TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

@2020wish weve gone test mad havnt we and i was about to write the same at the end of my last message is it bed time yet! I wint sleep well tonight 🙄 plan to go on a very long dog walk later to make me tired x

@Hayleylou89 the madness has started. It’s what we get for testing early but who are we kidding, we were never waiting til af was late 🤣 I’ve been testing from 7dpo

Just got a BFN on a FRER 😓 so I'll be waiting for AF to show now even though should be here today really and no sign of her no symptoms or anything 😓😓 so may have a slightly longer cycle this time xxxx good luck with tests tomo ladies 🤞🌈

I've never had back ache with my period before and this back ache is very annoying I'm having to use a hot water bottle... thus month just feels odd... 2 day bleed? With a massive clot as soon as the clot went my bleeding stopped?? Extra thirsty? Dry mouth? Back ache and weird low abdominal pains? Just doesn't sit right

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah I’m 36 too - fell pregnant at the beginning of Jan (incredibly lucky as it was first time and forst ever pregnancy) but sadly had a mmc with bleeding stopping at end of Feb - since then have been tracking ovulation and dtd round that time, but no luck :( so I feel your worry!! I try my hardest to remain calm and positive as they stress can affect things - but that is easier said than done!!

I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced this..I’m currently 11dpo and spotting today (started yesterday - only when wiping) and whislt I never started AF with spitting before, last cycle I had 4 days of spotting before AF (which is due anywhen between tomo and Sunday for me!) has anyone else experienced sootting pre AF since a mc - even though you didn’t have it before?

@Bellabubble yes I spot 5-6 days before AF and then can spot for a few days after too, never had this before MMC but has happened last two cycles xx

Good luck to all the ladies testing over the next few days, fingers crossed for you! 🤞 x

@Dipsy77 it’s really frustrating isn’t it - mine always starts around the time it could be ib too - which gets my hopes up!

Yes I felt the same I was convinced last cycle that's what is was but it wasn't 😩x

Hey ladies, can I join?

I had a NMC on the 22nd of April at 7 weeks pregnant. I bleed for a week and ovulated 3 weeks later on the 12th of may so I am currently 9dpo and trying so hard not to test so early 😂. I have been cramping since 4dpo but not sure if that is normal or not after a MC before your first AF. I am also feeing really tired but Feel like I'm just symptom spotting. Does anyone else symptom spot? It's hard not to right? Af is due on Tuesday so hoping the next 5 day go pretty quick so I can start testing of it doesn't arrive!

@renna ahh have u just tested!! Have u had any signs af is coming? Xxx

@Hayleylou89 yeah just tested was playing on my mind and thought I'll be testing in the morning so it's not much difference in time of feeling down about seeing a BFN! Nope no signs or symptoms of AF either and that's why I thought I'd give a test a go ... this time last cycle I was full flow in the morning 🤷‍♀️ I normally get cramps hours before AF starts so maybe she wont even show today . Xxx

@2020wish Iv just done a cb similar to urs with afternoon pee and this has come up its not a solid line though and iv some poor reviews on these tests so dnt really know why i done it...more so cos i wasnt bothered about wasting it like an frer 🤦🏽‍♀️ got absolutely no Patience to just wait until tomorrow... i could technically only be 8dpo not 9 dpo going off what nc was first predicting x

Waiting for tomorrow is so stressful! My CB tests are due to arrive this evening but have been reading about the accuracy of the Easy at Home tests and turns out it is very common to get a false positive on them. So not feeling very positive about tomorrow but will see. I was going to mention it to my DH tonight but think I'll wait now.

Fingers crossed @Hayleylou89 and @2020wish

@Ima00015 your almost identical to me. I miscarriaged on April 23rd at nearly 7 weeks. Ovulated again 11may. 10 dpo today. Today I got my first faint positive so I’m hoping it’s real

@Hayleylou89 ohhhh I see itS fingers crossed it’s real! Roll on tomorrow for both of us. My mum and sister called today and I showed them
Mine and they both said it’s an obvious positive so I’m hoping it’s stronger tomorrow. Getting some real twinges but trying not to get my hopes up

@Renna hoping tomorrow morning with fmu will give u a clear positive

@maybe show him and see what his opinion is? But definitely test tomorrow also

@Renna @Isittimeforbubblesyet
Aw its awful how it makes u feel... iv just done an frer to "back up" the clear blue test with the same pee sample and its negative so think i trust frer over cb ... thats my bubble burst anyway 👎 will do another frer tomorrow with fmu and see what happens, if theres a faint line ill be happy if its blank then im probably out too x

@2020wish
I have my fingers crossed for you and hopefully it's a positive! When will you test again?

@Hayleylou89 when I was last pregnant frer wouldn’t give me a positive even tho clear blue 6 days early and clear blue digital test where. I was indeed pregnant. After a lot of googling I found out frer aren’t actually that realible and loads of complaints about them. Here’s my tests last time I was pregnant taken two days after af was due with different batches

Not even a squinter on those frer tests all same urine

@2020wish ahh that gives me a little bit of hope but last time frer showed for me around 10 dpo but today it was afternoon pee so ill do my last frer tomorrow morning and go from there 🙏🌈💖 x

Fingers crossed for tomorrow. I’m
I’m two minds to do a frer cause of that experience last time and might make me lose hope lol

Ahh @Hayleylou89 I can see the line on the CB test! Fingers crossed tomorrow with FMU it gets stronger!

😂 @2020wish I'm going to end up like you testing from 7dpo I am SO impatient.

My mood has been terrible today, I am beyond irritable. Had a 2hr nap when my little girl had her midday sleep as well as I just felt so bleurgh! Can't stand what hormones do to us sometimes xx

@VP91x me too

@2020wish Because iv seen the frer as neg I automatically think im out, the only thing making me think i could still be in is the constant hunger iv had all day iv been so so hungry even after eating x

@Hayleylou89 you are still very early. No way are you out now .

@VP91x hahah sure you might as well. What are you now? 4dpo or 5?

I’m actually feeling quite light headed and slightly nauseated. Didn’t get these symptoms with my last pregnancy. Dunno what to make of it. I hope I’ve a positive tomorrow

@2020wish 4DPO apparently!

Keep hydrated as well, then if you know that the symptoms are still there you can differentiate and not second guess yourself xx