3DPO today... Anyone else?

[whyhaveidonethis]

Got my first ever temperature predicted ovulation on 19th December on cd19 which was really much later than I expected. Anyone else want to join me in the 2ww over Christmas? I'm only seeing my DP from 27-29th so will probably be testing early so we can do a test together. FRERs at the ready 😂

@Ashleigh95 I’ve just seen i missed your post. How are you feeling today?

Thank you everyone, I left it a couple of days and did another test. Definitely a positive, feel like I can't quite believe it's real. How is everyone else doing?

Congrats @purplerainbows that's amazing news! How are you feeling? How many DPO are you? X

So pleased for you @purplerainbows congratulations.

I couldn't take my temp this morning as I've misplaced my thermometer 😔

I'll test with a IC tomorrow morning as I've got a few in the cupboard and I'll be 10dpo then.

@mrsp4 how you feeling?

@tobeornottobe1 thank you, I'm either 10 or 11dpo not 100% which day I ovulated. Got a super squinty line at 8 or 9 dpo that I wasn't convinced by and then the clear one today, which confirmed it. Doesn't feel real 🙈

@whyhaveidonethis thank you and good luck for testing tomorrow, I will have my fingers crossed for you🤞

@whyhaveidonethis Tested again today and BFN AF due tomorrow so just waiting for her to show up now, feel so disheartened and feel like a failure! Something that's supposed to be so natural and it's not happening sorry for ranting I just feel like all I'm seeing and hearing is babies and pregnancy announcements and I'm happy for all my friends but can't help but think when is it going to be my turn. this is third month of TTC and I know that's nothing compared to some people but I'm just worrying incase there's something wrong, How are you doing?

@mrsp4 hugs. I'm having a shit time of it at the moment too. Can't seem to cheer up at all. I feel so bloody miserable. DP and I don't live together, as he lives near his DD 135 miles away and works shifts, so it's always difficult to spend time together. We plan to move closer together when I conceive, but the distance makes everything so bloody difficult. It puts so much pressure on the time we do have together. He's been down with his DD since boxing day and my DC have done nothing but argue and fight and its stressed us both out so much. I think he's glad he's just left. I won't see him now for a week and I miss him so badly.

Oh bless you @whyhaveidonethis I know exactly how you feel me and DH done long distance for three years before I moved, I was in London and he was in Liverpool and we wasn't TTC then so I can only imagine how you must be feeling with that on your mind too! I hope you get your BFP real soon! Went out shopping today and couldn't help myself and just went in to mothercare looking around and it made me so sad!

Thanks @mrsp4. I just can't shake off this feeling of misery. Been crying all afternoon. I had a day of really bad stabby stomach pain yesterday, really low down and to the right. Obviously I read everything into it! It's gone now though.

Long distance is awful. The pressure eto enjoy our time together is so great that when it's not perfect it feels awful

Oh FX it was implantation cramps! If it's any consolation me and DH have always had such a good relationship and never really argue and I think the long distance really makes you appreciate each other that bit more! I just feel like AF is going to show her ugly self tomorrow, would of had a BFP by now surely! Crazy how some people get BFPs so early on, however one my friends just recently got her BFP and she didn't get it on a HPT until she was 7 weeks so I should really feel a bit more hopeful but I just don't have a good feeling 👎🏼 and if it makes you feel any better at all I cried on Christmas Day for no reason at all! 🙈 then again it could of had something to do with the BFN I got that morning.

@mrsp4 I cried for half of Christmas. I woke up with no children at home for the first time in 18 years. I had no partner with me and although I was surrounded by family later on once they'd gone I just fell apart.

I'm convinced I'm not pg. I'm 10dpo tomorrow and I know it will be a BFN and almost don't want to test

Oh no! Hopefully next Christmas we'll both be in a different situation and will spend next Christmas Day knee deep in shitty nappies 😂 I'm 13 DPO so feeling less and less optimistic as FRERS are just coming back as white as a sheet!

@whyhaveidonethis Help needed please, just went to the loo and had this in my knickers it's dead sticky and thick wasn't a lot but never had this before any ideas? Is this just AF on the way?

P.S sorry for TMI

@mrsp4 that's weird. Maybe you implanted late and it's residual implantation bleeding.

@mrsp4 it looks a bit like a thick mucus

Congratulations @purplerainbows!
Fantastic news.

Sending best wishes to everyone else who’s fed up on this thread. It’s not over yet🤞
@MrsP that looks promising, if you don’t usually spot before AF?
@whyhaveidonethis that stabby pain has been happening for me this eve too. 9dpo today.

I caved and tested this morn, then spent 20 mins squinting at what was almost certainly an evap line😩

I know this sounds disgusting but it actually looked like snot! I was just a bit like woahhh what's this 😳 I suppose I'll have to just wait and see but not holding out much hope as I'm 13DPO today and had a BFN this morning boobs feel a bit throbby tonight so maybe AF will come tomorrow I do really feel like I'm going to come on got that horrible pressure feeling! I just feel like every month I go through the same emotions. Beginning of the month, I'm confident this will be my month, fertile week comes... wooo this is it! TWW yeah this is definitely it or is it? Did I have this last month (I can't remember) I will not POAS until AF is late (Who am I kidding) have a word with myself and decide on a day to test when I said I wasn't going to! I test a get a BFN, get annoyed, it's never gonna happen, life's unfair AF comes and it starts all over again 😂 is this anyone else or just me? 🙈

10dpo today and BFP! It’s faint but it’s there.

Sending ❤️ @MrsP and really hoping this will be your month. Heavier cramps, (along with metallic taste and faster heart rate) were my signs this time too. X

@Clementine19 congratulations

@clementine19 congratulations. I'm also 10dpo today with a BFN though. I don't feel like AF is coming so maybe it's just too early.

I'm 40 years old perhaps it's not meant to be.

@mrsp4