Early December testing?

[Laur89]

@Gigi318 @Ellsbells112 @Gems7 new post girls! How are you all? I can't remember who else to tag!

Hi ladies! How are we all? So sorry I've been MIA, I'm taking a much more relaxed approach this month and really loving it so far. I definitely feel less consumed by it all. I'm just doing my opk (woohoo) and then forgetting about it for the rest of the day. It's a huge help! I'm about CD12 now!

@Ellsbells112 how are you doing chick? So are you 1DPO today. I'm thinking of using preseed next month if need be. Hopefully we won't have to 🙊

@Robbo93 it's good that you have that in place just in case babe. How are you feeling??

@Laur89 how are you doing babe? Where are you in the cycle now?

@Gems7 how are you doing chick?? Where are you now??

@charlie0692 lovely to see you here too chick xx

@Gigi318 hey there stranger! Ah that's
good that you're taking a relaxed approach nothing better than not stressing!
I don't know, today I'm cd15 but I dont actually know if I'll ovulate cd14, 15 or 16 even! I havent had much EWCM at all, just some on Thursday! This cycle seems weird but I'm trying not to think about it! How are you? Xx

I will now be trying again and testing in dec. Lovely AF arrived this morning 😩 was planning on testing next week 😭😭😭😭

@Gigi318 hey huni, and hiya girls
Sorry I've been a bit quiet, I think we are all taking the same approach this month aren't we and being way more relaxed with it all.
I am on CD10 but that is literally all I know. I have no idea when I'll ovulate, not checking CM, not doing anything at all. Only DTD naturally when me and my OH want to. Feels so much better this way. I haven't had any OV type pains at all yet like I usually have by now, I feel completely fine and have ever since AF finished so who knows what's going on in there.
Good luck to you all 😘

@Ellsbells112 no tests planned for him just yet.

@Gigi318 hiya lovely. Yes glad to get the ball rolling but at the same time I don't want to hear if my body is not functioning the way it should 😭

Hey ladies i wondered were you all were after the last thread got full.

Unfortunately i'll be joining back 😭 having a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks (not miscarried yet but scans have confirmed that baby doesnt have heartbeat anymore :( )

Not sure if my cycles will be alligned with you lot anymore but wanted to follow your guys journey anyway as you're all so nice!

@anny27 I'm so so sorry 🤗🤗❤🥺 oh sweetheart if I could hug you irl!! You're so strong ❤ I am just so sorry, please join us, we arent all fertile at the same time anyway! What happens now? Do you have to wait for the process to happen naturally? Xxx

Thank you @Ellsbells112 :)

Next steps are wait for a week and see if i miscarry naturally and if not i have an appointment at the EPU on friday to rescan and then talk through the options (either surgery or medical management). Not surewhat my preference is tbh :S

I think i may have to wait for my first proper period before trying again but i am not sure, havent had that conversation with the doctors yet xxx

Oh goodness @Anny27, I'm so terribly sorry, sending you lots of hugs and strength getting through this time, you must be feeling awful :( you are so strong, we are all here for you! ❤️

@Anny27 Oh angel I am really really sorry to hear that. Absolutely gutted for you, sending you and your family lots of hugs, you keep strong 😘 xx

Hi ladies, can I join?

Trying for #2, but cycles are all over the place and Ovia has already given up on me, haha. Currently CD 40, and no sign of AF or BFP. Pretty sure we’ve had no luck this month, and am hoping for a shorter cycle next time to be in with a shot before Christmas. Lovely to electronically meet you all, and lots of luck to you x

Hi, can I join?

CD2 for me, 1st AF after MMC and ERPC.

Hoping that this month is the one for me xx

Thank you @Laur89 and @Gems7 ❤

@ceebee21 how long after erpc did you get your first period? If i dont miscarru naturally this week i will have an erpc next week so wondering how long it takes. Is this baby number 1 you are trying for?

