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Hoping for a positive November! Old thread too big to post messages

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cityangel · 17/11/2006 13:32

Hey November bunnes, perhaps it's me but it says thread too big to post messages? If it is me then just then this thread die.

Thanks for everyone's advice on temping and OPKs it is very useful. ready4 I fancy a snooze it was tough getting out of bed today. Miserable weather out there.

Hi Chooster aka rr. Sounds like a good plan! I also work in IT for a bank, but all my colleagues are male so I'd be very surprised if they came up to me at the coffee machine and wanted to discuss the unthinkable

Not long to go for us now in Nov... 13 days

Happy Friday

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Babymad2DS · 24/11/2006 09:22

Babymad cycle 19, CD23, OVed CD14, 9dpo, AF due 28-30 nov, testing 28th+ nov, I'm an impatient person !

femaleofthespecies, cycle 7, cd26, ov'd not sure exactly when (think it was much earlier than usual this month - sometime between cd12 and cd20). af due 27-29, already been far too impatient and got bfn's (funnily enough)!

Conkertree cycle 1, CD31 OVed maybe CD21 maybe not, AF due when it comes -could be any time now, may test at the weekend.

I'll put them in order when everyone has posted!

honeyapple · 24/11/2006 09:33

Babymad cycle 19, CD23, OVed CD14, 9dpo, AF due 28-30 nov, testing 28th+ nov, I'm an impatient person !

femaleofthespecies, cycle 7, cd26, ov'd not sure exactly when (think it was much earlier than usual this month - sometime between cd12 and cd20). af due 27-29, already been far too impatient and got bfn's (funnily enough)!

Conkertree cycle 1, CD31 OVed maybe CD21 maybe not, AF due when it comes -could be any time now, may test at the weekend.

Honeyapple, cycle 3, cd25, ov'd cd15 (i think!).
AF due on monday i reckon...test monday?

MrsMcJnr · 24/11/2006 09:49

Babydust and everything crossed for you Babymad, Female, Conkertree and Honeyapple.

There are at least 5 of us due/testing in the first week of December so let's hope the next 2 weeks give us bumper BFPs

DH was not too impressed with the flowers and suggested I put them on the floor but I think they make the room look better

firststar · 24/11/2006 10:22

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cityangel · 24/11/2006 10:44

Hey Nov. AF today CD1 so I'm off on my sleigh to Dec.
Thanks for all your support. Bd dates matched the right time but it wasn't to be.
Here's hoping we have more Nov BFPs before month end.

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firststar · 24/11/2006 10:56

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greedyguzzler · 24/11/2006 13:13

babyfettle - i am looking forward to hearing from you today! my temp had gone DOWN again this morning so i dont think i did ovulate after all! i am VERY pissed off! what is going on? someone help me!!!! i am on cd27 today. also, had a big row with dh last night and so no BDing last night either. i am getting really fed up with this whole thing. i have got a cold too so that could be why i had the temp rise i guess.

greedyguzzler · 24/11/2006 13:16

sorry to hear about AF city. i feel for you.
good luck conker, honeyapple, babymad and female. fingers crossed! chances are at least one of you will get a bfp!

greedyguzzler · 24/11/2006 13:17

Babymad cycle 19, CD23, OVed CD14, 9dpo, AF due 28-30 nov, testing 28th+ nov, I'm an impatient person !

femaleofthespecies, cycle 7, cd26, ov'd not sure exactly when (think it was much earlier than usual this month - sometime between cd12 and cd20). af due 27-29, already been far too impatient and got bfn's (funnily enough)!

Conkertree cycle 1, CD31 OVed maybe CD21 maybe not, AF due when it comes -could be any time now, may test at the weekend.

Honeyapple, cycle 3, cd25, ov'd cd15 (i think!).
AF due on monday i reckon...test monday?

greedy - cycle 5, cd27 ov'd ?????? not sure if i have or not! will test around 6th dec if no af cos i wont be able to hold out any longer!

Chooster · 24/11/2006 13:29

Sorry cityangel - Good luck on the sleigh in December - we'll be keeping fingers crossed!

FemaleoftheSpecies · 24/11/2006 13:31

bad luck cityangel - what a bugger. treat yourself to some nice food and drink this w'end.

babyfettle · 24/11/2006 15:58

Hi everyone!

Quieter today! Good luck to you all 4 testing over/after the weekend.

Sorry about AF, CityAngel ? hope Christmas brings you a BFP

Greedy ? my temp was still up this morning ? but I just feel hotter, so I think it might be snotty cold related. Sorry to hear your temp is down again ? I had a one day rise 2 weeks ago, which I got really excited about, but then it was down again the next day. I?ll let you know how I get on over the weekend ? but probably definitely time I migrated to the Dec thread.

