86 I only tested because I was suppose to start anti inflammatories for 2 weeks. I didnt even have any symptoms. Had I not going to the drs for a different problem I'd never have know. I know it's stupid but my cheapie test this morning was darker than yesterday. But this cannot be implantation bleeding! Will test again once bleeding has stopped. I keep looking at the lines and thinking, but they were so strong!

AnxiousAnnie86 · 02/07/2020 08:50

@Spinksy9 sorry you said that! I get confused! As hard as it is try not to torture yourself with scrutinising lines, when I had my Mc I kept doing it and doing it and it put me in a really bad place! They say you are actually more fertile after so this month may be a sticky month x

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Blossom428 · 02/07/2020 09:05

@AnxiousAnnie86 yeah maybe... I will have to see what the temp is tomorrow and that may confirm it. Feel myself getting annoyed about it, if nothing happens I'm going to speak to OH about it next month and just tell him when my fertile week is and see if it makes a difference. As I think he knew I was a bit upset last night when he wasn't in the mood, and it's hard as I know they don't understand because they don't have apps and have gone through it all like we have. I told him I will explain it all to you if you like haha (I think his mind would be blown 😂🙈)

AnxiousAnnie86 · 02/07/2020 09:14

@Blossom428 haha I didn't tell my husband anything in beginning he knows everything now to the point when I say I'm told before period is due that it's game over for us! Bless him....

I try not to tell him the day I get my static as it's pressure but if I think he's not gonna be in the mood I give him a heads up to get his shit together!!! When I got pregnant last year the only day it could of been was three days before I ovulated xx

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BPT2019 · 02/07/2020 09:22

[quote Spinksy9]@AnxiousAnnie86 I think it's fair to say AF is in full flow. All symptoms have disappeared. So frustrating when the digital confirmed at only 12dpo! But it is what it is. Going to start trying again asap. Only thing I'm going to change is I'm going to start the pre pregnancy vitamins again x[/quote]
I had heavy bleeding and cramping with my pregnancy, if I hadn't had tested early I wouldn't have known that I was pregnant as it was heavier than AF. I kept testing and kept getting dark strong lines so I went to the doctors who sent me to EPU who scanned and found everything was okay so I got my bloods checked and sure enough the hormone was increasing. The bleeding didn't stop for a long while so I booked a private early scan and everything was good and my pregnancy was all okay with no issues, I know everyone is different but worth checking.

Blossom428 · 02/07/2020 09:33

Haha, that's good that you are both open about it @AnxiousAnnie86
I think because it's still very early days for us(which it is, I've really nothing to complain about,) I didn't want him to feel too pressured and he said let's just go with the flow for 6 months and if nothing then he will get involved more and try. Although now I'm so wrapped up in tracking I can't relax 😂😂 ffs.
The things we all have to go through- I don't know why I do it to myself.

Sounds promising about the 3days before ovulation, as that will have been mine if my temp keeps increasing. We shall see..

@Spinksy9 yeah this is true some people actually have periods throughout pregnancy, so maybe check after like you said xx

Spinksy9 · 02/07/2020 09:40

@Blossom428 @BPT2019
I will test again in a couple of days and see what happens. I hope I'm on of the lucky ones! If not, onwards, upwards and legs open 😂
Thanks for the glimmer of hope!xx

AnxiousAnnie86 · 02/07/2020 09:54

@Spinksy9 my sister and sister in law both had a period first month of pregnancy! I don't know how that even happens but they both did x

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Blossom428 · 03/07/2020 09:20

When I ejected the clear blue digital ovulation it is only showing one line inside... but still showing a flashing smiley face. - I read online it would have 2 lines if positive result-
My temp is still higher today too, so I do think I ovulated on Wednesday.
I guess I'm now 2dpo 🤷🏻‍♀️ this month has Been a bit messed up I think. Yet again Urghh! Oh well guess I'll just wait for AF and start again haha!

Happy Friday everyone!! Have you got any nice plans this weekend?

Suki2020 · 05/07/2020 11:26

Hi @Chlo2701 am I right I’m thinking you take Agnus castus and Coq10 together? If so do you find it’s helping? I’m currently taking Agnus castus and it has definitely helped shorten my cycles but wondering if it’s worth get Coq10 as well

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