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4 days before AF, BFN

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Pixiexo · 08/07/2019 07:16

Hey guys,

I'm new to this site so I apologies in advance if this has already been posted or if I haven't posted in the correct place. ( Any help is appreciated!)

I have a 32 day cycle, I've worked out that I must have ov'd around CD 18 (27th June).
So I'd be 11dpo and 4 days til AF.

This will be my second child and I'm experiencing all the symptoms I had with my son, but this time I have burning boobs and my cervix so high I can't reach it (I've been checking 3 times per day, same times everyday). I got symptoms really early this time, probably about 7dpo?

I figured if my symptoms were this strong then surely I'd have a BFP earlier, but all I've had is BFNs.

My chest and boobs are so veiny that they're like roadmaps and I've been getting up at 5am, unable to sleep properly, since 7 dpo too!

I know for sure that I'm not getting obsessed with symptom spotting this time as its my partner and close friends telling me to do a test. Achey boobs is normally a symptom for AF for me, but this is tingly and burning! They're also heavy and a few times per day I feel this weird sensation... It feels like cool water is being flushed around my boobs!?

I know it's pretty early to test and this is our first month TTC again so I know my odds are low, but I just know it. It sounds weird but it was like I just knew on one of our BDing days.

Has anyone experienced this or am I going crazy? Anyone have this ending in a BFP?

Can anyone help put my mind at ease and give me an honest opinion please?

Sorry for the essay 🙈😂
Xx

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AllHopeAndNoResults · 13/07/2019 11:23

@Pixiexo you are not out until AF arrives!

Do you think you’re possibly losing hope because you don’t want to have hope in case she arrives?

I’ve hear many stories where a BFP wasn’t showing until a long time after. If AF hasn’t arrived by Monday maybe buy a digital test? Or see GP?

It’s bloody horrible isn’t it when our body makes us late, the same mo the we are eagerly waiting a positive!!

I am due AF today according to Ovia, unsure how accurate it is, my last 2 months I came on the 2nd and the 8th so I don’t know. I’ve had very sore boobs, no CM actually completely dry which is unsually. No discharge nothing. Had some nausea yeasterday but I’m not sure if I’m just looking at EVERYTHING my body does!!

All tests are coming back negative, a faint line appears when developing and disappears seconds after. I tested my last test in water and it did the same albeit less of a positive and disappeared quicker. So I assume I had dud tests OR it’s just what they do.

I can feel AF though it’s that kind of bubble/plug feeling just waiting for her to pop sorry tmi.

I’m in the same boat as you until she finally pops xx

Pixiexo · 14/07/2019 06:51

@AllHopeAndNoResults

Morning! So, yesterdaY I went to the toilet and there was a (TMI alert) glob of pale pink EWCM.
I've woken up and tested today BFN :/ I have some niggly pain in my uterus, like light cramping and now there is more pale pink blood, but when I wipe everytime.

I think AF is going to start :( I've also woken up with a cold come out of no where, think I'm definitely out for this month :(

I had some tests like that too! Maybe faulty or picking it up straight away but the concentration is so faint when it dries?

How are you getting on? has AF popped yet? Keep me updated babe. Also, dw about TMI! No such thing with me ahaha xx

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AllHopeAndNoResults · 14/07/2019 10:20

@Pixiexo it’s frustrating isn’t it? But it could be spotting? You still aren’t out yet!

AF hasn’t come as of yet but I feel her coming and I woke up with a spot. Yesterday I was convinced I was pregnant but today I just feel like AF will arrive tomorrow.

I’m so sad and I didn’t know I would be as I have plans for SMEP next cycle. Oh well here we are. At least we can go through our next cycle together 😊

Keep me updated and if you still haven’t come on by tomorrow perhaps get a digital test? Xx

AllHopeAndNoResults · 15/07/2019 10:23

Has AF arrived yet??
Have you tested again? Xx

AllHopeAndNoResults · 16/07/2019 13:12

Hi OP any update?

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