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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

June BFP anyone?

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StrawberryRiceCake · 20/05/2015 07:51

This is cycle #3 TTC for me. I really hoping this will be my month. Who's with me?

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sampypants · 26/05/2015 12:34

Back again to check in with everyone. Still a little way off ovulation, am not finding this wait as bad as the TWW.

Only had a two day AF last week, and suffered with a lot of migraines (4 in a fortnight during TWW and AF, usually get one a fortnight), so I'd convinced myself that maybe I was pregnant after all. A test quickly closed that one down!

So that'll teach me. Starting to monitor BBT now, this is right up my nerdy street I have to say.

smellsofelderberries · 26/05/2015 13:05

Isn't it fun, Sampypants? I'm really enjoying temping. Amazing how much you can learn about your body by doing it!

keys27 · 26/05/2015 14:01

Hi guys can I join you all pleased. Im on my WTF cycle after having a d+c last Sunday (17th May).
Stopped bleeding saturday but been feeling the real need to dtd constantly not just because I want the pregnancy again so bad but I just feel so close to OH since losing the baby makes me even more ready to fall again. According to my normal cycle im most likely to ovulate between 28th May and 2nd June. Hoping this is right as OH will be away 4th-9th June. My next AF is due 17th June.
Keeping everything crossed (except the legs Blush.

Good luck guys looking forward to riding this journey through with you all.

sampypants · 26/05/2015 14:09

It really is - I feel like I'm back at school learning all this new stuff.

Welcome keys27 Smile

keys27 · 26/05/2015 15:08

:). This has made an interesting read the last half hour. Learning alot.

Guys just want to ask your advice. I mean this cycle is obviously not going to be like a normal cycle. However if my d+c was on Sunday 17th May they said take that as your first day of your period. I bled for around 5-6 days normal for me on my AF. Now saying this is a normal cycle for me 28 days when are my most fertile days? I am worrying a little as OH goes away on the 4th June until 9th. I am worried that's my window.

VioletIbiza88 · 26/05/2015 15:33

Hiya keys I'm also due AF on 17th of June if I have another 28 day cycle. Without using opk's and temping to confirm it you cant accurately pinpoint when your most fertile days will be. You could estimate ovulation roughly by taking 14 days away from your expected AF date, which would make Wednesday 3rd June your date of expected ovulation. Then your most fertile days would be Monday 1st to Wednesday 3rd June. But off course you could ovulate a little earlier or a little later than that.

Just read your posts back and realised that there are 31 days between 17th may and 17 june. So if your expecting a 28 day cycle you won't be expecting AF on 17 june?

So if your AF is due 14th June then your most fertile days working it out the same way would be 29-31st May, with 31st been posible ovulation date.

So putting all that together I would dtd as much as you can between 28th and when DH goes away.

keys27 · 26/05/2015 15:39

violet omg yea your right I didnt even think of it being that long but now counting this is why it was not adding up. I only stopped bleeding on Saturday but been getting pains on my right side and boobs are a little sore which were always my signs ovulation was near. So I better dtd as much as I can and hope for the best. That must mean same for you as well hun? We will be testing together. I wish you all the best for a bfp this month x

VioletIbiza88 · 26/05/2015 16:11

Keys My last AF was 20th May so due another one on 17th June which is when I'm planning to test. I'm 27 and on my 3rd cycle ttc#1. How about you? These threads are great for meeting people who will be testing about the same time. Good luck!

keys27 · 26/05/2015 16:34

I am 29 hun I have 2 DD's one 5 and one 2. Had three mc's one before my 5 year old at 5 weeks then one after 5 year old at 7 weeks now this one I had last week at 13 weeks :(. Both my DD's are premmies as well my 5 year old was born 32 weeks gest and my 2 year old was born 27 weeks gest the youngest now has cerebral palsy due to a brain bleed at birth where she was so tiny nearly lost her so I am truly blessed already. Always wanted 3 children at nice age gaps.

Luckily was seen by a consultant before I had this mc and was told my premature births were caused by a weak cervix so will need a stitch at 16 weeks and there's no reason now I wont be carry a full term baby.
So had a rollercoaster ride really hun. So now im back on board and TTC again so this is my first cycle after mc so no idea of ovulation and af I can only go by what they told me and that was take my first day of my period on my d+c which was last Sunday they said I would bleed for 5-6 days like a period and I did and there was no reason why I couldnt try straight away.

So heres hoping we get our positives this month be lovely to be testing with somebody :)

FlatWhiteToGo · 26/05/2015 22:21

Welcome to all the newbies waves at everyone I'm so sorry to hear about the miscarriages. My heart really goes out to both of you. You're so brave for carrying on and starting over x x x

Vap how is life in the DPO brigade and the obsessive symptom spotting? Are you still feeling really tired? I hope this TWW hurries up for you as it's the worst time!

