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Kates21 · 13/01/2020 10:57

So, the subject says it all! Although I feel I may have more a chance this month.
I came off the pill December - last month we was out. But this month, I apparently ovulated yesterday 12/01/20. We did the deed twice 2 days before ovulation... so today Iam 1dpo.

Anyone in the same that wants to join?
I really want to try not symptom spot, but yesterday I felt the cramps - which led me to think it was ovulation.
Confused

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Mamahannah2019 · 31/01/2020 14:14

@Kates21 aww so sorry he's being a dick babes x

Still no period. Accepted my cycles are to pot.

Kates21 · 31/01/2020 14:20

@Mamahannah2019

That’s so strange! Have you contacted gp?
I’m so used to it hun, it’s just incredibly draining! Xx

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LV1987 · 31/01/2020 17:28

Despite our manic week (which did NOT slow down today 😴) we managed to squeeze in some BD last night, so we are on track! Glad it was last night, as I'm ready to curl up and sleep now... Survived January though, hurrah!

Mamahannah2019 · 31/01/2020 18:34

@Kates21 no haven't contacted them, don't really know what to say to them. I think I'll wait a week take a test then if it's neg go from there. Of course if I don't come on before.

Hope everyone's ok x

Avacadoandtoast · 31/01/2020 22:10

@Kates21 he sounds like a right treat - just copy the message you send him every month word for word - with a pleasant ‘thank you’! Nothing more, nothing less. What an idiot - sorry you have to deal with all that x

@Mamahannah2019 how frustrating - I know how it feels, I was so desperate to turn positive, but actually so relieved to get af as at least then I knew where we stood. Hope you get an answer soon!

Kates21 · 01/02/2020 08:58

@Avacadoandtoast

Thank you, I’m so used to it. It’s just draining and really causes me anxiety! Asshole. Xx

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Kates21 · 02/02/2020 13:15

How we doing girls?
Just gone into my fertile period - although we BD twice Friday night, I wonder whether I ovulate earlier than my projected date. But anyway, I’ll see him again Friday which is my ovulation date. So we will get a few more in 😂 xx

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LV1987 · 02/02/2020 14:37

Think I may be about to go into mine too, which is good as much earlier than last month, might be heading for a more "regular" 30ish day cycle this month 🤞
Planning on candles and a bath bomb tonight... But I've been told I have to wait until after the footy 😂

polejunkie · 02/02/2020 16:27

Hey ladies!!

I’m about to hit O I think, maybe tomorrow if it wasn’t today, fingers crossed! Literally everyone I know is pregnant atm, killer!!

My girls dad has also been a cock lately urgh honestly - onwards and upwards, 2ww here we come again, I too do not want to symptom spot this time , hahaha we’ll see x

LV1987 · 03/02/2020 07:37

Not sure how, but I think I may have missed my window?! Cervix is back to being low and closed already at CD10 😒🙄 maybe I'm not in for a regular month after all 😭

polejunkie · 03/02/2020 08:09

Oh @LV1987 surely that was a bloody small window if you've missed it already?! I apparently ovulate on cycle day 12 - My average cycle is quite short at 25 days though...

LV1987 · 03/02/2020 08:34

That's what I'm thinking... It's way too short?? Maybe I just don't know what I'm looking out for as well as I thought I did 🙄 It would be so much easier if, rather than give you "signs" your body would just tell you... Like a notification on Facebook, "You're ovulating today!"

polejunkie · 03/02/2020 08:44

Haha - I fully agree, it's the guessing that is so annoying - Like everyone else said as soon as AF arrives and you actually 'know' you're not pregnant, it's waaay better than second guessing everything isn't it (I mean it's still disheartening, don't get me wrong...)

Ignore your cervix maybe and use OPKs? Or look for other signs, my CM tells me a lot - although here I am - 100% not yet pregnant lol x

LV1987 · 03/02/2020 09:09

CM is still creamy at the moment so I guess that's a good thing, I'll keep an eye over the next couple of days and hopefully it'll do what it needs to do 🤞

Mamahannah2019 · 03/02/2020 10:14

Sorry to jump in but AF is here. 1 week late but she came eventually. Onto the next month of trying with OPK's x

LV1987 · 03/02/2020 11:31

That's good news! As we've said before, disappointing, but also good to know where you are 😁

Kates21 · 03/02/2020 12:42

Hey girls,

Sorry about AF @Mamahannah2019 disappointing but at least you know where you stand.

How are we all?
I’m well into fertile week, ewcm but also creamy! I’m really open minded, this time round actually a ‘not bothered’ attitude. I’ve got a busy month, so I will be occupied with other things. I’ve decided to not log DPO too. So will just wait and see if AF arrives around 21st! Xx

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polejunkie · 03/02/2020 13:36

I'm ok thanks - Feel I'm in with a good chance this month so am trying to be relaxed, much like you @kates21, AF due around 17th so I am officially in the TWW I guess lol... Going to try not to symptom spot, but am hopeful this is our month! We're on similar timeline really!

We BD 30th, 31st and 02nd and I think today is O-day x

polejunkie · 05/02/2020 08:04

Hope you're all busy BD-ing Wink

Kates21 · 05/02/2020 09:06

God this time 3 years ago, it was two before I gave birth. Contractions started tomorrow morning 😁

I haven’t Bd’d since Friday 🙁 BUT ovulation Friday or Saturday this week so we will bd Friday xx

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polejunkie · 05/02/2020 09:12

Awh @kates21 happy birthday to your little boy for Friday! What a lush way to bookmark it... by conceiving your next! Grin

Still feeling relaxed this time round? I am, although I could do with being slightly busier at work tbh, being busy really helps... x

Kates21 · 05/02/2020 10:45

@polejunkie

I’m so relaxed, I have a really busy month so a lot more going on. Haven’t really thought about TTC tbh, haven’t tracked Cm or Cp. so really am going in blind xxx

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Kates21 · 05/02/2020 10:46

Also, thank you for the happy birthday. Just shocked I’m going to have a 3 year old 🤦🏽‍♀️

@polejunkie

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polejunkie · 05/02/2020 10:54

Ah good that you're busy - Fingers crossed!

When my little one turned three I was like 'let's get a move on with number two!!!' haha x

LV1987 · 05/02/2020 10:58

Morning! Wow a 3 year old 😍 I found this year to be the most interesting with my youngest stepson... It's when he started to really chatter away. He's not stopped since 😂

I think I might still be in the game after all. CP back up high after what I can only assume was a blip day, when it was very low and closed. Not had much spare time to BD this week so far though, as work has continued to be manic for us both! I work in property, so finally getting Brexit out of the way has led to a lot of people taking the brakes off. Great for business, not so great for my energy levels!!!

Hope everyone is well 😊