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Squinter or evap?

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gjddyUp · 28/03/2018 09:09

Please can anyone talk to me honestly about this pic? Anyone who knows about Evap lines?

Due to test this morning so I waited and did the test, thought it was negative but my minds eye said it was faintly there.

I've become a crazed person who apparently cracks open preg tests now! But here's the pic...

Background - two rounds of ivf. This was a FET.

Squinter or evap?
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Speedy85 · 31/03/2018 08:15

Bad luck OP Flowers I'm very sorry.

kikisparks · 31/03/2018 08:19

So so sorry OP x

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gjddyUp · 31/03/2018 08:23

Thank you. I just wish this would happen for us naturally without having to go through all of this.

Last year it took us the whole year to have one round of ivf.

Started cycle in Feb and had egg collection, turned out to have OHSS so had to freeze and wait a few cycles to get back to normal. Finally had my egg transferred last May and got pregnant June but it was a chemical.

Then had to wait more cycles to 'reset' and stimming and egg collection in October. Fresh transfer couldn't take place as they saw fluid in my one remaining tube so they wanted me to wait a few cycles.

So that takes us to now! Had a grade A blastocyst transferred and now it was another chemical.

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RLOU88 · 31/03/2018 08:35

So sorry x

BrutusMcDogface · 31/03/2018 08:38

So, so sorry 💐😔

skippykips · 31/03/2018 09:05

Oh @gjddyUp I am so so sorry. ❤️

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gjddyUp · 31/03/2018 09:31

Thank you guys I really appreciate your support. Going to have a day of doing things I wouldn't have been able to do if I was pregnant I think! Distraction will be the key.

I just want to dive into my next round straight away now but I know it's not that easy.

At least I have a busy Easter planned. Hope you guys are all up to lots of nice things this weekend too.

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Lamaitresse · 31/03/2018 13:30

So sorry that it’s another cp GjddyUp, it’s tough I know. I just wanted to come on to wish you well & to give you a bit of hope. We went through lots of IVF to have our dd (now 4) and so many FET’s I lost count. My goodness it was difficult, that terrible sadness when it doesn’t work, and the strength you need to pick yourself back up and try again. The round before falling pregnant I was devastated, and just about ready to give up. Distraction is definitely a good idea - and slowly you’ll start to feel stronger again. Wishing you lots of luck, and a successful round next time round...

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gjddyUp · 31/03/2018 13:56

Thanks so much Chintaria that's kind of you to come on and say. Yes that does give me hope and I won't give up.

I haven't told anyone at work but I think for the next round I might have to tell my manager because trying to have short notice days off work is quite stressful too.

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mineallmine · 02/04/2018 00:46

Ah giddy up I'm so sorry. It's just shit. Like you, my IVF cycles didn't go easy and I had many cancellations. It makes it a whole other level of hard when even the IVF isn't straightforward.
You need to find ways to be very kind to yourself for the next while while you mourn this loss.

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gjddyUp · 02/04/2018 08:23

Thank you. Finally started AF last night and it's a very painful one too.

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RLOU88 · 02/04/2018 08:57

Flowers and my best wishes to you x

DartmoorDoughnut · 02/04/2018 09:55

So sorry Sad lots of love on the way and fingers crossed for the future Flowers

PonyPals · 04/04/2018 11:44

You're welcome to join us in a current thread.
Not sure if the link works.

IVF/ICSI (2) - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf/icsi journeywww.mumsnet.com/Talk/infertility/3200501-IVF-ICSI-2-A-supportive-group-of-ladies-at-various-stages-of-the-ivf-icsi-journey

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gjddyUp · 18/09/2018 14:30

I have been waiting until I feel safe enough to post this, but I am pregnant....with Twins! Had my next IVF cycle after the April chemical at the end of June.

Very scary start with lots of bleeding but touch wood all ok so far and roughly 14 weeks along. Thanks to everyone for your kind replies previously. I just wanted to update

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Cakelaur · 18/09/2018 14:44

Omg!!! Massive congratulations!! I LOVE a happy ending to a squinter thread!! Hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well!! Xx

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gjddyUp · 18/09/2018 15:00

Thanks so much!!

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Chocolateismyvice · 18/09/2018 15:05

Didn't see the original thread but what a lovely ending!! Congratulations, OP. How wonderful. Flowers Grin Cake

Stormwhale · 18/09/2018 15:58

Wow wow wow op!!!! What wonderful news. Congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy with your two beautiful babies. Absolutely thrilled for you. Flowers

babybrainy · 18/09/2018 16:41

Fabulous news, congratulations

DontRollWithThePinches · 18/09/2018 16:44

Awww congratulations!

Chimchar · 18/09/2018 16:49

Hooray! What a lovely update! Congratulations to you on having two babies! Thanks

TokyoSushi · 18/09/2018 16:52

Wonderful news!! Congratulations!

Singingitoverandoverandover · 18/09/2018 17:02

Aw this made me smile in the end that’s FANTASTIC! Wishing you well and all the happiness in The world for you and your expanding family! Flowers

Iputthescrewinthetuna · 18/09/2018 17:49

Yay! A big fat double congratulations to you! ❤️❤️ x

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