Feeling alone TTC

[Sitchervice]

Hi there. Feeling quite alone.

I'm 2 days late but have nearly 0 symptoms other than bloating, small cramps.

I'm 100% sure ill get a BFN but I do want to know if other people have got a BFP with no symptoms.

My Hubby and I have not told anyone in our Fam as they can be quite neg about us and our capabilities. So I have no one to turn to for guidance.

Help 😭

I'm sure we will all get our bfps soon. Just need to enjoy the practising, even my doctor said enjoy the BDing, everything else isnt as fun haha! 🤣🤣

@paintfairy @Katbaby
I made a whole batch of pancake mix (early I know) drowning my sorrows. 😂

@Sitchervice @paintfairy had a realistic dream last night that docs rang me after bloods to tell me I was pregnant. Hope I'm psychic 😩 either that or reading and posting on here late before bed made me dream about it haha. Keep us posted if bfp or af shows x

@Sitchervice @Katbaby We are having pancakes too!
My dreams were weird but no babies in them. Lol. But red spotting today so I'll get AF at the weekend sadly.

@Sitchervice @paintfairy thank god I don't like pancakes 🤣🤣. In the gym working off annoying frustrating dreams haha

I'm not sure I like them that much. They usually make me feel sick. 😂

I have now fully missed AF. With 3 BFN. Now what? I guess it's back to the doctor?

I guess so @Sitchervice! Im getting bloods done tomorrow but if they come back all normal levels and with a bfn as the cherry on top then what? I'll be touching cd 70!

@Katbaby any news on your bloods?

@Sitchervice not yet, nurse reckoned Mon-Tues for results to be back. Will keep you posted!!

And yes I think now you're 3 weeks late a gp visit definitely wouldn't harm! I was suffering headaches as well so that was one of the reason they sent me for bloods. You should ask if they would do bloods for you

Another voice joining, cd 23 and some symptoms, could be either way, don't know how to feel.

Bloodwork came back negative for pregnancy, normal for everything else. Cd73 and still nothing. Just wanna cry!

I’ll hand you the tissue @katbaby, ...

Thanks @Franklydear, gonna go back to see gp on Wednesday. Dunno what she will say though probably can't do anything

@katbaby, not the same, I know, but I have a chronic illness where all they can do is management, a positive attitude helps, let them try everything they can think of until they say there’s nothing we can do, a lot will depend on your personal circumstances, and if there’s really nothing they can do, what is the alternative, what’s next? Keep asking, the bulb will turn on at some point...

Thanks @Franklydear, just feeling negative today. Will pull myself together tomorrow 😂

@Katbaby I'm sorry they didn't bring anything up. If you GP appears to brush you off I'd simply ask "why aren't you taking me seriously". I did that once and they found my chronic bladder problem within a few months. Sometimes I feel like GPS can't be bothered unless your really old or a child.

@Katbaby, that reminds me of my friend Mel, she always says you can cry today but tomorrow you’re back in that horse...

@Sitchervice yeah I mean she was great last time sending me for bloods without hesitancy so hopefully she will put my mind at rest, I'm back in to see her Wednesday afternoon so even if it's fruitless at least it's an early finish from work! Every cloud 😂

Yes @Franklydear can't wallow can I, need to get back in the sack to attempt to make a baby don't i! Hahaha. Looks like I'll be jumping on hubby later

AF has arrived! Now it can go away

@Sitchervice I'm glad you aren't in limbo anymore! Yes hopefully it's a relatively short and painless one for you

@Katbaby any news on you?

@Sitchervice no unfortunately not, currently taking up permanent residency in limbo land. Looking at holidays to take my mind of things 😬

@Katbaby did doctor not do anything then?