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Laur89 · 25/10/2019 13:29

@Gigi318 @Ellsbells112 @Gems7 new post girls! How are you all? I can't remember who else to tag!

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Ellsbells112 · 13/11/2019 09:20

@falkor32 omg I know what you mean! It's like when i get EWCM in the morning I'm like we need to do it nowwwww!!! And hes like...no i have work to go to (bare in mi d he works for himself so he can leave later if he wants) then he comes back at bloody 11/12 at night for fuck sake and then takes ages to finish! Oh my god it's a whole ordeal!
So yes I get you about the whole day being on edge!
Now i just want to cry and i want an answer now as to whether i am or not I'm so done with this I just cant be assed for it. So I'm probably being hormonal which means my bloody af might want to rear its head soon! I bloody hope not 😤 xx

falkor32 · 13/11/2019 09:31

@Ellsbells112, it’ll be okay. Sorry if I’ve missed it but how many DPO are you? Hopefully not too many days away from being able to take a test.

I can relate, every cycle the TTW is torture. Sometimes I will try and distract myself with reading or housework or going for a walk.

Whenever you test, I have my 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you that it’s a BFP. Xx

Ellsbells112 · 13/11/2019 09:40

@falkor32 thank you so much xxx
I have my fingers crossed for you too chick xxx
I'm 11dpo today, I have a first response but I'm way too scared to take it. I'm going to try and wait for Saturday and if af isht here I'll test. Normally for 2 days prior to my period I get bad cramps so tomorrow might be telling xx

charlie0692 · 13/11/2019 11:09

Hey everyone, hope your all ok. I'm out for this month, af arrived last night 2 days early. Wishing you all loads of baby dust, hope I see loads of bfp over the next few weeks x

ChampooPapi · 13/11/2019 11:13

I find very early morning sex is the way, a man will always be ready physically (plus confused as it's early so won't question it!). Set an alarm for 5 am and go for it, it's the can be the best time as no one is too tired like at night or to I'm a rush to get to work ect.

And you can go back to sleep afterwards 😴

Ellsbells112 · 13/11/2019 11:16

@champoopapi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg you legend!!! Yes it's TRUE actually hes woken me a few times at those ridiculous (AMAZING) hours for sex. Yum.

@charlie0692 ahhh mannnn I'm so sorry chick 🤗🤗❤❤ please look after yourself and of you need to have a little cry before getting yourself together again by all means do it!! Xxx

falkor32 · 13/11/2019 12:21

@ChampooPapi I totally agree, we set the alarm yesterday for 6am and had a successful session.

Tried the same this morning (told husband to be on standby last night due to signs of LH surge starting) and husband couldn’t finish so hoping to try again later!

Today is dragging at work and I hope for some better luck later 🤞🏻 ... I’m so anxious for it to happen today as we’ve not been managing to successfully DTD the first day I get my static smiley face 😫

Ellsbells112 · 13/11/2019 13:27

Did a first response and got a bfn 😤 11dpo today

Anny27 · 13/11/2019 13:33

Awwh still time @ellsbells112 :(

My bfp at 12dpo was very faint

Will you wait till sat to test again? Xx

Ellsbells112 · 13/11/2019 13:37

@anny27 yeah I will because it's made me so down I defo wont test again till Saturday if af hasn't come. My tests arent coming till Saturday now anyway and I just bought 20 clear blue ovulation stick things for next month just in case. I'm gonna completely cutout coffee too see if that helps urgh

How are you feeling?? Xxx

Anny27 · 13/11/2019 13:46

How long have you been ttc this time @ellsbells112?

Yeah not feeling too bad thanks! Was a heavy crampy night but seems to just be like a normal period now :)

Ellsbells112 · 13/11/2019 14:20

@anny27 I'm glad the heaviness has passed. Soon you can try again I wish you all the luck through this :) xxx

I took my iud out in april, was trying casually but nothing so started tracking properly from September x

Robbo93 · 14/11/2019 07:14

Morning ladies!
CD29 and a predicted 10DPO for me (this is a first with no spotting!) Absolutely nothing to report from me.

