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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Kates21 · 13/01/2020 10:57

So, the subject says it all! Although I feel I may have more a chance this month.
I came off the pill December - last month we was out. But this month, I apparently ovulated yesterday 12/01/20. We did the deed twice 2 days before ovulation... so today Iam 1dpo.

Anyone in the same that wants to join?
I really want to try not symptom spot, but yesterday I felt the cramps - which led me to think it was ovulation.
Confused

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Mamahannah2019 · 27/01/2020 23:39

@MilsCookie omg I've had twinges and pains over left and right sides recently too. More on the left but today it's been on the right, I've read lots of positive things about that but don't want to get my hopes up. The pains near my hip/ ovary area. Hope it means something for us! It's so hard to not test isn't it x

Avacadoandtoast · 28/01/2020 06:57

@Mamahannah2019 @MilsCookie
So I caved and did another test this morning - still a BFN! Still no sign of AF so I have no idea what’s going on..
Hope it’s better news for both of you ladies!

Bethwox · 28/01/2020 08:00

aaaand I'm out ☹️☹️

MilsCookie · 28/01/2020 08:20

@Bethwox ohhh sorry to hear that lovely 😘

@Avacadoandtoast so annoying isn't it! No AF and no BFP - what is going on with our bodies!!! Fingers crossed the bfp is still on the way for you 😘

@Mamahannah2019 really! Funnily that's probably one symptom I haven't googled yet! 👀 😏

Mamahannah2019 · 28/01/2020 08:55

@MilsCookie took a test with morning urine. Negative, no faint line nothing. Flat out negative. It was a first response too. Still no sign of period. God knows what's happening!

Mamahannah2019 · 28/01/2020 08:56

@Avacadoandtoast negative for me too lovely.

MilsCookie · 28/01/2020 09:05

@Mamahannah2019 ohhh that's so frustrating, sorry to hear that. I'm still to scared to test!! Hopefully it's just too early for the HCG to show?🤞how many dpo are you now?

Avacadoandtoast · 28/01/2020 09:13

@Mamahannah2019 what is going on?! When did you think you ovulated?
I’m purely going by midpoint of my cycle - but I have a shortish (26day) cycle usually. So thinking I’m 15ish DPO. Surely if I am pregnant it would show by now..this is driving me crazy!

Mamahannah2019 · 28/01/2020 09:29

@MilsCookie I was due on yesterday so I don't think too early. Think I'm out this month but now it's annoying because no signs of period :(

Mamahannah2019 · 28/01/2020 09:30

@Avacadoandtoast we are in the exact same boat! That's what I'm thinking like if I was pregnant it would show now for sure. So frustrating. I'd rather AF show now x

Avacadoandtoast · 28/01/2020 10:05

I know - me too!

Kates21 · 28/01/2020 11:22

Gosh girls that’s quite frustrating isn’t it!

I hope there is some answers soon! Xx

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Kates21 · 28/01/2020 11:24

I went to the drs about my af.

Dr suggested that it may possibly appeared different due to having 2 periods in January.... my December period started 29th - 2nd jan & this one 25th - and still going.

So she said next month it’ll be levelled out.
I also asked about coming off the pill and effects, she said regardless of when you come off the pill once a week has passed the pill is out of your system therefore your fertility rate resumes to normality.. she said periods won’t be effected since the withdrawal bleed is seperate, normal periods tend to resume within your normal cycle days.

So who knows xx

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Avacadoandtoast · 28/01/2020 12:03

Fingers crossed for you this month @kates21 - it’s good you’ve been to see a doctor and had that reassurance

polejunkie · 28/01/2020 12:57

Glad you went drs x

AutumnCat · 28/01/2020 12:58

I'm having the same as a few other posters. I was so convinced on Sunday that AF was imminent and then still no sign, just some cramping and a bit of spotting. But BFN sunday. Will test again next Sunday if no signs! My cycle is usually quite variable and I dont think I can be pregnant but by Sunday itll be 41 days. I've only had a cycle that ling twice before so worth testing again then if needs be.

How do you feel about what the GP said @kates21?

Kates21 · 28/01/2020 15:26

I’m fine what GP said tbh, gave me clarity. & answered my worries around AF.

Onwards and upwards x

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Kates21 · 29/01/2020 07:59

Period has ended, started a day early and lasted 4 days.

So, here we go waiting for our fertile days.... I feel rough today, feel like it’s the flu! God help me haha

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Avacadoandtoast · 29/01/2020 08:06

Good luck @kates21 - that’s exciting!!

I’m deffo not pregnant (took an early detection test this morning and nothing!), but AF 3 days late now. Most bizarre, she’s always bang on time. I just want her to come now - it’s frustrating!

Kates21 · 29/01/2020 08:25

@avacadoandtoast

That’s really frustrating, I’m sorry! I hope you get some answers soon!!

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LV1987 · 29/01/2020 09:41

Mine has ended as well now, so onto the joys of another wait!

Kates21 · 29/01/2020 09:43

@lv1987

As excited as Iam, I’m dreading it! I hate the 2WW, and all the mixed signal. I’m going with a really open mind this time, I’m going to limit the use of my app, and not over think things!

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MilsCookie · 29/01/2020 10:44

@Avacadoandtoast sorry to hear that lovely. Are you using FRERs?

So girls I tested this morning (af now 1 day late) and I got the FAINTEST of faint lines. You can barely see it in the photo. Can anyone else see anything? I've just got to wait and see now and test again on Friday 😩.

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Kates21 · 29/01/2020 11:03

@MilsCookie

I SEE IT!!!!

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MilsCookie · 29/01/2020 11:07

@Kates21 thanks for replying lovely!! this waiting game is bloody hard 😩

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