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Lisah76 · 16/01/2020 14:33

Hi ladies
I'm new to this forum and looking for some advice. I've been ttc for a year and a half now. I have a 24 day cycle that's like clockwork. This month I'm 4 days late and have none of the usual PMS symptoms that I normally get. I tested today but its negative. Has this evey happened you and you were pregnant as I'm thinking maybe I tested to early! I'd appreciate anyones advice. It's really messing with my head!!

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Lisah76 · 23/01/2020 16:39

@brokenheart013 I know what you mean. I'm not sure but I wouldnt trust them if there expired so its possible 🤞🤞

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Lisah76 · 23/01/2020 16:40

If I was you I'd get a new test and see. Keep me posted x

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brokenheart013 · 23/01/2020 17:35

Thanks for the well wishes dear.will get a new test tomorrow.the confusion continues argh!!

Any symptoms your end hun ??

Lisah76 · 23/01/2020 19:03

I know its head wrecking lol but hopefully you will get your BFP. No not really get an odd mild cramp here and there but nothing major and still have a heavy feeling at the bottom of my stomach but that's it. What about you?

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brokenheart013 · 24/01/2020 04:41

Good morning,hope you slept well
Apart from feeling full ,all my other earlier symptoms seem to have disappeared.the cramping and the nausea have eased off.

Lisah76 · 24/01/2020 11:32

Good morning you to hun :) yep same here it's so confusing. Best of luck if your testing today 🤞🤞

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brokenheart013 · 24/01/2020 17:49

I didn't bother buying another test today as l started spotting.so l think l am on my way out Sad.🤞 for you

Lisah76 · 24/01/2020 20:00

Oh no 😥 I hope your ok sending hugs xx

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brokenheart013 · 25/01/2020 14:00

Thanks hey,
Nothing yet but my cramps have upped a notch and definitely af on its way.its been a horrible ride.l just want to curl up and sleep the whole weekend .what is going on your end?have you poas again yet?rooting for you lovely

Lisah76 · 25/01/2020 16:01

Ah I know that feeling it's so disheartening but chin up and postive thoughts it will happen. No havent POAS again I just cant take another bfn! I woke this morning for work and was very light headed like I was going to faint dont know why. I had heartburn for 2 days straight but 8 don't know if its all in my head now if you get me. I'm going to the doc next week if no sign of AF. I really hope your ok xx

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brokenheart013 · 27/01/2020 05:00

Hey,hope your weekend was good.
Those symptoms sound promising 🤞.hope your visit to the doc confirms a bfpWink!!!
I'm suffering from cramps and a bloated tummy but no real af as yet.l wake up moreover confused each day

Lisah76 · 27/01/2020 08:22

Good morning hope you had a good weekend to 😊 I tested again this morning as I felt rotten and another BFN and no sign of af. Think I've given up now our bodies can play awful tricks on us. It's very confusing so know how your feeling xx Have you been to see your doctor yet?

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Elles1980 · 27/01/2020 09:27

Hey ladies so sorry to hear your still having problems in your cycles 😒. I was having that but started taking fertility smart tablets, there a tad expensive but I thought I'm willing to go all out seen as it's a race against time. This is my second month taking them and IV never had so much cm (sorry for tmi) it's like iv used preseed all of the time! I said to my oh about it and how I think I'm ovulating (had a weird mid cycle bleed so was lost as when I'd ovulate) and I have peaked this morning! At this point I'd recommend them but will keep you posted as to whether I catch or not, sending hugs and hope you get answers soon, it must be so frustrating for you xxx

Lisah76 · 27/01/2020 21:26

Hi Elles1980 thanks for the message. It is very frustrating but you've got to try think postive. I just wish I knew what was going on I have never ever been this late so was convinced I was pregnant but looks like I'm not. Keep us posted how things go for you wishing you loads of luck 🤞 xx

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brokenheart013 · 28/01/2020 06:19

Morning ladies
Sorry for another bfn@Lisah76 ,l definitely feel for you.lets hope you get answers on your visit to the doctor.
I finally got my period on cd77.l have never been so happy to see af lol but at least I can move on to the next cycle.
@Elles1980 thanks hun will be looking out for your progress.do you need a prescription for the fertility smart tablets?l wouldn't mind trying

Lisah76 · 28/01/2020 12:09

Hi @brokenheart013 at least you can move on now to your next cycle sending you loads of luck. I thought my af was coming last night had bad cramps and an upset tummy but still nothing maybe it's on the way just have to wait and see.

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Lisah76 · 28/01/2020 22:50

Well ladies I'm no longer late as I started this evening. So on to next month now fingers crossed it will happen soon for us 🤞🤞

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brokenheart013 · 30/01/2020 17:36

It must be such a relief hey. I am having such a painful period 😖 .fingers crossed for us both and let's hope our being late again will be coming with a bfp.

Elles1980 · 30/01/2020 18:35

Hey ladies @brokenheart013 fertility smart aren't prescribed, I got mine offline but there fairly expensive. I also take extra folic acid and omega 3, I'll give anything a try. @Lisah76 it must be bittersweet to have gotten a period but hopefully you can look forward to being able to try again now rather than being stuck in limbo ☹️! Xxx

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