How are you all? Xx

Anny27 · 14/11/2019 07:23

@robbo93 fingers crossed that's a good sign 🤞🤞🤞

Robbo93 · 14/11/2019 07:34

@Anny27 aww bless you sweet, thank you 💐
How's the medication thing going? Has it hit you full pelt now? So sorry for what you are experiencing xxx

ChampooPapi · 14/11/2019 08:13

@Anny27 how are you doing this morning? Smile

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 08:20

@Robbo93 glad to hear it! Fingers crossed for you. I pretty much know I'm out, was really emotional yesterday, cramps started too so I'm sure af will come right on time for me xx

Robbo93 · 14/11/2019 11:45

@Ellsbells112 you're still in the game until AF arrives missy. You know as well as the rest of the us that AF symptoms are pretty similar to EP!

I'm starting to feel down too tbh. At least with a shorter LP I'm put out of misery quicker.. I took a cheapie test yesterday (silly, I know at PREDICTED 9DPO) and it was a BFN. I just don't want to waste my FRER on a negative :(
I am starting to think it's neverrrr going to happen and I feel so guilty knowing how badly my DH wants to have a child. xx

Gems7 · 14/11/2019 12:31

@Robbo93 @Ellsbells112 TTC SUCKS!! if I have to hear anymore stories from people about how they got pregnant without even trying or got a BFP at 8DPO I think I may have a meltdown. 😞
I'm having "one of those days" today. Someone at works daughter has just got pregnant without even trying whilst taking contraception and I'm like HOW!!?? 😭
I don't think this is my month either, I am 8DPO which I know is still early but I don't feel anything at all and I'm pretty sure I would do. I'm really in tune with my body and can just feel that I'm this isn't my month. Not trying to be a Debbie downer girls but I'm struggling today. I so desperately want to give my OH a baby too, he doesn't have any children either. Thank god I have you guys to rant to. Xxx

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 12:49

@Gems7 oh babe I know!! We all have those days it is so unfair!! I think that's why its hurtful to us because we want it so bad and are doing everything we can to make it happen and then other people it just happens to! But you're only 8dpo girl it's still so early you can implant up.to 12dpo! I known its hard to keep the faith I'm.bascally sitting here saying I am.out and looking to the next cycle because I cant hope anymore it tears me up! I'd rather think its not going to happen so I'm not disappointed! Hang in there girl I know its hard xxxx ❤❤🤗🤗 we will get our bfps so help me! Let's speak it into existence! We will get our bfps!! Xxx

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 12:55

@Robbo93 I'm exactly the same I just yearn to be big and pregnant and be like "look they're kicking can you feel it" as he hasn't experienced it lol and every where we go I see pregnant people lol and he looks at me🤣 I'm like fuck off lol
Seeing a bfn is always really horrible babe we should try and not do it! I'm in another thread and loads of ppl got bfps andi thought maybe I can too! But nooopee ahhh x

Robbo93 · 14/11/2019 13:02

@Gems7 @Ellsbells112 ladies I know, I hear you both! We must remain positive and good things will happen. It could still happen for you ells even if you've had a BFN already xx

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 13:39

@Robbo93 no I really think I'm out I'm not gonna hold onto hope I can just feel it lol but you defo still have a chance!! Xx

Gems7 · 14/11/2019 15:07

@Ellsbells112 @Robbo93 thanks girls ❤️ I was just having a moment I think haha I'm alright now
It will defo happen for us (at some point) xx

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 15:15

@Gems7 I know but sometimes it's just like oh fuck off I know its going to happen but bloody when?!? Lol like I actually cant help but not like the phase "you arent out till af arrives" because I know that but ffs I dont want to be let down again after a bfn and still be hopeful then bleed and cry lool probably why I shouldn't have done a test in the first place but oh well Haha...ahh it will happen lol 🧐🧐🧐🧐

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