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2 week wait

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Belle2008 · 30/09/2018 08:36

Hey

Would any one like to join me in the two week wait Grin

1dpo so just at the start of it if anyone would like to join me!!

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OctoberGirl91 · 10/11/2018 10:22

Yes I agree with you both @Lemon1 @Belle2008 I've only been on this group for this two week wait and best thread I've been on, no one else knows I'm conceiving after my MC good to have somewhere to vent and be able to chat.

I had a glass last night I had been so stressed I thought I haven't drank since July I'm having one! I'm going eat chocolate all weekend my periods only are usually 3 days hopefully be gone by Tuesday and back to business.

I don't think I'm going bother with ClearBlue ovulation test this time and just do every other day, keep taking my vitamins and chill out and then I'm going test day before or day of period being due, I'm not wasting money again
Positive thoughts ladies, we might be on the August bus!

Anyone using fertility gels/lubes? xx

MrsJ88 · 10/11/2018 10:32

Yes I will be on here too as it’s so lovely speaking to you all.

I really don’t know what to do AF isn’t here. I had tiny bit of pink spotting yesterday. Nothing since and last night it was still BFN. Today is CD 30 and I always have AF on time xx

MrsJ88 · 10/11/2018 10:35

Surely a test would show up positive by now? Unless I’ve ovulated really late and it’s taking time or I don’t know. xx

OctoberGirl91 · 10/11/2018 11:07

Aww wonder what's going on @MrsJ88, did you use the eBay OPK this month ? I don't know if to try them instead of ClearBlue this month as it's so expensive with all pregnancy tests I have bought as well xx

Lemon1 · 10/11/2018 11:12

I used eBay one step OPK last month and it picked it up fine... think it cost me about £4 for 30!
Saying that I didn’t get pregnant lol - but the line got dark on the day I assume inovulate xx

MrsJ88 · 10/11/2018 12:01

I just used the cheap ones I ordered them from amazon. But sometimes they are hard to read when you get a positive on those ovulation typically occurs 24 hours later.

This is so strange when I wipe I’ve got like lotion like cm pinky coloured it’s really like creamy like lotion sorry tmi. xx

OctoberGirl91 · 10/11/2018 13:51

No idea sorry @MrsJ88 I just had pink blood which went straight into my period bright red.

I've bought some more refill sticks for my clearblue as I have got two already left and says not to start using them to 21st should ovulate on the Friday/Saturday that week xx

Lemon1 · 10/11/2018 19:37

Sat enjoying a lovely glass of prosecco! Hope you are all okay today xx

OctoberGirl91 · 10/11/2018 20:37

I'm sat with a glass of gin just finished work!
xx

Lemon1 · 10/11/2018 23:08

What’s your plan for Tomorrow Are you going to do a test? I’m excited for you! No period is a good thing! Xx

Lemon1 · 10/11/2018 23:08

^MrsJ88

OctoberGirl91 · 11/11/2018 08:30

Any signs of AF @Belle2008 @MrsJ88 ?

Hope your ok today @Grainedesesame it's tough seeing those BFN when you hope with every fibre that you are pregnant. xx

MrsJ88 · 11/11/2018 11:19

@Lemon1 and @OctoberGirl91 I woke up at 5 am to do a wee now I’m holding it in and am going to test soon. Still no sign of AF for me this has never happened but yesterday I had like a blob of pink blood, not red like creamy pink and my cm is tinted like dark brown pink but not enough to fill a bad like it’s just a small amount. So I don’t know what’s going on!! xxx

Lemon1 · 11/11/2018 11:32

@MrsJ88 could it be implantation bleeding? Xx

MrsJ88 · 11/11/2018 11:37

Is it not too late for it thought @Lemon1 I have been reading other things online and lot of people have had it late but then there BFP is late too I’m really not sure xx

OctoberGirl91 · 11/11/2018 11:40

Fx let us know @MrsJ88 xx

MrsJ88 · 11/11/2018 12:31

So I didn’t have any FRERs left but I did a clear blue digi and said not pregnant. If yest was implantation bleeding then it can take 2/3 days to get a positive. It’s driving me insane! The spotting has stopped now just a little tiny bit of pink when I wipe and that’s it xx

Belle2008 · 11/11/2018 13:57

How strange mrsj hope you get a positive!
I've started af today so cycle day one for me now! Xx

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OctoberGirl91 · 11/11/2018 14:25

Aww I'm on cycle day 2 so we are close in cycle days again, fx for this month!

How late is AF now @MrsJ88 ?xx

MrsJ88 · 11/11/2018 15:01

AF is 4 days late today so I’m really not sure I just wish she’d would come so I can focus on next cycle or get a BFP! xx

OctoberGirl91 · 11/11/2018 17:14

Feeling really upset DH has said tonight he is not sure he wants to continue trying for a third and would rather stick with our 2 DD instead of risking another MC, I cannot stress to him enough how much I really want DC #3 and If he doesn't want to TTC, I don't know what to do... sound stupid but I just know I am not done.

I know sounds selfish I'm very grateful for my 2 DD but I just want one more child and it was something we always spoke about! So upset x

MrsJ88 · 11/11/2018 18:37

Oh no @OctoberGirl91! That is hard. I know it’s not the same but I’ve wanted a baby for a long time and my husband didn’t. He used to say if you want one we’ll have one but I wanted him to want it too. So I waited till he did which was another year or so but it was hard. Maybe you can talk him round and tell him you really don’t feel like your family is complete? xx

bonfirelatte · 11/11/2018 18:50

Hi all,

Hope you don't mind me jumping in.
I have been so convinced I was pregnant this month! It's cycle 5 for us.

Today is CD 28 (I usually have a 28/29 day cycle and usually ovulate around CD15).
I had cramping over the last 4 days, but it felt different to AF cramps- more like pulling. My boobs have felt a little heavy and had the odd pang of nausea. It must be my mind playing tricks as today I have done an IC pink dye test and I did a clear blue digital and both say negative. I feel so disappointed. I'm guessing I'm almost definitely out this month. I just keep wondering if there a any strays to clutch? Anybody been in the same position? X

OctoberGirl91 · 11/11/2018 19:09

So hard isn't it @MrsJ88 we've just had a heart to heart and he is just scared he says for me to go through what we've been through before he doesn't deal well seeing my cry or in pain.
He says he was just stressed earlier but he wants me to be more relaxed and let it happen naturally so I'm going just not let him know about my OPK and stuff. He was excited when we were pregnant so he is obviously scared of being let down again.

Fx he says he's happy to TTC but has said if we MC again he wouldn't want to try agin, so let's hope for a sticky baby xxx

Lemon1 · 11/11/2018 19:11

Oh Octobergirl so sorry to hear that! Maybe this is just some way of showing his grief after the miscarriage! I’m sure he will come round! Men deal with grief so differently to us women! MrsJ is right - Definitely explain to him how you feel xxx

Hi @bonfirelatte! Welcome to the chat!
And yeh that you are TTC!
Gosh symptoms are so cruel right! I was sure I was prego last month as I had all of these new symptoms but our bodies (or minds) are very good at tricking us! It’s not fair!

Super good luck to you for this month! We are all in the same boat so excited to hear hopefully all of us get some good November baby news!!! Xxx

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