Hi all, I'm new here and this whole ttc thing is brand new so some advice would be greatly appreciated!
I fell pregnant in December and unfortunately lost the baby at 9 weeks, I didn't know I was pregnant until 7 weeks so it was a bit of a whirlwind and it all happened so quickly! Me and my fiancé weren't trying at the time, but the whole experience has made us realise that we would love to become parents, and were in a very good position to do so. I know it can take ages, so we have welcomed this journey with open arms and being completely chill about it!
To cut a long story short, I was having very irregular periods about 3/4 years ago when I was very overweight. Me and my ex were ttc but I had no idea and we weren't doing the whole thing properly. It was an awful time, and I'm very thankful it didn't happen. That being said, I went to drs for scans as they wanted to diagnose me with pcos, but couldn't find anything on my scans. So I never got an answer, and when we split and I lost 6 stone my periods became regular (still long cycles about 30+ days, and never bang on date but regular for me) so I just put it down to weight.
My ex is now having a baby with his new partner and I just thought I was infertile (which I was totally at peace with) until I fell pregnant in December...
ANYWAY
I am now 15 days late. I had all the symptoms of af coming when it was supposed to come, but it was very strange pains, and my boobs were not sore or swollen.
Now I'm supper bloated, headaches, and my boobs... OMG they're huge, and they HURT!!
But I took a test yesterday and it was a bfn
I really don't understand what's going on, i was just wondering if anyone had experienced anything like this??
Thanks in advance! Xxx