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stressedoutsuzie · 04/04/2018 10:54

I've NC for this as a few people know who I am.

I stupidly had sex on the last day of my period without a condom. There was only a 'few pumps' (dunno how to say that any nicer) and he didn't actually come in me. (But I know you can get pg)

My period is now on day 33 of its cycle which is very unusual for me. I'm only 23 with no other problems in that area. The only other time I've been this late was when I've been stressed.

I've done 2 frers (the 7 day early ones) and they've both come back completely negative. Not even a hint of a line. I also had a tiny bit of blood mid cycle which never usually happens, so now I'm really stressed out.

I don't know what's going on with my body or even if this is the right place to post but I'm completely lost what to do. My head is a mess and I can't concentrate on anything. Can my body do this to me? Make me completely miss a period because I'm so stressed? AFAIK it can't. Help

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stressedoutsuzie · 05/04/2018 16:28

I know that stressing about it isn't helping either. But I can't help it!

Being pregnant would be really bad for me. I've realised this now. After this saga is over I think I need to go to the doctors and sort some contraception out

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Keel · 05/04/2018 16:37

I missed a period once. Wasn't pregnant. Dr said was an hormonal balance and sometimes happens. Might be worth asking for a blood test at drs

Tink2007 · 05/04/2018 16:40

My friend said this happened to her. She just randomly missed one despite being regular as clock work.

Yep, I’m the same. Something has to be sorted as a third is not something we want. We’ve both realised this now. Or I make OH have the snip 😂

Tink2007 · 05/04/2018 16:41

stressedoutsuzie - I’ll inbox you :)

stressedoutsuzie · 05/04/2018 17:22

Keel that does help me but I'm still paranoid

Tink - I think I've replied!

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Keel · 06/04/2018 15:31

Hope AF arrives soon for you both. The body certainly does strange things sometimes.

stressedoutsuzie · 07/04/2018 08:49

Thanks Keel. Still nothing, and I'm pretty sure the continued stressing of where my period is isn't helping either. Even after 6 negative tests now. Maybe 7. A lot anyway

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Tink2007 · 07/04/2018 09:10

Thanks Keel. It’s annoying more than anything though have done 15 tests now 😂

stressedoutsuzie · 08/04/2018 21:38

I'm now a week late with still very very negative tests. Fed up, confused and want to know what's going on with my body Sad

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Keel · 08/04/2018 22:22

Can fully sympathise. It's an horrible feeling. I'd go to GP just to put your mind at rest. Sods law will dictate AF will then arrive.

Tink2007 · 08/04/2018 22:28

Still no sign of mine either.

katybob · 08/04/2018 22:45

Been ttc since Oct had so many different fake symptoms but this month I’m two days over my predicted period date and have really bad diarrhoea and wind any one else had this is it one of the symptoms of early pregnancy. I’m getting to obsessed with googling and want real answers now xx

stressedoutsuzie · 09/04/2018 10:08

I think I'm going to give it another week before I go to the GP - I've been REALLY moody the last couple of days and my face is now home to 5838 spots. Hoping that it means it's on its way.

Katybob - have you done a test?

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katybob · 09/04/2018 10:33

Trying to leave it till over 28 days as my period has been all over the place. Every day is like shrodingers cat

stressedoutsuzie · 09/04/2018 10:57

Katybob if there's anything I've learnt from this saga it's don't google. You'll find something that says you are, something that tells you you're not. It hasn't helped my stress at all. I'm just avoiding at all costs

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Tink2007 · 09/04/2018 15:45

Google is never your friend!

katybob · 10/04/2018 23:13

PoSitive test today 3-4 weeks

cupcakesandglitter · 10/04/2018 23:19

Congrats @katybob 🎉

stressedoutsuzie · 11/04/2018 09:51

Congrats katybobSmile

Still nothing for me. But I've never suffered this much PMS in my life Confused

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stressedoutsuzie · 12/04/2018 19:45

I'm now 11 days late. I did a test this morning after 9 hours of not going for a wee and it's like this (pic attached I hope. Don't really know what I'm doing)

I feel really PMS'y but I also feel sick a lot. Convinced it must be in my head but it's hard to believe at the same time.

Aaaah

Help please.
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Tink2007 · 13/04/2018 18:39

Mine arrived yesterday after being 21 days late :)

stressedoutsuzie · 13/04/2018 18:46

I thought I'd update this, in case anyone in the future stumbles upon it.

It FINALLY happened. 12 days late. I've never been happier Grin

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