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1DPO

176 replies

Hkr23 · 04/06/2019 13:52

Anyone with me that wants to keep sane until 2 weeks time?

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Whyhaveidonethis · 15/06/2019 20:20

BFN for me tonight. AF due tomorrow, I think I'm out but will test again tomorrow anyway 🙄

bee222 · 15/06/2019 21:55

@itscallednickingbentcoppers Sorry to hear that :(
I've just started spotting this evening , so I think i'm out as well.
On the plus side it's my first period after MMC (8 weeks! FINALLY) so at least I sort of know where I am with my cycle now

Ohana6419 · 16/06/2019 08:45

BFN again this morning so pretty sure I'm out now. Just want AF to hurry up so I can be on to a new cycle!

xELENx · 16/06/2019 09:10

@Ohana6419 I'm with you, another BFN for me this morning to! Will test again tomorrow (14dpo) with a FRER and if that's negative then I'm giving up hope for this month and moving on. I've become obsessive, it's all I can think about. I just need the wait to be over now x

Ohana6419 · 16/06/2019 09:35

@xELENx Ahh I'm sorry. It sucks, I let myself daydream about a Father's Day BFP which probably wasn't a good idea. Here's hoping we both get lucky next time round x

xELENx · 16/06/2019 09:40

@Ohana6419 a Father's Day BFP would have been amazing, i'd thought about that to 😔 nevermind, I'm confident we will both get our BFPs next month and have little spring chickens 🤞 x

Whyhaveidonethis · 16/06/2019 11:44

BFN for me this morning. AF due today, but my temp has jumped massively today. Weird.

SLT90 · 16/06/2019 11:51

@Ohana6419 and @xELENx sorry to hear about the BFNs today. It's not over until AF arrives so there is still hope! I know how you feel because I found the last couple of days of my cycle worse in terms of 'TTC craziness' than when AF actually arrived.

TryingVeryHard2015 · 16/06/2019 12:12

I'm holding off testing. 13/14 dpo today. I'm due on Tuesday. My rhr has jumped a bit this past few days so I'm keeping an eye on it. I still have tender boobs but that's about it. Although, I keep having to remind myself I had zero symptoms with my son.

Fingers crossed for us all.

ChicaXS · 16/06/2019 14:37

Hey ladies !

AF arrived officially today wahey! Lol

How is everyone. To the rest of the ladies with the BFNs don’t be sad, we have many more months to try. I have the HSG this month so taking the month off. It’s actually nice.

amberdoodle1 · 16/06/2019 16:39

13DPO with a BFN this morning, AF is due on Tuesday and the only symptom I have is sore boobs which started this morning. Not holding out any hope now 😂 just want AF to hurry up and arrive

bee222 · 16/06/2019 22:55

Posted yesterday afternoon saying I was out because I started cramping up and saw some pinkish blood when I wiped. Fully expected my period to arrive overnight but it hasn't arrived. So far today some cramps this morning but now they have gone - only some light brown spotting when I wipe.

Could I still be in? usually I only start cramping and spotting about an hour before AF. Feeling really light headed today as well.
14dpo and AF officially late tomorrow

xELENx · 17/06/2019 07:29

Well ladies I'm counting myself officially out! BFN on a FRER this morning (14dpo). I'll assume my weird spotting/light bleed was a strange early period and that my body was playing tricks on my with the symptoms. Onto cycle #2 with my fingers crossed for better news next month!

Good luck to all who are still to test, I hope you get your BFPs x

TryingVeryHard2015 · 17/06/2019 08:24

Wasn't going to test but boobs felt super "fizzy" (only word I can use to describe it) when I woke up. Wtaf?!

1DPO
xELENx · 17/06/2019 08:40

@TryingVeryHard2015 huge congratulations!

TryingVeryHard2015 · 17/06/2019 09:13

Thank you. I'm not going to fully believe it just yet. I will test with a digital and another pink dye one to check if the line gets darker this month.

SLT90 · 17/06/2019 09:54

@xELENx I wouldnt rule yourself out yet! Could be that you ovulated later than you thought and still need some more time for BFP to show up? No sign of AF yet?

It's not so bad on the July bus anyway if you end up there! Does hurt a little bit seeing all the lovely BFPs this last couple of days but at least it means theres a chance for us all 😊😊😊

xELENx · 17/06/2019 10:20

@SLT90 still no sign of AF but because I started spotting 4dpo and didn't stop until Friday (11dpo) we haven't DTD at all during that time so if I did ovulate late then I may have missed the boat 😣

Trying not to keep false hopes alive for this month (but struggling to believe that after the way I've felt it has come to nothing).

Will test again on a IC in a couple of days (16dpo) and if, as I expect, I get another BFN then I'll be joining you on the July bus... Beep, beep 😂 hope we both get our BFP soon 🤞

KittenMittens1 · 17/06/2019 10:31

So i'm out, started spotting this morning 3 days before AF is due.

Sad Sad Sad

SLT90 · 17/06/2019 11:17

@xELENx I know what you mean! I was SO certain of my symptoms and how different I felt that by the end I thought there was no way AF was coming. And AF was different this month to be fair, DH actually asked me yesterday if I'd definitely come on yet because he knows CD1 is always so horrific for me and even he had noticed that I had a lovely fairly pain-free and short AF this time!

I'm just aiming to DTD as regularly as possible between now and next AF. May not even look out for ovulation this time so that I dont get caught up in DPOs and symptoms spot 😊

xELENx · 17/06/2019 12:20

@SLT90 that sounds like a plan! Think I'll go for DTD every second day and not think about ovulation as I'm pretty sure I brought all my symptoms on by focusing on every like twinge etc.

If I don't get a BFP after DTD 3/4 times a week for a month I'll be raging (and knackered) Lol.

Ohana6419 · 18/06/2019 12:40

Well it's been an up and down couple of days. Got what I thought what a squinter BFP yesterday- could definitely see a line, but couldn't tell if it had colour or not. When it dried, the line was super obvious (none of my other tests have dried anything other than stark white).

Tested again this morning to see if the line was going to be any more obvious and it was about a clear a BFN as you can get. Must have been a dodgy evap line yesterday, even though it came up in the 5 mins.

Excuse me while I go and drown myself in a gin and tonic.

FutureMrsD · 18/06/2019 12:46

@Ohana6419 I feel you, have been getting faints lines for a week but now nothing..
My best mate has just messaged me saying she is having a little girl and I’m sat here at my desk blinking away tears

Ohana6419 · 18/06/2019 12:57

@FutureMrsD Aww I'm so sorry, that's rubbish. Sending internet hugs!

fertilityhelphub · 18/06/2019 16:04

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