TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

Hi lady’s! Very confused!! had my period 15th April then done the deed on 26/27th so cycle day 12/13 then woke up on 1st of May to brown discharge followed by very light bleeding lasted 2 days then nothing!! 12th may had pale pink when I wiped but nothing since then! Due period tomorrow! Still no sign!! Are these signs of pregnancy?? Or because I had slight bleed mid way thru cycle will period still come when due? Also my cervix is still high and soft and virgina feels puffy

Hey @Hayleylou89 I'm feeling bit better actually xx omg no hahah I didnt even see the bit it said about chewing . Omg so stoopid. Blonde moment haha I've been swallowing them .... I wonder why it says you have to chew them ??? Maybe that's why I've felt ill lol maybe chewing them makes it less harsh on your belly when it reaches there haha . doh. Guess I better start chewing them ... I cant imagine that's nice at all though... how are you ?
So the ferti lily is a thumbs up ? If I'm not lucky may try next cycle.. although I think DH thinks id be weird doing it ... 🙄😂🤔 xxx

@Rainbow001 Hard to say if its ib or not but if ur af is only due tomorrow cnt u test with an frer now and itll tell you? X

@renna yeah I read the packet but also that lady on the you tube vid says they are for teeth and bones so maybe that also why u chew them? But urgh its vile! Just had one with lunch now xx

@Hayleylou89 I done a test yesterday and had very very faint line not sure if it is evaporation line tho as I done the test then had to sort out my 3 yr old out completely forgot about it n then went back to check it! I lost twins last year n really would really love a bfp! I guess I will just have to wait it out the next few days to see if period comes!! 🤞🏼 It doesn’t lol x

@VP91x haha - am alarm bell would definitely be very useful!! My cycles are either 27 or 29days (except for the cycle after mc which was 31days - do they call that a cycle though if it starts with a mc?) so I am due AF next thurs-sat. Last time I waited until I was a week late, but I am pretty regular so I was expecting a bfp in all honesty! I think I’ll probably wait until the bank hol monday before testing (if AF hasn’t got me first!!) my last 2 cycles post mc have started woth a few days of spotting before af though, which is soooo frustrating as that mever happened before and both times I thought it could be ib (i got that the first time!) so I got my hopes up and was super sad when it turned to AF!!

@VP91x are you cd16 today? How long are your cycles on average? xx

@Bellabubble yeah I think you do class it as a cycle. Mine have been so irregular post MC. So I had 21 days, 24 days and 31 days! Just shoved all my data in Natural Cycles to compare to femometer and that seems to think I will ovulate on CD18!

Ahh, spotting is so so annoying you don't know why it's being caused at all! Hopefully AF doesn't show up so you can test! Xx

@Hayleylou89 how many calc fluor you taking? Says on bottle like 4 a day but the lady on video said 2 a day so I've been taking 2 ? X

@Renna yeah same just 2 like she said :) have u felt any symptoms what dpo are u now .. im so forgetful 🤦🏽‍♀️ x

@Rainbow001 ahh really have u got a pick of the faint one to post? Sounds like good signs though atleast 🙏 x

@Hayleylou89 no no symptoms and anything I think could be related I'm just ignoring as I'll just be symptom spotting like I did last month and was ppintless as kept thinking I was getting symptoms but obvs wasnt ! I'm 7dpo so also dont think I'd really get any symptoms so early. Just a waiting gamee AF probably arrive a week today ish if she actually shows this month ! 🤞she doesn't! 🌈 xxx

Ladies, I'm so confused with this OPK. It's my first month doing it, and on day 12 the lines were more prominent but not the same or darker as the control line, and now they're getting faint again. Have I had my peak? My app says it should be today, but tbh I have no idea when I normally ovulate! 🤷🏻‍♀️ the test from day 13 at 1130, my urine was definitely too diluted but I was impatient 🙈

@peonyrose87 that last one looks pretty strong, it's probably coming.
Test again tonight and first thing x

Sorry I thought the 13 was the last one! Didn't see the 14. Maybe your 13 one at 3.30 is your peak?

@VP91x I'll probably test if I'm late. I feel like I've been pregnant so many times now that if I don't get the usual pregnancy signs (sore boobs etc) I'll wait and write it off till next month 😄. I'm only a few dpo (I think) so firmly at the front of that dreaded 2ww. Sorry to hear of your confusion this month!

@Dipsy77 ahh really? Nice to know we're here together. I often think of the mums on that September board 🥰

@mumoftwobeauts I really can't tell. We DTD yesterday so I'll just do today and tomorrow and then see where we are 😂

Is it possible to have twinges 3/4 dpo? Lol I swear I’m Getting twinges the same way I felt them when I was last pregnant lol but I know it’s way too soon like but strange

Hi ladies hope your all well!
What CD is everyone on? Currently CD 17 and taking today as “ovulation day” DTD lots the last few days so fingers crossed. Don’t know how I’ll cope in the TWW waiting for ovulation was hard enough 😂😩 x

@Hayleylou89 I haven't gotten my peak yet on clear blue opk, only the flashing smileys. Hoping that I get my peak this weekend. How are you doing? Xx

Hi @Sallyjo27 cycle day 25 here feeling really rubbish today a bit sicky and tired not sure if it's because of the antibiotics for my uti. Keeping everything crossed for you I followed SMEP this cycle so I'm really hoping it has worked for me. I've found the tww ok this time round although now that I'm getting closer to af being due I'm starting to think about it. Xx

@Kangaroo77 yeah, I think sometimes you really just know! Both pregnancies I have known before testing. That's Ok it will turn up (I hope).

@2020wish some people are more sensitive! I've seen lots of posts where people have known early on xx

@Sallyjo27 hey 👋 on CD16! Sounds like you have got yourself covered!! Hopefully these last two weeks fly by x

@he88 aw no! Sorry to hear that, it could be from antibiotics especially if they are strong. How are you UTI symptoms now? Have the antibiotics helped at all? When will you test? Got everything crossed for you! Xx

@vp91x I hope so was going to DTD again today but had a crap nights sleep and just haven’t got the energy 😂 I hope they go quickly xx

@2020wish I have been feeling twinges 4dpo - but I also got twinges last cycle and AF got me :(

@Sallyjo27 uti symptoms seem ok today only started the antibiotics yesterday and will finish them on Saturday. I plan to test when af is late but I'm getting a bit ancy and what to test now ha ha. When I fell pregnant I had my positive by now as I tested early but I had a strong feeling that I was pregnant.
When do you plan on testing? Xx

@2020wish you can definitely get twinges that early on, although our minds may not always be optimistic our bodies are so they are preparing for that fertilised egg right up to our period pretty much, they only give up in the last few days if there is not implantation 😊

@VP91x @Mommybear05 well at 31 years old I've got my first ever BFN out of the way and actually wasn't half as depressing as I'd hyped it to be 😂 G&T in hand and onto the next cycle xx