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Af due today but bfn (clear blue digital test but not FMU)

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Sansara · 31/12/2017 07:51

Dear Moms and to be moms,
Me and DH TTC. This is our 3rd month of trying. This month I spotted a lil blood in mid of my cycle (had a rough travel on that day) - thought ovulation spotting. Usually I have 30-32 days of cycle. From 8 dpo I have symptoms like queasy, bit gassy than usual, sleepy in the day time (literally was sleeping for 4-5 hrs) later got motion sickness when I travel by car all this was till 13 dpo then slowly subsided. Thought af will arrive today 31st Dec .. however still she hasn't showed up. And am feeling tired and have motion sickness now. Also I feel sleepy. I took a clear blue digital test - bfn but now FMU. I have mild pelvic bone cramps on and off from yesterday evening. Anyone on the same boat? Pls help. This 2 week wait is - aaaaarghhh

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Lillybilly20 · 31/12/2017 08:34

I’m now 4 days late and have taken 3 tests all BFN! I’ve never been this late before but it can happen. I think it’s very unlikely that I am pregnant With a BFN after my due period but I just wish AF would show up so I can get on with the next cycle. Could you wait a few days and test again? Xxx it’s bloody hard TTC isn’t it!

Pumpkin18 · 31/12/2017 08:46

I am 3 days late today..i am never late but 2 bfns tell me I'm not preggo. This is so annoying! Feel like AF isn't going to arrive but prob just getting my hopes up

mrsm12 · 31/12/2017 17:57

Im 4 days late and 3 bfn, so frustrating

Pumpkin18 · 31/12/2017 18:06

@Lillybilly20 and @mrsm12 sounds like we are all in the same boat! Just done a 3rd test and bfn. Going to try to hold off now and see what happens. Let us know how you both get on too! Smile

Lillybilly20 · 01/01/2018 11:37

5 days late now and still BFN! 😕

Pumpkin18 · 01/01/2018 12:08

@Lillybilly20 4 days late here, of course didn't manage to hold off testing so another bfn today. It's so frustrating isn't it? I have checked my cycles and I've only ever been 1 day late in the last year! Getting ahead of myself and starting to think I'm preggo, really sick of the waiting now! Xmas BlushXmas Grin I'm the most impatient person in the world

Lillybilly20 · 01/01/2018 15:21

Pumpkin18 I’m the same, I’m never normally more than a day or two late! It’s so frustrating, I just want to know either way!

Pumpkin18 · 01/01/2018 15:47

AF arrived this afternoon Sad I guess at least I know and can keep trying, just feel sad now. Need to take a leaf out of my husbands book, he was ignoring it when I told him I was a few days late as he didn't want me to get my hopes up.
SadSadSad

Lillybilly20 · 01/01/2018 16:03

Pumpkin18 oh I’m so sorry to hear that. At least you can get on with your next cycle. I’m going to try the SMEP when my AF finally returns and I can get on with things! My husband is the same, I was convinced I would get a positive at 3 days late but he said it would most likely be negative and of course he was right! I’ve read healthy couples only have a 25% chance every month of conceiving, I only have once tube due to an ectopic last year so even less for me xxx

mrsm12 · 01/01/2018 16:55

Af arrived last night for me, happy new year from mother nature. New cycle, new chance

Lillybilly20 · 01/01/2018 17:23

mrsm12 yes it’s good to be positive! Good luck 🍀😊

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Sansara · 02/01/2018 08:10

hey all, sorry was away for new year (long weekend here in UAE) Pumpkin18 i am sorry to hear that.. don't loose hopes. you got another new cycle.. Happy TTC mrsm12 to you too :) Lillybilly20 - did u check again? i am also waiting badly :( 3 days late.. but am scared to take take any test. and am now suffering from UTI. i used thrush cream Cannestan. Let us hope for the best..

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Lillybilly20 · 02/01/2018 08:16

Yes now 6 days late but I have ran out of tests and I’m away in a foreign country so might have to wait it out until the weekend xx. It’s so scary taking a test isn’t it! Xxx

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Sansara · 02/01/2018 08:34

yes, true.. :( It is pain to wait ...hmmm.. I may go to doctor for a check up. I will keep you posted. any other symptoms now?

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Lillybilly20 · 02/01/2018 08:55

Yes I’m really tired and my boobs are sore and massive! All signs of either pregnancy or AF 😕

boringbetty · 02/01/2018 09:00

I'm in the same position . 6 days late 4 bfn . I just want to know what's going on . I'm trying to think positive but at the same time don't want to get my hopes up

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Sansara · 02/01/2018 09:57

Lilly. oh no then we cannot guess too na.. for both it is the same symptoms.. Confused..
Betty hehehe welcome to the club.. hope something happens soon :/

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Booboo2018 · 03/01/2018 11:39

Day 7 still no AF or BFP 🧐

boringbetty · 03/01/2018 14:06

Same Booboo . But I've not tested today . Waiting till Friday to do one . What's going on ??

boringbetty · 04/01/2018 09:42

AF arrived last night Angry

Onetwothree2018 · 04/01/2018 13:10

Me too 😕 I think I might invest in the clear blue advanced fertility monitor for next month xxx

CoconutGal · 04/01/2018 16:51

Day 4 for me. This is the longest I've gone without AF turning up. Considering booking a doc appointment but don't know what exactly I want them to do. All my tests have come back BFN. I have lots of internet cheapies tests but reluctant to keep testing if all I'm getting is BFN. 😒

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