TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

@VP91x how are you getting along today?😊

So, I don't see a rise in my bbt 😫 I thought it was rising the other day but now it's dropped again. I did a cheapie opk today and it's darker than yesterday. So I'm thinking I probably didn't ovulate yet, despite what I thought. In January, I ovulated around day 17/18 so maybe I'm going to be doing the same this cycle? I feel like I'm at my wits end now, just so confused about the whole thing.

I asked hubby if he wanted to take a break, because we've been dtd every day since last week, and he says, "but what if tonight is the night?" 😳🤣 so now I'm of course thinking what if he is right, and what if I decide to stop now and then I miss my actual ovulation. I just want to scream!!!!

@SmileyT ah that's good!! Yeah, shouldn't matter much you are still doing the plan regardless!! Oh, don't think like that. You definitely have a good chance ❤️

It is nicer isn't it! Xx

Congrats @Donnat89 that's a clear positive to me..congrats 😘 so so nice to see another positive in here 🥰🌈

Thank you ! I'm trying to be calm until I can 100% confirm it as I'm
Worried il end up very disappointed.

Will see what the line looks like tomorrow using FMU X

@Rainbowhope11 I'm doing well, how are you feeling? Omg you're a trooper! I'm on day #4 and I'm glad it will be done. I better get a positive PG test because I need a break 😂😂

What CD are you now? Is the line darker than the control line?? Did they go lighter again after your dark ones?

What does your chart look like now? Xx

@Donnat89 what sort of symptoms have u been getting ? X x

hahaha I feel you! Totally need a break and a bop after all this :)

I'm on CD 14 today, so if I were to carry on until CD 19 that would be until this weekend. The lines got lighter between Friday and Monday, and then this morning when I tested, they looked like they were getting darker again, hubby agreed as well. I'm going to carry on testing with the cheapies this week to see if they get darker.

My chart is looking like this now. Although I had some confusion on whether my reading was 96.8 or 98.6 yesterday haha! My bbt thermometer doesn't have a backlight so its difficult for me to see in the mornings. I have since read some bad reviews on that particular thermometer so I just ordered a different kind which will hopefully be here later today. Apparently the thermometer that I have has given people inaccurate readings, which I have to agree with now that I'm thinking about it. But that all adds to my confusion :-/

@Quail15 and @Donnat89 congratulations on your bfps really nice to see and gives some hope to us all 😀 xx

@Rainbowhope11 yeah normally if they are positive the line would be darker than the test line. Have they been like that?

Hopefully your new themometer lets you get better readings and it will let you see a pattern!

Test a couple of times a day with your cheapies. But I reckon you could just DTD every other day? Xx

@Hayleylou89 I haven't had any really I should be cramping by now , all I've had is slight back ache which by now would be worse but not yet

I'm gonna the test tomorrow and hopefully get a nice clear line as I worry this is a cruel trick x

Does any of you believe in angel/tarot cards/crystals?

Yep 🙋‍♀️

I just had my cards read and asked what was lined up for me this month- the three cards I picked out were, all debts paid off, pregnancy and children

I have just paid my final installment on my last piece of debt two days ago And then other two... don’t want to get my hopes up

Last time she read my cards two months ago the pregnancy card came up and I was pregnant.. think my anxiety has just gotten worse lol

@2020wish 🙏🏻🙏🏻 wowsers. Let's hope xxx

@2020wish I love a reading haven't had one in a long time ! But that sounds good ! Fingers crossed it works out xx

Ahh @2020wish I had my cards read recently too!! Xx

Oh I hope 😭 she’s no Idea I ended up pregnant before and lost it. Or that I’m trying. So I’m hoping for a BFP in the next 5 days

Anything juicy on ur cards @VP91x

@2020wish yeah she was quite specific about pregnancy, a major achievement and around health. She even gave me some approximations. It was all very odd! I alwaya get overwhelmed by readings they give me alot of comfort xx

Ladies I need line eyes please just took this Frer and I feel like I can see the slightest line anyone else? Thing is I thought the line would be a lot darker as I'm a day late for af so think I could just be seeing things. Xx

@HE88 theres definitely something there! Some people don't get a BFP until a week after. Wait a couple of days and test again?

I see a line!

@VP91x they give me comfort also. Fingers crossed they both are right

@HE88 I see the line! Was it FMU? And you're sure when you ovulated etc? X

@VP91x @2020wish ooh this sounds really interesting, probably a stupid question but where do you go to get this done?

@HE88 are you like 16dpo? You certain of ovulation date? I can't see the line but I rarely see faint lines on my phone tbh, is it pink in real life? This is so exciting 🎉 we seem to have hit a lucky streak 👌🏾

@Ejb86 yeah I'll wait a couple of days I need to buy more anyway.
@VP91 no it wasn't fmu so could be that my urine was too diluted. I'm pretty sure I ovulated around about the 4th.
Im just not sure I've had some spotting since Friday I'm worried that it's a chemical. Xx