Early December testing?

[Laur89]

@Gigi318 @Ellsbells112 @Gems7 new post girls! How are you all? I can't remember who else to tag!

@finherscrossedxxx I downloaded it but I dont really like it it just tells me to constantly upgrade lol I use ovia I find it really good and simple to use

Sorry I tagged you wrong @FingersCrossedXXX look above lol

My period hasn't come yet but tmi I feel really wet 🤷‍♀️

@Ellsbells112 No worries. For some people it gives me a drop down and I can select their name and for others I have to manually type it in so I keep almost making mistakes too!

I find it okay and haven't paid for the upgrade...the forums on their seem to be full of scandal...it's like a soap!!

I have no idea if that's a good sign or a bad sign...as long as af hasn't arrived yet, let's hope its a positive. So hard not to scrutinize every twinge or feeling!

@Ellsbells112 same! Was just shopping and had to dash to the toilets cos I thought I'd come on... but nope! Xx

@FingersCrossedXXX I know it does the same to me it's so annoying!!
Download ovia too and see how you get on :) and gah! Each month theres a new twinge or symptom!!

@Robbo93 I was shopping too😂 kept going toilet but I'm getting bfn on the clear step preggo tests. I do feel like it's going to come though you know that achey crampy feel now which I wasnt having earlier. Let's hope it's good news for you!!! And I just hope that I didnt ovulate late and miss it!! Lol

@FingersCrossedXXX with not really knowing exactly when my period is combined with wanting a clear test it just makes sense for me personally to be cautious about early testing. I think lots of people come on late too with AF so a few weeks into December is probably wise, I've got a 20 month old and a 9 year old so I'm not especially clucking for my bfp. Will be a different story in a few months if j don't catch though I'm sure

Afternoon ladies! Ended up being admitted to hospital after too much blood loss and had to have emergency erpc. Its been a horrific 48 hours but glad to be home now!

So soppy but thank goodness for the nhs ❤

@Anny27 oh my goodness! I'm so glad you're home and okay. What a traumatic experience you've been dealt recently. Sending lots of love xxxx

@Ellsbells112 did you not DTD after predicted Ov then? Why do you think you maybe missed your chance?
I still have nothing .. so strange! I have 1 FRER left and 1 cheap test. Xx

@Robbo93 we DTD till cd16 then havent since it's now cd28, so I'm hoping I didnt ovulate later and that's why my period isnt coming (it's still early doors lol i have the whole day to come on i just normally come on morning or early afternoon or even friday evening) my cervix feels really hard and bigger too?? It normally feels really hard when I'm going to come on though so I dunno. Glad yours still hasn't shown xx

@anny27 ahh I'm so sorry hunnie that sounds so awful 🤗🤗❤❤ I hope you feel better soon xx

@Anny27 that is absolutely awful, it must have been terrifying. In those moments you really have no idea what's next it what really happened or is happening, I am amazed by at your strength and you have been so brave today. One day at a time and yes, thank God for the nhs. I felt exactly the same when I came out of my surgical management 4 weeks ago. Just wallow, it helps! Let us know how your doing tomorrow if you can, I really think surgical is better then the pills as now you know everything is ready to heal and you can restart your journey now only looking forward.

To the future 💜

Thank you @ellsbells112 and @robbo93 :)

Yes @champooPapi in hindsight, the surgical option would have been better from the start! I can advise anyone who has to unfortunatley go through this that i would choose that now having been through both haha! So sorry that you had to go through this as well! its a very humbling experience and makes you appreciate things a little more!

@anny27 So sorry you have had to go through that. Hope you feel a little bit better today.

@Ellsbells112 @Robbo93 any sign of af yet?

@FingersCrossedXXX
No! Gah bfns every day and no af I'm losing my mind! The first month this has happened but I know its going to come I dont feel pregnant at all! I'm so annoyed though as I obviously ovulated late and missed it 🙄 ffs
How are you?

@Gems7 @Laur89 what's going on for you girls?

@Robbo93 how are you? Has spotting stayed away? Xx

Oh goodness @Anny27 that sounds so horrible, sending lots of love and strength to you!

@Ellsbells112 I'm doing ok thanks, got back from holiday yesterday. Still no af, don't know when it's due, but somehow I just have a feeling this isn't my month either! 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Anny27 big hugs for you mrs, can't begin to imagine how upsetting this must have been for you. It can only get better now xx

@Ellsbells112 Hey hun, I am 11DPO today (or I think I am anyway) Spotting should start weds then AF full force on Thursday. If that doesn't happen then I will test on Friday. I really am not hopeful though. I don't feel anything. I don't feel pregnant at all. Last cycle I noticed lots of creamy CM after OV and in the days leading up to AF but this cycle so far I've not had any at all since I OV..
Why is every cycle so different!? Aarrghhh it just confuses us even more doesn't it! I don't think this is my month at all. I'm hoping (well not hoping but you know what I mean) that AF comes when I think it will because at least I'll know I have predicted OV spot on for the third time in a row so next cycle so can give it a really good go (again)
How are you anyway? Still no AF I see.. when was she due? There's still hope if she isn't here 🤞🏻
Hope all the rest of you lovely ladies are all okay. Who is out this month and who is still in? Xx

@FingersCrossedXXX @Ellsbells112 Nope absolutely nothing for me! CD32 for me and a predicted 13DPO 🤣 what the hell is this torture lol. I daren't take another test after yesterday's BFN.

You may still have a chance ellsbells if the sperm is of good quality..

Seems like you are all still in for the chance! Hopefully at least one of you will get that bfp! I have a lot of friends who didn't feel pregnant and were.

@Ellsbells112 I am good thanks, just a pretty chilled Sunday for us today and may pop to see my parents later. Finally getting a slightly darker ovulation test but still not a positive but hopefully in the right direction.

What's everyone up to today?

@Robbo93 I dunno maybe...but I just dont feel pregnant. I just want it to come so I can start again...😐 maybe it came late because I travelled? They say it can affect your cycles and I went Italy when i was on my last period.
Glad yours has stayed away!!! Super exciting xx

@FingersCrossedXXX
Oh good! That's awesome so soon to be doing lots of BD!! Haha
That's nice, I'm going to go gym and just tidy up etc, make a nice roast chicken.
I know what you mean but surely it would come up on a test by now? I just think it'll come late

@Ellsbells112 Already been getting in a bit of practice How many dpo are you? Could it still be too early to show?

Testing after af is due is definitely for the best, I also think your pregnant for a while so finding out at only a few weeks can not only make the pregnancy even longer but you have a chance of it not sticking then being 'devastated' when your period turns up a few days after a bfp pregnancy test.

Where as testing ten days/ 2 weeks after your due your period should give you a really strong positive with a high chance of a good outcome.

I know everyone is different so if you can cope with the dissapointments of seeing negatives or getting a positive followed a week by af turning up then crack on, but it's not for me!

*a week later by af turning up

@FingersCrossedXXX
I really have no idea because I dont even feel like I'm going to come on? I havent had any cramps since friday lol I'm baffled honestly.

I'm 15dpo now assuming I ovulated when I think I did :)

@ElsBells112 Just a waiting game now then!