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35 replies

feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 21:54

i posted this in pregnancy but probably should be in here...its a bit of a long one... i was on the depo for one injection, finished last decemeber i never had it redone...and bled and bled and bled...had to go on the patch contraceptive to sort it out, which it did, came off patch had a normal period beginning the 16th of may...then on the 31st of may i had asort of jeely like dark brown smear, just the once...then nothing. About 4 days later i started feeling sick. then i began to get sore boobs and i did a test about 4 days ago, an ebay dip test style that came up a faint but pink positive. obviously i was delighted...told everyone because i am a fool...but then got BFN's when i next tested. On the same style tests i have faint faint lines, but they are not getting stronger...on first response, clear blue and tesco brand, nothing at all. I dont know what to think. i recently got diagnosed with cystitus this morning too. any thoughts?

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kittylette · 09/06/2007 21:55

Go to doctors and ask for a bloodtest hun, they are 100%

goodlucl!

feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 22:01

i will go on monday but i am such a mess lol, i always thoght a line was a line and just cant get my head around why i am now getting BFN's but then i am testing every single morning, perhaps i need to wait a bit to get some of the preg hormones higher? i opened up my clear blue digital that said NOT pregnant in a very nasty way and there was a dark blue line and a pale blue line, but then i have since read clear blue does that anyways.

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feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 22:07

see now i looked at the tesco test i did 3 hours ago and there is a faint line there too, but thats just madness really isnt it because you cant count results after the 10 min margin..can you?

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feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 22:14

img403.imageshack.us/img403/7097/dscn1756in1.jpg that was the BFP i got 4 days ago came up within 2 mins. do you think it was a bfp?

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kittylette · 09/06/2007 22:15

thats looks definate to me!

archiesmummy · 09/06/2007 22:28

Don't know if this helps, but both me and my sis had very, very faint 2nd line that was taken as a negative, but were then pregnant a couple of weeks later

feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 22:30

yes kittylette it did to me too hence me jumping round like aloon and telling all i know...duh....and yet all subsequent tests over the last 4 days, three of which were the same brand...were BFN

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archiesmummy · 09/06/2007 22:37

Funny how we're all so different though. I only told my DH and boss until after the 12 week scan.

Anyway, I'd go to doctors TBH

feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 22:41

i just cant keep my mouth shut when it comes to pregnancy especially as we have been so desperate for another, but serves me right for blabbing really.

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barney2 · 09/06/2007 22:56

When I found out I was pregnant I wanted to climb up on to the tallest mountain and tell the world...it's only natural you wanted to tell everyone. With my first child I had a faint blue line which got stronger as the days went by (I did about 11 tests in total...mad and expensive but I was that pleased!) so my advice is to sit tight, chill out and wait....xxxx

feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 23:01

i love that...sit tight and chill out, i would SO love to do that but i am one of those infuriating highly stung manic people that just cant do waiting. i really try, honest i do but by 10am all i can think is..get a test...do a test..imagine a line...its my own fault i know that i am in such a mess, and am slowly going bankrupt on testing but i just cant help myself. Yet for someone whom is so weak on pregnancy testing, i stopped smoking four days ago, on the day i got that faint BFP...just like that. weird huh.

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archiesmummy · 09/06/2007 23:02

Oh absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to tell everyone.
I did to, but I didn't tell anyone the first night as I wanted to do a 2nd (3rd if you count the negative/positive one) test next day and when that test was positive as well I felt like I would jinx it if I told anyone

Tesco do tests for just £2.99 for 1 and £3.88 for 2.
I bought one today but it really was negative and minutes later I got AF

archiesmummy · 09/06/2007 23:03

feelinbloo , well done on giving up

feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 23:10

aw sorry archiesmum, AF is really a witch isnt she. best of luck for next month (i may be joining you yet)

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barney2 · 09/06/2007 23:12

Sorry....I didn't mean to patronise!!! I know how you feel - I've been there twice myself and I was sooooo excited that I may be pregnant the first time I wanted to tell everyone....and couldn't wait the 9 months I WANTED THAT BABY NOW!!!. I was told I couldn't have children - my dh and I spent 5 yrs trying, trying, trying and nothing. It was so hard because all my friends were popping babies out here and there and I had nothing. When I then suddenly started to feel the symptons of early pregnancy I was in buying kits - spending so much money in the process, but I didn't care. When I said 'sit tight and chill out' I meant give it time... a faint blue line may simply indicate your hormone levels are still a bit too low to give a definite positive reading. Try again in a couple of days. Honestly, I know how you feel...two days is a long time but you need to give your hormones a chance to catch up!

archiesmummy · 09/06/2007 23:16

Yeah, 4th time since it came back after baby.

Thanx feelinbloo, I'm sure it will all be ok. Just keep buying those tests

feelinbloo · 09/06/2007 23:31

oh barney lol i didnt mean to come across as if i felt you were patronising, not at all, you were only saying exactly what i am thinking, i meant it honestly when i said i really do wish i could chill out with it, i have been a bit of a nightmare to live with this last week, it would be great to not think about babies for once!

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archiesmummy · 09/06/2007 23:36

But then if you are you will spend 9 months doing nothing but thinking of babies LOL

Hope it goes well for you, do let us know the reselt of your next test, plz

feelinbloo · 10/06/2007 09:27

i did test this morning, tescos own brand, dipped it and got a big fat negative, not even a faint line.

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barney2 · 10/06/2007 16:00

Oh dear..... how overdue are you for a period? xx

feelinbloo · 10/06/2007 19:17

i am due on tomorrow i think but not ure afetr the depo...it would be 27 days from last period then.

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archiesmummy · 10/06/2007 19:29

Tescos own are to be used from 1st day of missed period, soI would do another test then. Sorry, you really will spend all your money on this won't you? LOL

Good Luck!

feelinbloo · 10/06/2007 19:47

yes lol, i am a nightmare, i did a wilkinson cheapie today..didnt realise you needed a pot to pee in to do it, so i just wee'd on it then stood there scratching my head as to why it didnt work at all LMAO i am such a dunce

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barney2 · 10/06/2007 19:49

If you're due on tomorrow you really ought to leave it for a few days....I know....easier said than done but you've got to give your body a chance to get its hormones sorted out to get a definite reading. I had a very faint line once, in between both my children and was absolutely certain I was pregnant and then I did some more kits in the days afterwards and the line disappeared...and true enough I wasn't pregnant. I think sometimes whilst these kits say they are 99.9% accurate it all depends on the individual. Some women find their hormones are up where they should be once they fall pregnant, others are not. We're all different! I'm not saying you're not pregnant but look at it this way...take it you're not pregnant and then if you find out that you are it'll be such a lovely turnaround rather than thinking you're pregnant and facing the disappointing realisation which is bound to upset you dreadfully.....xx

feelinbloo · 10/06/2007 19:53

thast what i am doing at the moment, though i am going for a blood test tomorrow but until i get any results from it...i am not preggers

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