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FRER on 8DPO like an idiot!

110 replies

mrsrichy · 08/01/2020 18:17

I tested today (at only 8DPO) like an idiot because the TWW is driving me mad and seems to be dragging! I almost definitely knew it was going to be a BPN but did it anyway... whyyy!! Anyone else in the same boat? I ovulated on 31st Dec (confirmed by opk and Flo app) and have 1 more test at home which I'm trying to save until Saturday/Sunday.

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Nat4392 · 10/01/2020 07:34

Congratulations!
Hope the rest of us all follow suit!

mrsrichy · 10/01/2020 08:06

@debbs77 congratulations!! Lovely news :)

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HarrietM87 · 10/01/2020 08:14

Congratulations! Bfn for me this morning. 11dpo today so think I’m out. AF due sat/sun so will wait until Mon for any more testing. Good luck everyone else!

LuckyWright · 10/01/2020 08:15

Congratulations @debbs77 !!
I tested today... 11DPO and 4 days before AF. I used a Clear Blue Early one that says it can be used 5 days before AF.
Sadly it was a BFN!! It is apparently 96% when done 4 days before AF... so I'm feeling a little like that's me out! But we shall see if AF arrives!
Good Luck to all, as always x

2020wish · 10/01/2020 08:18

Congrats!!!
BFN for me today . 13dpo and af due sat/sun so think that’s me out

debbs77 · 10/01/2020 08:28

Fingers crossed for everyone!

I never realised what a crazy and obsessive journey this would be, and I totally appreciate how lucky I've been in the past. Xxx

mimmi91 · 10/01/2020 08:37

@debbs77 congratulations!! Must be a huge relief!!

I also got a BFN today at 10dpo ; but am imagining a super faint line... Can anyone else see something, or am I being crazy obsessive?

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FRER on 8DPO like an idiot!
FRER on 8DPO like an idiot!
HarrietM87 · 10/01/2020 09:12

I can’t see anything @mimmi91, but those cheapies aren’t the most sensitive - maybe do a FRER tomorrow?

I took my test apart this morning and feel like I can see a shadow, but at 11dpo I’d expect it to be a proper line so it’s either imaginary or just trigger residue. Really hate this part now - just want AF to arrive and on to the new cycle!

mrsrichy · 10/01/2020 09:21

@mimmi91 I think I can see something on the 2nd photo, although very faint

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kell2126 · 10/01/2020 10:34

@mimmi91 I can see it on all three!!

kell2126 · 10/01/2020 10:35

Huge congrats @debbs77!!! Flowers

mimmi91 · 10/01/2020 10:39

@HarrietM87 and @mrsrichy that's ok, I did think I was being completely obsessive.

These HCG strips supposedly only detect min 20mIU/ml, and at dpo10 a pregnant woman is only at about 10mIU/ml, so I'm not out yet!!

For info, this is a chart of HCG in mIU/ml per dpo I found online... Don't know if there's any truth to it...

DPO 10 : 10 mIU/ml
DPO 11 : 18 mIU/ml
DPO 12 : 30 mIU/ml
DPO 13 : 50 mIU/ml
DPO 14 : 80 mIU/ml
DPO 15 : 130 mIU/ml
DPO 16 : 220 mIU/ml
DPO 17 : 350 mIU/ml
DPO 18 : 600 mIU/ml
DPO 19 : 900 mIU/ml
DPO 20 : 1500 mIU/ml

mimmi91 · 10/01/2020 12:16

@kell2126 thanks for the positivity! Glad to hear I'm not totally insane... I'll keep you updated in the next few days... fingers crossed...

R2D2abc · 10/01/2020 12:54

@mimmi91 I think the chart you found refers to hcg present in blood. It's never that high in urine.

mimmi91 · 10/01/2020 13:06

@R2D2abc oh really? Well in that case I guess it's even more of a reason for my 20mIU/ml strips to not really detect anything yet... :)

Kendrick12 · 10/01/2020 13:58

Does everyone count ovulation days from the day you got your first positive OPK?? only I read online that you actually ovulate 24-48 hours after positive OPK which would mean my dpo I've been getting wrong?? Why is it so confusing!! 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ xxx

2020wish · 10/01/2020 14:09

@Kendrick12 this what I’m wondering

HarrietM87 · 10/01/2020 14:47

@Kendrick12 you get the positive opk 24-36 hours before ovulation. The opk detects the surge of lutenising hormone which tells your body to ovulate, but it takes around a day for it to take effect.

mimmi91 · 10/01/2020 14:53

@Kendrick12 and @2020wish I'm also slightly confused by this.

I count my OV day to be the 31/12 for the following reasons :

29/12 - negative opk, but loads of super stretchy EWCM
30/12 - positive opk, the line was without a doubt darker
31/12 - positive opk again !
01/01 - no rise in BBT, but negative opk
02/01 - BBT rise and negative opk

Read online that only about 20% of women see a BBT rise the day after OV. Most women seem to rise 2 days or more later! I had noticed this already in my previous cycle. Hence thought it made sense that I ov on the 31/12 as it was the last day I got a positive opk, and a BBT rise less than 48hours later.

Any thoughts on this theory...?

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2020wish · 10/01/2020 15:07

@HarrietM87 ok so I had peak fertility on the CB digital kit on the 27th dec and 28th. So I wait to count 1 day post ovulation from the 28th or 29th?

mimmi91 · 10/01/2020 15:32

Probably 28th - at least that's the average between 27th and 29th hah!

2020wish · 10/01/2020 16:13

@mimmi91 thank u

mimmi91 · 11/01/2020 09:07

Can someone please confirm that I'm not crazy and that a line is definitely there, even if faint???!!!!

I'm losing my shit over here Confused

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Whyhaveidonethis · 11/01/2020 09:16

@mimmi91 I see it. Congratulations

Kendrick12 · 11/01/2020 10:34

@mimmi91 I see it too congratulations :-) xxx