Welcome @planeteer :)

Thanks anny, and I am sending loads of hugs and also virtual cake to you. Am so sorry about your sad news.

@anny27 yes indeed, neither of those options sound great obviously! Well either way I hope the best for you xxx

@Gigi318 @Gems7 @Laur89 @Robbo93
I'm on CD16, we DTD on CD8 then from CD13 to today. Might get another session in on monday or Tuesday. I think I ovulated yesterday though? As I havent had EWCM this month but I had really bad ovulation pains yesterday, cramps in my right side and aching that was going into my back.
Hoping for some luck this cycle x 🥺😭🤞👍 now enter the 2ww

Hope everyone is ok c

@Anny27 So sorry to hear that.

I went for a scan at 9 weeks, but was measuring about 5, no heartbeat. Went back the following week and it had grown 1mm so they made me come back another week later (tried to make it 2 but I went against that!), they confirmed it then at what should have been 11+4 l.

I had actually naturally started bleeding on Wednesday 25th September before that last scan at EPU. It got heavier over that weekend..I managed to get a private ERPC for the Tuesday, 1st October - I was scanned in the morning and the whole sac was still there, so went ahead with ERPC that's afternoon. AF arrived yesterday 1st November, so exactly a month after....I believed I ovulated about 3 weeks after if that helps.

Xxx

Thanks @ceebee21 - thats good that it only took a month for period to come back! Did you ttc last month or wait for first period?

And how long did it take for you to conceive your recent pregnancy? (Sorry for the million questions haha!)

@Anny27 don't worry, ask away.

We did try again straight away, although obviously didn't happen this time.

I had my implant removed on 9th July and had a BFP 6th August so fell straight away.

It's hard though, because now I just expect it to happen again straight away x

Thanks @ceebee21 for sharing! Hopefully it doesnt take too long for you!

My SIL conceived first month with her first and then 3rd month with her 2nd so think it varries each time!

It took us from june - september to conceive so 4 cycles so not too long really. Hoping its not too long when we ttc again after thr miscarriage happens. Dont know whether to wait for first period or not before ttc.

@charlie0692 @Robbo93 how are we girls? My fw just finished and managed to DTD from cd13 through to cd16 (yesterday). I had lots of ovulation pain on cd15 and cd16, ovulation pain on both sides! No EWCM though
How many dpo are you both now?

@Gigi318 hey chick, where are you in your cycle now?

Its so quiet here! Lol

Hey @ellsbelles112 I'm good thanks how are you? I'm not tracking exactly for O but according to ovia app it was on/around 31st october (cd13), which I think is about right as I was getting some pains that afternoon that could have been ovulation pains. So I'm currently 4dpo today. Af due 14th november so I'm going to try and hold out until then and test that day if af hasnt arrived. I have 1 clear blue digital test at home (left over from last month) and I know they need much higher hgc to show positive so I'm not going to waste it and test early, and I'm not going to buy any others, that way i wont be able to test early hahah. Saying that I'll probably end up running out early next week for frer 🙈 haha xx

Hi @Ellsbells112
I'm CD19 today and glow thinks i ovulated yesterday but I have a feeling it's today as I'm sooooo wet down there (sorry TMI) I feel like I've started my period lol. Also had a new niggles on my right side this morning ... but hey I could have got this allll wrong lol xx

@ellsbells112 @charlie0692 hope you manage to keep busy in the TWW!!

Thats a good idea about not having any cheap tests in the house haha!

@charlie0692 how long are your cycles? Definitely try and wait it out lol also first responses are cheaper right now on Amazon x

@Robbo93 cool! How long are your cycles and do you normally ovulate around this time? X

@anny27 I dont think I'll be keeping busy lol I'm gonna try!! X

@ellsbells112 cycles are normally 26 days, and have been over the last 4 months although last month was 28 days. So I'm guessing it will be between 26 and 28 this month. How about you? When will you be testing? X