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Kates21 · 13/01/2020 10:57

So, the subject says it all! Although I feel I may have more a chance this month.
I came off the pill December - last month we was out. But this month, I apparently ovulated yesterday 12/01/20. We did the deed twice 2 days before ovulation... so today Iam 1dpo.

Anyone in the same that wants to join?
I really want to try not symptom spot, but yesterday I felt the cramps - which led me to think it was ovulation.
Confused

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MrsCOR · 24/01/2020 10:30

@Kates21

I have had the opposite. Usually have dry skin but quite oily leading up to AF as I get breakouts.

But my face feels fine today and if anything, the spots I've had are clearing up with nothing new appearing.

Maybe a good sign? Checked CP today and it's gone very soft, feels swollen and high up. CM isn't as much, but still get this wet stringy stuff that is like EWCM but white not clear. Not sure what to think about it!

Kates21 · 24/01/2020 10:40

@mrsCOR

My CP has been high ever since ovulation, to the point I can only just about feel it. My Cm is starting to get thicker now, not much of it.

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Kates21 · 24/01/2020 11:13

I caved & did a test - yep, it’s negative! Knew it would be.

So eagerly waiting af x

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Loulou922 · 24/01/2020 11:47

So had my blood test results back and its positive the hcg level was 17. I have no idea when I ovulated as this cycle has been so long. They are doing another test on Monday to confirm its going up. Nervously excited!

MilsCookie · 24/01/2020 11:51

So sorry @Kates21 and @Anny27 BUT you're not out until AF shows!! I am keeping all my fingers and toes crossed for you that it was just too early 😘

@Loulou922 eeek this is exciting! Keep us updated!!

Kates21 · 24/01/2020 11:52

@Loulou922

Awww this is fab news, so happy for you! X

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Kates21 · 24/01/2020 11:53

@MilsCookie
Thanks love, I’m convinced it’s coming! Who knows! Xx

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polejunkie · 24/01/2020 12:06

Keep positive all of you! When you're out you know you're out - You are not out yet!! x

Kates21 · 24/01/2020 13:12

Blood tinged Cm - af is on her way!

And I’ve got this almighty headache, it’s such a sharp one!

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LV1987 · 24/01/2020 13:13

@Avacadoandtoast also in mixed minds! I'm starting to hope that maybe I ovulated around when I last thought AF was actually on the way, as I had a BFN last Saturday, and that by some miracle we've accidentally timed everything miraculously perfect?!?! Or, I just didn't get spots previously because the pill controlled all of those yucky AF side effects. All very confusing... Still testing tomorrow if no AF so I can have a glass of wine guilt free tomorrow at the spa 😂

Anny27 · 24/01/2020 14:15

I am gutted with this morning bfn if I am honest :( @MilsCookie

@Kates21 me too I think. Have some brown cm too so think she is on the way 😭😭 I am 12dpo

polejunkie · 24/01/2020 14:38

I'm with you all, it's hard, but if AF is coming (or in my case already here) it means we can try again soon - It will happen, I was gutted yesterday and now I know it's over this month, I can focus on next month at least - Plus I can have a big fat gin later xxx

LV1987 · 24/01/2020 14:44

Gin sounds good @polejunkie!!!!

Mamahannah2019 · 24/01/2020 14:46

I had a BFN this morning too girls. Gutted and confused but here we are :(

Kates21 · 24/01/2020 14:50

Also 12dpo!

What a C*nnnnnnnt
Excuse my awful use of language! Still af isn’t in full force just blood tinged Cm x

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Jenna30ttc · 24/01/2020 15:48

@Kates21 Oh dear! Talk about your body playing tricks on you. That's so annoying. Hope you get an answer soon (either way)

MrsCOR · 24/01/2020 17:36

@Kates21 - did you say that you had spotting this month? It might be spotting as usually implantation occurs 7-12 dpo.

Hopefully it's not AF Sad

Fx for you!

Had another feel of my cervix today, still quite high and soft. It also feels really wet like there's loads of cm up there (sorry tmi)??? The cm that comes out is white and stretchy. Has anyone experienced this? I usually dry up in the tww so I'm hoping this is a good sign and maybe get my bfp in a couple of days?

Husband wants me to wait until his birthday on Monday to test again. I feel like I should but want to know asap!

LV1987 · 24/01/2020 18:52

I really felt like I was going to have a killer of an AF yesterday evening, woke up this morning and been fine... No cramping, still a little of of pinky CM and not a great deal of anything else. Not even going to try and understand what is going on with me.

Avacadoandtoast · 24/01/2020 19:22

My DH came home with tests tonight, but I’m scared to do one as don’t want to see a BFN! I think I rather AF show than the stick tells me no...I know that sounds weird!
He really wants me to do one - so for now we are flipping a coin daily (heads - no poas, tails - poas) haha - I won today 😂

ALRM · 24/01/2020 19:35

Hi ladies can I join? AF due on the 28th. Have had headaches, spots, insomnia, mad dreams and now nausea. Am tentatively hopeful but also have tested way too many times from way too early this month. Today's frer was a BFN at 11 dpo but hoping it's just a late BFP. Delusional perhaps 😂

Kates21 · 24/01/2020 20:10

@MrsCOR

Yeah spotted 8dpo, 10dpo & today 12dpo - just done another cp and there is fresh blood... this is so strange for me 2 days before af is due, or even to spot at all! So I’m guessing she’s arriving early! X

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Kates21 · 24/01/2020 20:11

@LV1987

I’ve had no cramping for a few days either! No idea what’s going on

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MrsCOR · 24/01/2020 20:17

@ALRM - welcome!! I've been experiencing insomnia too! I've had 4 days of repetitively waking up and feeling wide awake even though I've been tired all day! Also waking up way before my alarm and struggling to sleep in! 10dpo for me today and bfn - not disappointed just yet as it's too early.

@Kates21 - so sorry if it is af. Our body's can be so cruel at misleading us to believe we are PG. I hope it's not and you're still in with a chance!!

Anny27 · 24/01/2020 20:20

@MrsCOR omg same with the insomnia!!! Literally 3am I wake up and struggle to sleep. Partly think its the excitement of getting up and testing and seeing whether AF has arrived or not.....

@Kates21 I spotted brown cm at 9dpo and now today at 12dpo. Very confused

@Avacadoandtoast ooh I hope your husband wins the coin toss tomorrow haha

Kates21 · 24/01/2020 20:22

@anny27

Very weird isn’t it - I’m all for AF tbh because I know that’s what it is, I’d just rather it happened than doing what it’s doing haha.

@MrsCOR

Don’t be, I can plan for next cycle x

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