As for my op (assuming they go down this route), it can assist conception as it 'clears the way' and there are no additional risks if the op is a success. The risk comes if the endo is excessive and they need to cut/laser loads out and end up damaging important parts (ovaries, fallopian tube etc) along the way. Arghhhhhh.

pingoose · 26/05/2015 22:28

sampypants I geek out about temping too! I've never paid this much attention to my body before!

Vap0 · 26/05/2015 22:44

Sorry to hear about these miscarriages. So incredibly sad.
Flowers
flat it's all gone a bit boring here, tiredness has gone and no symptoms at all! I want a symptom!! 5dpo. Can't wait to poas!
What's the earliest you can test again? Is it 10dpo? Or later?

FlatWhiteToGo · 27/05/2015 07:18

Oh no! Well I guess no symptoms is better than imagined symptoms! I think 10 DPO is about the earliest you can test. I can't comment on the success rates as I've never had a BFP. Maybe get some ICs so you don't waste too much money? Also, if it's bad news, which upsets you more: AF or a BFN? I always find AF worse as I have no control over when and where I find out...but most people on MN seem to find BFNs worse! Oh good luck! Keeping my fingers crossed. Will you test the end of this week/weekend then?x

louwn · 27/05/2015 14:06

I think (no temping or anything fancy like that) i am 11 dpo and getting my usual pre period spots. AF due on Sat so feels like I might be out this month, boo.

keys27 · 27/05/2015 14:14

Fingers crossed guys AF stays away for you and positives are on the way. Before my mc I knew I was coming on my AF and it didnt arrive back cramps mood swings tummy pains I took cbd and came back pregnant 2-3 weeks nearly feel off the toilet seat haha so good luck xxx

louwn · 27/05/2015 18:41

Thanks keys. Fingers crossed for you too post-mc.

birchygoo · 27/05/2015 20:00

hi everyone I hadn't realised a June bus had been set up! I was still stuck on May even though I fell of long ago! pulpi we are due to test same day!

stats: 30 TTC #1 cycle 7/8 trying not to remember now! bfp due 10th June, 1dpo ( I think that's correct - had peak on cbfm on Mon day, so ovulate tuesday!?) tried temping this month and its a laugh its every which way! according to it I have not yet ovulated..

FlatWhiteToGo · 27/05/2015 22:25

Hi Birchy welcome to the June bus. Hopefully some of the others will follow! We don't have any stats yet Sad...but it would be a good idea x

louwn · 27/05/2015 22:36

I have pregnancy tests right next to where I am currently. The temptation to test is huge!!!

birchygoo · 27/05/2015 23:00

flat would be great to get some stats - I would offer but am snowed under at the min ... Any takers?

Would be interesting to see if we match the stats of 20-25% chance of falling pregnant each month...

FlatWhiteToGo · 28/05/2015 06:40

Birchy me too, so I often go awol for a few days. I also only have an iPad so am not sure if that would work Sad. Any takers? Smile x

birchygoo · 28/05/2015 07:48

its my first month using ff and I was getting worried as it hadnt told me I ovulated but this morning it has just decided I ovulated on Monday Grin Grin I've been doing smep so Monday was also day I got my peak reading so have been bd all week! shattered lol night of tonight but hopefully this works!

keys27 · 28/05/2015 08:00

Oh I would guys but to be fair I really dont know what I am doing lol.

louwn Did you give in to temptation? I know I would have :( no willpower me lol. I remember when I was pg with DD1 I was on the train to work and all I could smell was garlic my AF was due on the Friday this was a Tuesday I done First response when I got home negative I was gutted tbh because I knew First response were really sensitive and was 3rd month of trying. No AF appeared Friday at work so took my other first response and it came back positive. So the first response was not very sensitive with me. Just goes to show you what 3 days can do to your hormones.

I brought loads of cheap pg and opk's off of amazon yesterday will have to hide them from OH lol otherwise he will think im obsessing and I dont want that.

On a positive for me my pg test come back negative yesterday so all the hormone from my mc is out my system with is great for somebody who was 9 week pregnant for it to be gone so quickly means my body is all clear now and good to start again some people have the hormone for 4-6 weeks and cant fall pregnant until that hormone has gone. I think I am ovulating today sorry for tmi there Blush had pains in right side yesterday and cramps and today got my show. Dont have my test strips yet though only ordered them last night. For me though my body wont get pregnant until its ready so I am really anxious this month.

Fingers crossed we get our June bfp's guys. Really hoping for some good news.

If anyone does do the stats heres mine.

29 ttc#3 1st cycle since mc on May 17th bfp due 14th june. Think I am on first day of ovulation.

KleineDracheKokosnuss · 28/05/2015 08:00

I'm hoping for a 9 June bfp. Currently a couple of days post ovulation so far as I can tell (not using opks ay present so just going off usual cycle and cervix).

keys27 · 28/05/2015 08:01

birch Haha made me giggle night off tonight. Fingers crossed for you hun.

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