P.S is Sawyer as good looking as Adam from Spooks?! [swooning icon]

MrsMcJnr · 24/11/2006 16:06

That's a tricky one Babyfettle! Sawyer would be great for a wild night out (or in ) but Adam's well .. definatley a night in type.

Hope things get better for you over the weekend.

1n2s · 24/11/2006 17:00

AF has arrived, god I feel so devestated, tearful and in * agony this month!! Really feel so down now and really soooo fed up of TTC now. Poor DH is also very sad which makes even me sadder. Feel like an absolute failure.....
Big handfuls of babydust to you all x

greedyguzzler · 24/11/2006 17:00

so you dont watch lost then babyfettle? we are definately not the same person! saywer is LOVELY! really sexy.....mmmmmmmmmmm. nice to think about if BDing starts to get a bit dull!
and MrsMcSpink you are obviously just a telly addict who watches everything! so what do we think about sean in eastenders then? a bit sexy too hey?

FemaleoftheSpecies · 24/11/2006 17:09

sorry l2ns - we all share your misery - you're NOT a failure - just a very normal woman. don't think otherwise.

way tmi here but cervix feels like it's opened which signals advent of af for me too.

this is just too frustrating.. i wouldnt mind but my boobs look like someone has polished them, shiny, hard, nipples bumpy and they just throb but this seems to be life ttc for me.

i cant even think which blokes i fancy from the telly - used to like andy hunter from eastenders but he's off screen with real life wife & babies coming out of her ears. typical.

greedyguzzler · 24/11/2006 17:16

sorry 1n2s i crossed posts with you and didnt notice yours i wasnt just being a completely heartless bitch!
so sorry to hear about af. dont know what to say really, its heartbreaking isnt it. at least your dh is supportive and understands. you can both be miserable for a couple of days and then start thinking positively about december! if you are really fed up of ttc why not take dec off and chill out and just BD whenever rather than getting hung up on it (that is what i plan to do if i get a bfn) then you can start again in jan with renewed enthusiasm!

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cityangel · 24/11/2006 17:19

Sorry 1n2s I know its really tough big hug to you and dh. Come over to Dec we are all comtemplating a mad trip to a fertility statue in Blackpool. I am CD1 today too cycle buddy.

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honeyapple · 24/11/2006 18:13

Hi 1n2s, sorry to hear about your AF... it is really frustrating. Keep positive and keep trying, you will get your BFP! I agree with Greedy about taking Dec off...We should ALL stop worrying about BDing enough and at the right time.
The other night, me and DP had SEX! We were not BDing! (No chance as I am at end of 2ww) Anyway, it was lovely! And rather a novelty! Sex for fun!

babyfettle · 24/11/2006 18:46

Oh 1n2s - so sorry for AF. I don't know your history, but it is heartbreaking every month. I would echo everyone else has said and think about taking a month off to relax. When I was trying for DD after 18 months of heartache, we stopped trying and within 6 weeks I was pg!

Maybe we should all possibly try as Honeyapple said, BD-ing for fun. Unheard of round my place, until definite ov signs have past!

babyfettle · 24/11/2006 18:47

Oh 1n2s - so sorry for AF. I don't know your history, but it is heartbreaking every month. I would echo everyone else has said and think about taking a month off to relax. When I was trying for DD after 18 months of heartache, we stopped trying and within 6 weeks I was pg!

Maybe we should all possibly try as Honeyapple said, BD-ing for fun. Unheard of round my place, until definite ov signs have past!

babyfettle · 24/11/2006 18:52

Sorry - crashed computer!

Greedy - Sean from Eastenders. He's a possible, but I don't think he'd make my list of 3.

Think I'm going to have to check out Sawyer now! Don't watch Lost, as have to admit, not often up that late and don't have Sky!

honeyapple · 24/11/2006 18:55

I'm been feeling sick again today. Think I must be having a phantom pregnancy... most "experts" seem to say that sickness symptoms would only start after AF due... and I've still got a couple of days to wait.
Although I've been pregnant before, because I wasnt TTC at the time, I wasnt looking out for symptoms!
Anyone have any opinion re. feeling sick as early as this? Cheers

babyfettle · 24/11/2006 19:06

Hi Honeyapple - it could be a good sign. But I've found that every cycle since my mc earlier this year, when I've been really focussing on TTC that I do feel sick a couple days before AF arrives. I hope in your case though that it is good news

greedyguzzler · 24/11/2006 20:02

honeyapple - i have had morning sickness with both of my pregnancies but i am sorry to say it didnt kick in till 6 weeks either time. its all to do with the hormone levels isnt it? and they are not supposed to be high enough until about 5 and a half or 6 weeks. having said that i have heard of lots of people feeling sick earlier and everyone is different so it could be a sign you never know! fingers crossed!