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imnewtothis · 05/11/2019 20:20

3 days late for period but had a negative yesterday, can't bring myself to see another negative test 😪

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imnewtothis · 07/11/2019 16:28

AF got me this afternoon guys :( gunna give it a break until December/January time now, just need to de-stress! Congratulations on the BFP! I hope we see some more xx

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priceofprogress · 07/11/2019 16:31

Sorry OP :(

When I was trying I always reminded myself if my HCG is high enough to stop my period it’s high enough to turn a pregnancy test positive. Doesn’t make it any less disappointing though.

Mycrazylife85 · 07/11/2019 16:32

@SunnyFlover congratulations!!!
Day 21. Blimey!

I've got a FRER I may take tomorrow. I haven't bothered up until now as there was nothing at all in an IC. I'll be 19dpo and a week later than I'd expect.

VCP88 · 07/11/2019 19:07

So sorry @imnewtothis

Enjoy Christmas and have a lovely "break" from all the stress x

Tjmama · 07/11/2019 20:20

Huge congratulations on the BFP!

Still no AF for me. Currently CD 42. Cant face doing another test!!

Tjmama · 07/11/2019 20:23

@SunnyFlover wow I just realised you were 21DPO!!! That gives me hope! Thank you for sharing x

PlanBea · 07/11/2019 20:40

Congratulations on the BFP!

I'm on CD46, 13 days past my due date, no ovulation and negative pregnancy tests. Been trying since January and I just feel burned out. Once AF comes I'm scheduling another CD21 test but think I'm putting it on the back burner till January. Maybe 2020 will bring the baby dust.

Tjmama · 07/11/2019 20:57

@PlanBea that is rubbish... are you usually regular?

PlanBea · 07/11/2019 21:09

@Tjmama I've been 33 days almost every cycle since coming off contraception. Not sure where this 46+ has come from! My GP advised me to test once a week. I've already had a progesterone test this cycle and done FRERs so I'm not going to be getting a BFP this time

VCP88 · 08/11/2019 08:18

Well. Looks like I won't be needing that GP appt! Hope this little bean sticks! 🥳❤️

3 days late 😩
Tjmama · 08/11/2019 10:13

@VCP88 congratulations!!!!! BiscuitSmileSmileSmile such lovely news!!

I've had some mild spotting today. So assume it's the start of AF. But I also cried when someone won £30k on heart fm this morning so maybe I am hormonal WinkGrin I am still holding out a little hope!!!!!

SunnyFlover · 08/11/2019 10:23

@VCP88 congratulations! 🌻🌻

imnewtothis · 08/11/2019 11:20

@VCP88 congratulations! I'm so happy for you!

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VCP88 · 08/11/2019 12:29

Thank you ladies. Still can't quite believe it. Sending baby dust to everyone! X

VCP88 · 12/11/2019 08:37

How's everyone getting on? Any updates? X

SunnyFlover · 12/11/2019 08:52

@VCP88 😥suspected ectopic... I can't believe this as it's my first time trying and only 2nd cycle ... scared and very upset.... I want it all out ASAP and to forget about this entire thing ...

VCP88 · 12/11/2019 09:42

Oh my goodness I'm so sorry! Have you been getting bad pain then? When will you know? X

SunnyFlover · 12/11/2019 10:14

@VCP88 - no pain at all, which is weird... my uterus is all geared up for pregnancy but no sac can be seen, low Hcg levels, all test are faint. Everything else seems fine. It's either my positive ovulation test was not real ovulation and I ovulated much later and it's only the start of my pregnancy or I have ovulated then I did and now I am 6 weeks and it's ectopic. But I had a light spotting / bleeding at 10DPO. Not even sure if implantation bleeding is possible if it's ectopic.... or can it be that I had ovulation bleeding at that time ... as apparently it also can happen, which would make me about 2/3 weeks pregnant and therefore I would be totally fine.... not sure

Mycrazylife85 · 12/11/2019 11:56

@SunnyFlover oh no. I'm so sorry to hear this. When may you get answers? What are they doing for you? I'm so sorry to hear this

Mycrazylife85 · 12/11/2019 12:02

I'm now CD48 and 23dpo (if I actually did ovulate) I am not pregnant and went to the doctors yesterday and am doing for a blood test Friday. They have to go through all the monitors again to ascertain if I do have PCOS as I was 16 when diagnosed and had no visible cysts on my last scan in 2015 and hormone levels were good (that'll be because I was in the pill then though... 🙄) I had another positive OPK on Friday (randomly did OPK as well as negative PT) so if I did manage to finally ovulate the day of my period will be around 21st November cd57... perfectly normal said no one 😡

SunnyFlover · 12/11/2019 12:03

@Mycrazylife85 thank you 🌻 I am in the office now with blood red eyes from all the crying last night. This is extremely upsetting, I was so naive when we decided to TTC, never even though that such process could bring so many emotions, confusion and uncertainty.

Went to private practice, so it cost me a "bit"... They did immediate vaginal ultrasound and took blood test. Waiting for my results, but need to go back again tomorrow to repeat the bloods and see is the level is rising or not.

Mycrazylife85 · 12/11/2019 12:04

My dreadful predicted text... sorry! going through the motions

Mycrazylife85 · 12/11/2019 12:06

@SunnyFlover I couldn't agree more regarding the emotions. I've been disappointed/scared/fed up/angry/hopeful/depressed. I'm glad you went private. You'll know so much sooner. Let us know how you get on and fingers crossed for you x

VCP88 · 12/11/2019 12:59

So sorry to hear this. What a terribly uncertain time for you. There are no words to make it better I know. X

SunnyFlover · 12/11/2019 16:35

Blood works came back, my HCG levels dropped to 0,5..! So at least it's not going to develop anymore in the wrong place... Waiting for the miscarriage to materialise ( period)... and going to give myself a Christmas off from OPK/ HPT and all other things that led me into this 😥 Good luck ladies ! ❤️

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