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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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EssJayyCee · 21/02/2020 16:23

I am 27 years old, TTC baby #1.
We have been trying for 20 months with a MC in January at 6 weeks.

I have had 3 days with positive opk lots of EWCM and a temp rise this morning so I think I am officially 1DPO.

I would love to have some people to share the next two weeks with! To talk to and potentially symptom spot with (although not always the best thing to do!)

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EssJayyCee · 24/02/2020 21:31

@Candyqueen01 No ive not had a period yet. Although 13 days before I ovulated I had a small bit of spotting so I am thinking that may have been some kind of weird extra light period.

Probably around 6th march

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Crazywheeloflife · 24/02/2020 21:45

Hi I would welcome opinions please. Not sure wether to be excited or not just yet. Never going to sleep now to do one with fmu in the morning Smile

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Redmarchingband · 24/02/2020 21:49

Can I join please? I’m 6/7dpo and have been TTC since January 19 with a brief break in Dec-January due to some surgery which I needed. Am trying not to symptom spot but having horrific cramps in my left side and due on, on Saturday so here’s hoping

Candyqueen01 · 24/02/2020 21:52

Sounds like a possible af

My af due 4th March so i will wait until then and if af dont come I'll test

Candyqueen01 · 24/02/2020 21:56

@Crazywheeloflife
I can definately see a line but looks more black than pink I'd try one in morning to be sure fingers crossed how many dpo are you

Candyqueen01 · 24/02/2020 21:58

@Redmarchingband
How long are your cycles mine seem to be short so hoping my cramps are more than just ovulation cramps but im only 4dpo
Fingers crossed for you when are you going to test

EssJayyCee · 24/02/2020 21:59

@Crazywheeloflife that definitely looks like a possible BFP definitely test again tomorrow!
Can you get an FRER? They seem best.

@Redmarchingband Hello lovely! Fingers crossed for you! Hopefully they are implantation cramps and you will get your bfp soon!
I know how you feel about trying for so long! We have been TTC since july 2018! With only 1 bfp which ended in MC 🙁

@Candyqueen01 Sounds like a plan. With my long irregular cycles I never know how long my LP is so I'm aiming for 14 days after I ovulated before I test. I hope it's good news but I have a strong feeling it wont be!

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Crazywheeloflife · 24/02/2020 22:03

Thank you for replying, I’m 15dpo had a stark negative this morning and just thought I’d try before I went to bed. This one os not a held urine and I have one more of these tests left for the morning. Going to try and sleep and see what the morning test says
Thank you and fingers crossed for everyone.

Crazywheeloflife · 24/02/2020 22:05

@EssJayyCee I can get a frer tomorrow they sell them in the chemist next door to where I work so am planning to save some of fmu and take it to work with me 🤣

Redmarchingband · 24/02/2020 22:06

@Candyqueen01my last 5/6 cycles have either been 28 or 29 days so I’m really hoping it’s implantation and not a rogue period.

@EssJayyCee so sorry to hear about your mc, I really hope you get the BFP you’ve been waiting for - after all, good things come to those who wait! How have you kept yourself positive? I find each month that goes by is harder and lots of friends have recently announced pregnancies so it’s never far from my mind

EssJayyCee · 24/02/2020 22:08

@Crazywheeloflife Does that make you 1 day late for AF then?
Some people say your second morning urine is better than the first. So maybe try that instead?
I hope you get a dark BFP in the morning 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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EssJayyCee · 24/02/2020 22:13

@Redmarchingband Thank you. Honestly, I have struggled to stay positive. I believe I only got pregnant before because I had relaxed because my next fertility appointment I was meant to be getting medication to help. But since I have miscarried I now have to try a further 6 months before I get the medication.

I am hoping I will conceive in that 6 months because I don't really want to have to take medication. But I have a strong feeling I won't conceive.

I know what you mean, my sister is pregnant 20 weeks and my sister in law has just had her baby so it's been a bit of a rough time for me!

It would have been our 12 week scan next week if our little bean had have stuck :(

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Candyqueen01 · 24/02/2020 22:48

@Crazywheeloflife fingers crossed and let us know how you get off if you get your bfp
@EssJayyCee it will happen for you and I'm so sorry I can imagine it is so hard when you see others around you having babies and being pregnant. My sisters have both had miscarriages and then fallen within a month or 2 after so if it doesn't happen this month maybe next month for you x
@redmarchingband hopefully implantation when will you test at how many dpo?

Crazywheeloflife · 25/02/2020 12:14

I did the test this morning and it looks the same as the one last night. Still no af and now two days late. Very frustrating!

Hoping to see some positives from you all soon.

EssJayyCee · 25/02/2020 12:56

@crazywheeloflife did you get the FRER like you said?

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Crazywheeloflife · 25/02/2020 15:31

@EssJayyCee. They didn’t have any in stock, only clear blue! I’m going to try and finish work early and go to boots in way home and get one

Redmarchingband · 01/03/2020 11:33

I tested a couple days ago with a FRER which was negative but due on today so hoping that af doesn’t arrive. I stopped using OPK’s a couple months ago as it felt like too much pressure so have been relying on Flo & Clue apps to give me an idea when I’m ovulating but realised I’ve been taking ibuprofen so hope that hasn’t skewed it!

How’s everyone else getting on?

EssJayyCee · 01/03/2020 13:06

@Redmarchingband I had an evap line a few days ago on 7dpo and have tested ever since with BFN I don't think I am due AF until Friday but I am having some symptoms I am hoping are pregnancy related!

*bigger boobs
*shortness of breath
*flushed face
*mild cramping and back ache
*vivid dreams

I am planning to stop testing until 12dpo/13dpo which is Tuesday or Wednesday 🤞🏻

Fingers crossed for me!

Hopefully the ibuprofen hasn't done any damage and you also get some good news!

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Redmarchingband · 04/03/2020 18:15

3 days late and enough tests to sink a ship later, AF has arrived. Wallowing on the sofa and debating whether or not to see the Dr Sad good luck to you all though Flowers

EssJayyCee · 05/03/2020 10:40

@Redmarchingband I'm sorry to hear AF arrived.
I've done a test every morning for about 5 days now and no second line either. Other than 2 evaps.

I don't think AF is due for another 5 days because I have quite a long luteal phase. But i feel like i am out this cycle too.

How long have you been TTC?

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Candyqueen01 · 05/03/2020 14:24

My AF arrived Monday
@EssJayyCee you still got to wait for your Af so if it hasnt come yet it's still possible

EssJayyCee · 05/03/2020 15:25

@Candyqueen1 I know you're right but I am so stressed out and so down in the dumps I just know I'm out. Nothing is going right in my life right now so why would this be any different?

I'm not destined for a child. Or to be happy.

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