Anyone else 8DPO?

[Pinkroseuk]

Anyone want to join me with the wait?
First period I have had in 4 years of ttc (pcos) and I ovulated day 58 - now 8DPO :)

@LoveRainbow02 I think it might take another couple of days to be completely negative, your lines were quite strong. I have heard that it has to be 3 in a row, but is your GP going to make the referral anyway for you? I’ve got a GP appointment on Tuesday for an unrelated matter but I am going to ask if they can do any initial bloods. I’ve also just started a new thread about blood thinners as I think I might need to start them whilst ttc rather than waiting. I’m okay, sad, and bleeding is fairly heavy considering how early I was, is yours? I was hoping this would be a lovely Christmas surprise for everyone but it wasn’t to be x

My gp isn't making the referral, she said she would ask the epu to do it but didnt sound hopeful. I know I've gave birth before but I've also had 3 losses now and I would rather I was tested to find out if there was something wrong. Feel so scared to try again. Yes my bleeding has been a little heavier than a normal period too and much more crampy I would say. It would have been a lovely christmas surprise 😔. All I feel just now is anger and like I am failing. I am extremely fortune to have my son and I will be forever grateful but doesn't make the hurt any less 😥. I was googling earlier and blood thinners were coming up alot so I'll probably pop onto your thread.

@LoveRainbow02 how are you doing? I’m feeling sadder now than I did the day it happened. Still bleeding but think it’s easing a little now. Will you be trying again straight away?

@TwinkleStars15 I'm ok just feel quite emotional and angry a lot this time. Cant believe I've had 3 losses now and 2 within 2 months 😥. Dont think I will try again straight away as I'm terrified and think my body needs a break now. Will you be trying again soon? Thats good your bleeding is tailing off. Strangely my bleeding is quite heavy and certainly more heavier than my mc last month. Still getting a faint positive on clearblue test also so will leave it another couple of days to make sure it goes to negative.

@LoveRainbow02 yes I think I know how you feel, I have also had 2 miscarriages in 3 months, and also have an older child. I’m finding it hard to understand why everything was so straight forward with my daughter (2.5) but now this keeps happening... how old is your child! It will be interesting to see what the GP says on Tuesday as I’ve heard every differing stories, I think some and more sympathetic than others.
Yes I am hoping to try again this cycle but we’ll see. If you decide to, please check in here and I can support you as best I can

Yes that's exactly how I feel also. I'm struggling to grasp how I could carry my son no problem and have a relatively boring pregnancy yet cant seem to have a sticky bean so far 😔. I miscarried with my 1st pregnancy so I did always know it was a possibility with new pregnancies but just didnt expect it again. My ds is 20 months old and a little handful lol. Just keep thinking he was my blessing and that I may never be able to carry another child but once I'm out this fog I'll be more positive. Yes I think some gps are more helpful and understanding than others so fingers crossed they agree to start testing with you. I think it's highly unlikely I will get a referral. I thought they had to come from gps but mine said she would need to ask the epu first if it would be granted 🤷‍♀️

@LoveRainbow02 I hope you are doing okay. My bleeding has pretty much stopped now. I went to the GP this evening who agreed to refer me to the recurrent miscarriage clinic. No idea how long the wait is or what happens next. Did you hear back at all?

@TwinkleStars15 That's good news you have been referred 😊. Will probably take the same length of time as a standard referral I would imagine. No I've not heard anything back yet. My bleeding doesn't seem be showing signs of stopping anytime soon.